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shedluv (18)
5 years ago

D_Man,
I have already told every one who cares the community and location. So its a matter of your own findings and opinion. That you doubted the gist does not make it fake, because its real.
It also shows there are things you are still ignorant about.
Well 4d records again, it is in AKWA-IBOM State.
C U.

29 Apr 09, 02:52 PM
AbassGLove (2)
5 years ago

marrying my mother is a high degree taboo,   Angry.  people prefer customs that are outcast and which add more salt to injury the prefer it to the commandment of God that is supreme and eternal life is guarateed. We should no the root of some of this traditions. some of the tradition came into been as a result of the sins of grandfathers. so therefore, we should ignore some of this traditions. Lips Sealed

30 Apr 09, 10:32 AM
NwaChelsea (15)
5 years ago

hey hey hey hey enough............. guyz is ok you see i have investigated and also made some enquiries about this very stuff and from my investigation i found out that their is no custom or tradition in nigeria that allow such to happen in their society, is not possible, that is an abominable act.
but what i latter found out similar to that in some part of nigeria ''a guy can marry his father's wife that is his (step mother)only if/and when his father is late'' and that was in the olden days not strong this days
so who ever bring this issue out please and please tell us which part of nigeria this happens if not i most say that who raise this issue is only wasting our time here.
how can you people believe such rubish ehh Huh?Huh?? IMAGING URSELF THERE IF YOU BELIEVE THAT I MYSELF CANT BELIEVE OK
TUFIAKWA!!!  ALU!!! Abomination!!!
 

7 May 09, 04:02 PM
Maggiecube (2329)
2 years ago

IC

8 May 12, 04:25 PM
mizcollins1 (6453)
2 years ago

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

8 May 12, 04:36 PM
jimroc (70)
2 years ago

Quote from: masquerade on 24 Apr 09, 03:33 AM
A woman agreeing to marry her son is an accepted practice in igboland. Her chioce to marry the son is not for procreatn (cos its 4biden) is to
1. Stil be a member of family to which her love (hubby) died or alive, is stil a member.
2. It also gives her a right of selflessness 2 raise her kids & nt answerable 2 any man bt 2 d family.
3. It takes away societal stigma of widowhood 4m a woman

If we dnt ve norms & belief systems...we r nothing bt savages...I wud luv to know where ur story happened?
  i suppose you drank some heavy kunu the night b4 mustering the minds to composing this piece of trash, for no one in his right minds does this. where did you get all these ideas from? and who told you they were practiced in igboland? people that often have the most say about a thing or place are those that truly have nothing with it. from the inception of the tribe till the present day, no where in its history had there being any incidence of a man marrying his own mother, sister, step mother, etc for whatever reason. this is sacrilege or *ARU* in igboland and with a heavy penalty. i would like to know when and which part of the tribe were these things practiced.
  i think you need to sanitize a bit, the contents of such dead mindsets of yours if you wanna be meaningful. i suppose you had a personal grudge with someone and you think here s the best place for it? get serious A*#S!

25 May 12, 11:14 AM
jimroc (70)
2 years ago

Quote from: shedluv on 22 Apr 09, 01:56 PM
I don't understand the meaning of customs and tradition any more and i think if there is need Nigeria should be redesigned. You see, somethings sounds like taboo, abomination and incense or better still sacrilege. But, i dont even know these things existed, where it is normal for a man to bed his mother in the name of custom, until my relocation to my new station.
do you know in a part of Nigeria, a woman or widow is permitted to marry her son and raise (i mean live together, sleep together and conceive and bear children for him)children for him? Now how do you feel having to choose between your girl friend and mother?
Let me be candid a little. A woman's husband dies and she was being asked if who would she want to be re-married to? She simply said her first son against the brothers in-law eying her. the son accepted and they performed the necessary traditional marriage right and was allowed to take the so called wife (mother) to his bosom. The man keeps the new wife in their home town and comes from Abuja to visit as often. Bobbo just newly got married to fine girl but never explained the other side to the wife.
The height of the whole thing happened when both mother and new wife were pregnant for man.
The lady felt like committing suicide but was told that that was the custom and that actions was uncalled for.
I tried asking a friend why would such a custom be allowed but he simply asked me, what difference has this from men who marry their late brothers wives, in some part of the country.
For me, even if that was the only thing to reject that will make me being an outcast, i think it's worth doing. Some of these evil customs and traditions should be checked and be abolished.


  this is just a figment of your imagination, not some random occurrence, and it all shows how dirty your mind is. we often experience what we believe in, not necessarily true, but were always there to avoid the experience of *odd circumstances* in obverse to what we hold as truth or as *possibilities of existence* as it must, to keep its reflection with our inner thoughts and assumptions for such experiences makes us human. we experience what we dwelt upon most of the time in our thoughts even if its lie, untill we dug deeper for the truth. thus this your personal make ups.
  the fact remains that, no parts of akwa ibom or other south eastern states were such things practiced as custom or tradition. this is just a hearsay, not real.
  get real next time poster, be sure of your posts b4 posting it or else, you told me when exactly, and where in the state were such thing practiced, for there are no such community or place in nigeria without a name.
 

25 May 12, 02:57 PM
uwa190 (401)
2 years ago

Geeeez! Both mother n son r sick spiritually, mentally n otherwise.
Maybe conji de worry d woman but d son should av been able to say no to it.
I only pity d guy's wife who got married into a sick family!

25 May 12, 03:08 PM
chicco77 (22660)
2 years ago

 Shocked

23 Aug 12, 08:37 AM
Symochii (67)
2 years ago

Custom you said? Then that man is not the first. Because he has brought the custom to light, so it has been in existance even long before the man was born. Note.

23 Aug 12, 02:59 PM
softhils (1392)
1 year ago

where are all d guys in d house,come
n answer ur question o

7 Sep 13, 12:46 AM
Toks-E (37230)
1 year ago

Some kain traditions sef dey tire person oo


7 Sep 13, 06:34 PM
ezeelechi (6)
1 year ago

Gosh can't believe what I just saw,that is the highest level of sacrilege.that community is caused.#unbelievable#

8 Sep 13, 08:36 AM
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