Open Discussion: Do Your Partner's Social Skills Embarrass You?

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at 29 Feb 12, 09:48 AM (4 years ago)
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Couples may be very happy together, but a partner's social behavior can humiliate the other.

"I love my husband," confided a 50 year old "Martha". "But I and my husband are only happy when we are together or with our children. My husband hates to socialize with others. If I insist he does, he is either rude or refuses to speak."

What can one do in this type of situation ?

Idbabe at 29 Feb 12, 10:51 AM (4 years ago)
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Dis-socialize then to make him happy.  Shikina
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Adikpe at 29 Feb 12, 10:57 AM (4 years ago)
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This is down to individual difference, and also the background one comes from.

Not socialising at all is bad, also too much of it can hurt a relationship.
One should know what his/her partner likes or doesn't like and try to treat
him/her accordingly. That is the foundation of a good and viable relationship.
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agbonson at 29 Feb 12, 11:52 AM (4 years ago)
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 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided
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sophiebaby at 29 Feb 12, 12:03 PM (4 years ago)
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the picture doesnt even have anytin to do with socialty,,..lol Grin..

i will Dis-socialize to make him happy.. Grin

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50scent at 29 Feb 12, 12:25 PM (4 years ago)
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as what  Sad

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mediaexcell at 29 Feb 12, 12:30 PM (4 years ago)
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they didnt learn social study in kcool, if na ur wife hire me i will teach her.. Lips Sealed
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malvin2525 at 29 Feb 12, 01:03 PM (4 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
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prosperos at 29 Feb 12, 01:06 PM (4 years ago)
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some days are like that
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HOPEA23 at 29 Feb 12, 01:32 PM (4 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on 29 Feb 12, 10:57 AM
This is down to individual difference, and also the background one comes from.

Not socialising at all is bad, also too much of it can hurt a relationship.
One should know what his/her partner likes or doesn't like and try to treat
him/her accordingly. That is the foundation of a good and viable relationship.
you have said it all

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50scent at 29 Feb 12, 02:27 PM (4 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

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kebella at 29 Feb 12, 02:41 PM (4 years ago)
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 Angry Angry

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sophiebaby at 29 Feb 12, 02:45 PM (4 years ago)
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Quote from: mediaexcell on 29 Feb 12, 12:30 PM
they didnt learn social study in kcool, if na ur wife hire me i will teach her.. Lips Sealed

 Grin

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Tomnwakor at 29 Feb 12, 02:54 PM (4 years ago)
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nothing!
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ssstrawberry at 29 Feb 12, 03:15 PM (4 years ago)
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Snizzing
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Diamond4u at 29 Feb 12, 03:23 PM (4 years ago)
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k
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Angelita2 at 29 Feb 12, 03:48 PM (4 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
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verah at 29 Feb 12, 04:11 PM (4 years ago)
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hhhhhhhhmn if socializin is wat maks me happy i will continue to socialize but nt too much.. y should i stp my hapiness all cos my husband dosent lik it..well let him go get somtin doin while i socialise abi it as simple as that

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zoe61 at 29 Feb 12, 09:05 PM (4 years ago)
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then let him be if he don't like don't force him.
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toibeli at 29 Feb 12, 09:35 PM (4 years ago)
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Hell NO
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