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Who Destroys the Marriage? Cheating Husband, Betrayed Wife, or Other Woman?

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at 03:10 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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Who's to blame for marital collapse: husband, wife, other woman?

"Making love with a woman and sleeping with a woman are two separate passions, not merely different but opposite. Love does not make itself felt in the desire for copulation (a desire that extends to an infinite number of women) but in the desire for shared sleep (a desire limited to one woman).

Explanations are easy to come by, ranging from economics (He finally has enough money and status to be attractive to sexy young women at the peak of their reproductive power) to existential dread (he's coming to terms with his own mortality by lashing out symbolically against his own impending old age and death) to the wife's life cycle (she's nearing menopause so he's biologically driven toward the fertility of younger women). Each of these may have some measure of truth, but none answers the most pressing question: Why do men have such overwhelming hunger for variety in their sexual partners-not just at mid-life, but always?

WHO IS TO BLAME?

esonu at 03:13 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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sophie i go vex 4 u ooooooo.. ur question don too much today.. ogini di

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omorewa at 03:17 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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cheating husband and other woman......... Sad

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sophiebaby at 03:22 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on 03:17 PM,  5 Jul 10
cheating husband and other woman......... Sad
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WHY OTHER WOMAN? PLS CAN U THROW MORE LIGHTS ON THIS?

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omorewa at 03:48 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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what a good topic!!! Wink
in some cases other woman just because they dont care as long as they are still getting good treatment from the guy...
if ur husband is cheating it affects ur home big time and the woman outside will knw that the man she is dating is a family man but because of greed she doesnt care.
we all knw that some men are pigs, some even deny their wife because of sex! but the other woman has her own mission too which is money and good sex... it is not all ladies that wishes to become second or third wives..
some marriage may have collapsed before the husband realises that the other woman is only using him because of materials.......


other woman outside always knw that a man who cheats on his wife, will definately cheat on them too.....
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND  Grin

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Eriele at 03:58 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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in nowadays many people are so weak... they are lazy to be good parents and partners... many are choosing easiest way, nobody wants to solve problems, but just forgetting about them...
nobody is trying to understand another person, children don't care about their parents, cousins don't even remember names of each other... people are very selfish and are not interested in smth else just sex...
there is no need to blame smb, just people must to start thinking with their brains, to use the heart and not only sex organs...
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esonu at 04:02 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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learning

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bittersweet at 04:02 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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All!

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omorewa at 04:05 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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SOME WOMEN OUT THERE WILL ASKING MARRIED/SUGAR DADDY OUT BECAUSE THEY KNOW SOME MEN WILL NEVER SAY NO TO SEX..........

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divineproject at 04:08 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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The 3 can destroy any marriage......it takes the grace of God for any marriage hit with any of the 'monster' to survive....

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HOPEA23 at 04:10 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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both..

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esonu at 04:12 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 04:10 PM,  5 Jul 10
both..
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my angel wats up?

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HOPEA23 at 04:14 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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gud and you?

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esonu at 04:16 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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am cool

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eagleseyez at 04:24 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Eriele on 03:58 PM,  5 Jul 10
in nowadays many people are so weak... they are lazy to be good parents and partners... many are choosing easiest way, nobody wants to solve problems, but just forgetting about them...
nobody is trying to understand another person, children don't care about their parents, cousins don't even remember names of each other... people are very selfish and are not interested in smth else just sex...
there is no need to blame smb, just people must to start thinking with their brains, to use the heart and not only sex organs...


Splendid
Thumbs Up girl
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esonu at 04:45 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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brb

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blings_is_back at 04:59 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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intresting
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Eriele at 05:01 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on 04:24 PM,  5 Jul 10
Splendid
Thumbs Up girl

thanx

i was living abroad with my dad, and one man told my dad that he'll find him a woman, since dad is far away from his wife...
i heard it and i was shocked, i told them both, that if a husband or wife is not able to stay faithful, then he/she is nothing more but a prostitute... after i told my dad that if once i will know that he slept with another woman, since he was married to my mom, i'll never call him dad, and will forget about his existence... both were red, i was affraid to be slapped Grin
i'm proud of my parents, bcs no matters what, they still love each other.
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omorewa at 06:04 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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nice one babe  Wink

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esonu at 06:31 PM, 5 Jul 10 (7 years ago)
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reading

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