SHOULD I STILL MARRY HER? pls advice a brother.

I think ur confused. U dnt trust her and u dated for 2 years and are now gettin married? Wot were u thinkin? My opinion us u also dnt trust urself. U shld call her and sitdown face to face wit her so u guys can open up to each other. U may hav to postpone d weddin date.

Posted: at 1-05-2012 10:05 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

Lets 4get suspense and trust issues 1st

If she possessed every oda qualities u nid in woman and u really love her as u claim.....Den ride on broda........D problem why u ar suspecting her is bcuz u ar far 4rm each oda.......... plus...... may be she is beautiful...............so u alwayz imagine seeing her  wit anoda man...(JEALOUS).......so until u stop suspecting her.., den wil u trust her............trust is not by 1 day affair.., it is built gradually but Love conquers everything.........Once u get married just give her 1 piece of advise in 1 sentence.....(U KNW I LOVE U., PLS DONT CHEAT)...........A woman must do wat she want 2 do even d most trusted ones...., but if she dont want 2 do it.., no way u dont nid 2 tell her dat...........But most importantly.....ask God 2 give wisdom 2 acknowledge d principles of marriage..

Happy married life in advance and dont 4get my drink dat day.........my brand is Moet or Dom Perignon customize wit my name in capital letters .........JOSSY4reall...........

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Posted: at 1-05-2012 10:46 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

Poster check yourself first
You suspect her every move becos maybe you yourself is not clean
people tend to judge people based on how they themselves would react to issues
everyone cant be the same

besides, if you truly love her, you would learn to trust her a little bit
happy married life in advance

Posted: at 1-05-2012 11:42 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

some good points, still reading for more.....thanks all.

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Posted: at 1-05-2012 12:00 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

No trust no love..just wondering how can one love another without trust?
Anyway, I think u need to work on yourself

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Posted: at 1-05-2012 12:12 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

YOU CAN'T LOVE HER SO MUCH AS YOU CLAIM THEN BECAUSE THERE IS NO LOVE WITHOUT TRUST! YOU MIGHT BE INSECURE BY THE SOUND OF IT,EITHER THAT OR YOU TOO JELOUSE

Posted: at 1-05-2012 04:20 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i think you should call and discuss this with her then maybe she will change or give you better explanation for her behaviours

Posted: at 1-05-2012 05:33 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I will not advice you to go into a union with some one you dont trust at all.I believe the lack of trust is as a result of the distant ralationship.You need to postpone the date  and look for ways to get to know her at a very close range.This will go a long way in building trust among you both.Them no they use shame chop winch ooo!

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Posted: at 2-05-2012 02:11 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming