playing the Victim!

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at 02:24 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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 Why is it that when the r/ship ends, women always play the victim and how much the guy has treated her wrong. I mean do you females ever stop for once and ask yourself what is it that you were doing wrong b4 pointing fingers.

Akpan01 at 02:35 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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HMMM WHEN A RELATIONSHIP IS FINISHED A WOMAN THINK ABOUT IT SEVERAL TIMES WHAT SHE WAS DOING WRONG...AND MAYBE SOMETIMES WE BLAME OURSELF MAXIMUM WE NOT SHOW IT TO THE PUBLIC...BUT NORMALLY AND 70% OF BREAK UP IS CAUSE OF THE MAN BAD BEHAVER...
LIKE: BEATING/DRINKING/CHETING/ETC....JUST VERY FEW WOMAN WHO CAN DO SUCH A MISTAKES....WHAT A MAN CAN DO.....

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osituga at 02:39 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Oya where are you pple oo ??

Let them answer ... imma go wake dem up

*osi enters their room ...Cbee....Vivi....Diplo...BB...Akpan01.. etc u need to follow me to the forums right noe**
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onyin at 02:44 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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 sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.
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typicalman84 at 02:48 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 02:44 PM,  3 May 09
sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.

but at the end, they realize they have made a very huge mistake. that would be after they must've slept with too many other dudes and expect for the nice guy to take them back. talk about selfishness.

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welli at 02:52 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quit Generalizing!!
Even Guys play Victim....Almost every Guy when asking anatha Gurl out
claims to have been heartbroken by their Ex.
There are People who love victimization...Doesn't have to do with a specific Gender!

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onyin at 02:55 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 02:48 PM,  3 May 09
Quote from: onyin on 02:44 PM,  3 May 09
sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.

but at the end, they realize they have made a very huge mistake. that would be after they must've slept with too many other dudes and expect for the nice guy to take them back. talk about selfishness.
yea, tht's life.but u guys aint innocent either.i mean sum guys do the same as well.
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eagleseyez at 03:06 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 02:52 PM,  3 May 09
Quit Generalizing!!
Even Guys play Victim....Almost every Guy when asking anatha Gurl out
claims to have been heartbroken by their Ex.
There are People who love victimization...Doesn't have to do with a specific Gender!


Oh Yeah?
but it is mostly on them girls
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welli at 03:08 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on 03:06 PM,  3 May 09
Oh Yeah?
but it is mostly on them girls
There's nuffin like it's mostly on Gurls'  side!!

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typicalman84 at 03:25 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 02:52 PM,  3 May 09
Quit Generalizing!!
Even Guys play Victim....Almost every Guy when asking anatha Gurl out
claims to have been heartbroken by their Ex.
There are People who love victimization...Doesn't have to do with a specific Gender!
I'm not talking about what another dude tells you about their ex while toasting you. that one na tactics. im talking about her actions following the breakup. its very absurd. Na so she go call the dude every kinda name wey dey for this world. And it saddens me when her girlfriends would always start saying some crap in the name of consoling her. things like "girl don't mind him, you'll find a better person" or "he's just an A*#S, he didn't know what he had". i mean damn you dont know why they break up.

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Toks-E at 03:37 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 03:25 PM,  3 May 09
Quote from: welli on 02:52 PM,  3 May 09
Quit Generalizing!!
Even Guys play Victim....Almost every Guy when asking anatha Gurl out
claims to have been heartbroken by their Ex.
There are People who love victimization...Doesn't have to do with a specific Gender!
I'm not talking about what another dude tells you about their ex while toasting you. that one na tactics. im talking about her actions following the breakup. its very absurd. Na so she go call the dude every kinda name wey dey for this world. And it saddens me when her girlfriends would always start saying some crap in the name of consoling her. things like "girl don't mind him, you'll find a better person" or "he's just an A*#S, he didn't know what he had". i mean damn you dont know why they break up.

mmmm, hw pathetic

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Toks-E at 03:38 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on 02:35 PM,  3 May 09
HMMM WHEN A RELATIONSHIP IS FINISHED A WOMAN THINK ABOUT IT SEVERAL TIMES WHAT SHE WAS DOING WRONG...AND MAYBE SOMETIMES WE BLAME OURSELF MAXIMUM WE NOT SHOW IT TO THE PUBLIC...BUT NORMALLY AND 70% OF BREAK UP IS CAUSE OF THE MAN BAD BEHAVER...
LIKE: BEATING/DRINKING/CHETING/ETC....JUST VERY FEW WOMAN WHO CAN DO SUCH A MISTAKES....WHAT A MAN CAN DO.....

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Toks-E at 03:39 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on 02:44 PM,  3 May 09
sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.

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welli at 03:40 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 03:25 PM,  3 May 09
I'm not talking about what another dude tells you about their ex while toasting you. that one na tactics. im talking about her actions following the breakup. its very absurd. Na so she go call the dude every kinda name wey dey for this world. And it saddens me when her girlfriends would always start saying some crap in the name of consoling her. things like "girl don't mind him, you'll find a better person" or "he's just an A*#S, he didn't know what he had". i mean damn you dont know why they break up.
Story!!!
I still say it's a both gender thang!

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onyin at 03:43 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on 03:39 PM,  3 May 09
Quote from: onyin on 02:44 PM,  3 May 09
sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.
oga, why r u reposting it?. lol
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daysolar at 03:53 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 02:24 PM,  3 May 09
Why is it that when the r/ship ends, women always play the victim and how much the guy has treated her wrong. I mean do you females ever stop for once and ask yourself what is it that you were doing wrong b4 pointing fingers.
ok.... Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
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Toks-E at 03:56 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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u don drink engine oil?

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d_man at 04:35 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 02:24 PM,  3 May 09
Why is it that when the r/ship ends, women always play the victim and how much the guy has treated her wrong. I mean do you females ever stop for once and ask yourself what is it that you were doing wrong b4 pointing fingers.
I've learnt that people shy away from accepting responsibility whenever something goes wrong
(Relationships and otherwise)
always looking to lay the blame on some1 or something else
Men and Women alike do it!
If you observe breakups..You'll find that both parties claim right!

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blackberryPearl at 04:38 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 02:24 PM,  3 May 09
Why is it that when the r/ship ends, women always play the victim and how much the guy has treated her wrong. I mean do you females ever stop for once and ask yourself what is it that you were doing wrong b4 pointing fingers.

Blame it on the Female u sexist Angry Angry
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d_man at 04:45 PM, 3 May 09 (8 years ago)
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Not really he may have had a similar experience
he is just guilty of generalizing

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