does my boyfriend love me?

Date: 18-02-2009 2:03 am (15 years ago) | Author: dazzlin adetutu
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- at 18-02-2009 02:03 AM (15 years ago)
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hi guys.....am a Nigerian staying in Malaysia with my boyfriend and i need some advice not insults please....i av been dating my boyfriend for 8months now but the only time he said he loves me was about 2months when the relationship started......he tells me his shy and its not by words but by actions......do u think he really loves me?and before we started the relationship he told me his to told for childish stuffs and going for a serious relationship but he hasn't said anything about that yet......what should i do?

Posted: at 18-02-2009 02:03 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- diplomatik at 18-02-2009 02:08 AM (15 years ago)
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he said he loved u when he felt that he did , should he have lied to u
anyways make u see his action then decide if he's telling the truth or not and wait to see what he's about
and what hasn't he said anything about , i thought u're already in a relationship
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make i go , i think am begining to get confused now

Posted: at 18-02-2009 02:08 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- peekay at 18-02-2009 03:56 AM (15 years ago)
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Hey Diplomatik, d truth's bitter. If ur man loves u, he'll sure let u know by sayin it. Girl, this guy hasn't been interested 2 months ago, dont make him say he loves u under duress but if u feel u can make him say he does like you did when u  stole his heart b4 then gud luk. 4get bout the 'action speakin louder' or wateva he'll call it, they're only excuses. Ciao
Posted: at 18-02-2009 03:56 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- diplomatik at 18-02-2009 04:00 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: peekay on 18-02-2009 03:56 AM
Hey Diplomatik, d truth's bitter. If ur man loves u, he'll sure let u know by sayin it. Girl, this guy hasn't been interested 2 months ago, dont make him say he loves u under duress but if u feel u can make him say he does like you did when u  stole his heart b4 then gud luk. 4get bout the 'action speakin louder' or wateva he'll call it, they're only excuses. Ciao

nuh be me talk am
na the poster , i just dey try to figure out wetin the poster want help with

Posted: at 18-02-2009 04:00 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- daysolar at 18-02-2009 06:40 AM (15 years ago)
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guys r d weaker sex... sometimes they feel secure when they hide their feelings ... he loves u. Don't think otherwise until he starts acting up or says he is no longer interested
Posted: at 18-02-2009 06:40 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eagleseyez at 18-02-2009 06:47 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: daysolar on 18-02-2009 06:40 AM
guys r d weaker sex... sometimes they feel secure when they hide their feelings ... he loves u. Don't think otherwise until he starts acting up or says he is no longer interested



am sure he said that when he meant it
saying "i love u" is not enuf, but feeling
it 4rm the heart is all that matters
Posted: at 18-02-2009 06:47 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- daysolar at 18-02-2009 06:54 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on 18-02-2009 06:47 AM
Quote from: daysolar on 18-02-2009 06:40 AM
guys r d weaker sex... sometimes they feel secure when they hide their feelings ... he loves u. Don't think otherwise until he starts acting up or says he is no longer interested



am sure he said that when he meant it
saying "i love u" is not enuf, but feeling
it 4rm the heart is all that matters
y did u cross out "weaker sex"Huh? u guys r weak jare... u r right abt saying i love u is not enough though... but u guys r weaker Wink
Posted: at 18-02-2009 06:54 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Resi at 18-02-2009 09:52 AM (15 years ago)
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Saying I love you is not the key to the best relationship, anyone can tell anyone that"mere say".It is not what you want to hear that matters but the things he does to you "his action".

Posted: at 18-02-2009 09:52 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SAmyrocko at 18-02-2009 09:59 AM (15 years ago)
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@ Poster i think "actions speaks better than words" watch and see.

Posted: at 18-02-2009 09:59 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pires07 at 18-02-2009 10:07 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Resi on 18-02-2009 09:52 AM
Saying I love you is not the key to the best relationship, anyone can tell anyone that"mere say".It is not what you want to hear that matters but the things he does to you "his action".
Thats all u need.
@poster

Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:07 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 18-02-2009 10:11 AM (15 years ago)
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huh!!!

wat do you need too?

Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:11 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jydoski at 18-02-2009 10:18 AM (15 years ago)
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@poster...you figured it out already...6months s a awfull long time to not hear the "i love you word" return to naija..am sure sammyroko will tell you everyday that he loves you...lol
Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:18 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- princemech at 18-02-2009 10:22 AM (15 years ago)
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i dont have anything to tell u becuz.......
Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:22 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 18-02-2009 10:53 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dazzlingadetutu on 18-02-2009 02:03 AM
hi guys.....am a Nigerian staying in Malaysia with my boyfriend and i need some advice not insults please....i av been dating my boyfriend for 8months now but the only time he said he loves me was about 2months when the relationship started......he tells me his shy and its not by words but by actions......do u think he really loves me?and before we started the relationship he told me his to told for childish stuffs and going for a serious relationship but he hasn't said anything about that yet......what should i do?

action speaks louder dan words

by his actions u shall know whether he loves u or not

Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:53 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- digitalman at 18-02-2009 10:59 AM (15 years ago)
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what type of action pls?
Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:59 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- princemech at 18-02-2009 10:59 AM (15 years ago)
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correct
Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:59 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 18-02-2009 11:13 AM (15 years ago)
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wat are you correcting?

Posted: at 18-02-2009 11:13 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shirleywang at 18-02-2009 11:21 AM (15 years ago)
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i love my bf hahaha
Posted: at 18-02-2009 11:21 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- ogunfunmi at 18-02-2009 11:24 AM (15 years ago)
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of course you should know through his behaviours
Posted: at 18-02-2009 11:24 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 18-02-2009 11:26 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: shirleywang on 18-02-2009 11:21 AM
i love my bf hahaha


Are yoy sure you do??

Posted: at 18-02-2009 11:26 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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