hi guys.....am a Nigerian staying in Malaysia with my boyfriend and i need some advice not insults please....i av been dating my boyfriend for 8months now but the only time he said he loves me was about 2months when the relationship started......he tells me his shy and its not by words but by actions......do u think he really loves me?and before we started the relationship he told me his to told for childish stuffs and going for a serious relationship but he hasn't said anything about that yet......what should i do?
Posted: at 18-02-2009 02:03 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
diplomatik at 18-02-2009 02:08 AM (15 years ago) (f)
he said he loved u when he felt that he did , should he have lied to u anyways make u see his action then decide if he's telling the truth or not and wait to see what he's about and what hasn't he said anything about , i thought u're already in a relationship ******************** make i go , i think am begining to get confused now
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 18-02-2009 02:08 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Hey Diplomatik, d truth's bitter. If ur man loves u, he'll sure let u know by sayin it. Girl, this guy hasn't been interested 2 months ago, dont make him say he loves u under duress but if u feel u can make him say he does like you did when u stole his heart b4 then gud luk. 4get bout the 'action speakin louder' or wateva he'll call it, they're only excuses. Ciao
Posted: at 18-02-2009 03:56 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
diplomatik at 18-02-2009 04:00 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: peekay on 18-02-2009 03:56 AM
Hey Diplomatik, d truth's bitter. If ur man loves u, he'll sure let u know by sayin it. Girl, this guy hasn't been interested 2 months ago, dont make him say he loves u under duress but if u feel u can make him say he does like you did when u stole his heart b4 then gud luk. 4get bout the 'action speakin louder' or wateva he'll call it, they're only excuses. Ciao
nuh be me talk am na the poster , i just dey try to figure out wetin the poster want help with
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 18-02-2009 04:00 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
daysolar at 18-02-2009 06:40 AM (15 years ago) (f)
guys r d weaker sex... sometimes they feel secure when they hide their feelings ... he loves u. Don't think otherwise until he starts acting up or says he is no longer interested
Posted: at 18-02-2009 06:40 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
eagleseyez at 18-02-2009 06:47 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: daysolar on 18-02-2009 06:40 AM
guys r d weaker sex... sometimes they feel secure when they hide their feelings ... he loves u. Don't think otherwise until he starts acting up or says he is no longer interested
am sure he said that when he meant it saying "i love u" is not enuf, but feeling it 4rm the heart is all that matters
Posted: at 18-02-2009 06:47 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
daysolar at 18-02-2009 06:54 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 18-02-2009 06:47 AM
Quote from: daysolar on 18-02-2009 06:40 AM
guys r d weaker sex... sometimes they feel secure when they hide their feelings ... he loves u. Don't think otherwise until he starts acting up or says he is no longer interested
am sure he said that when he meant it saying "i love u" is not enuf, but feeling it 4rm the heart is all that matters
y did u cross out "weaker sex" u guys r weak jare... u r right abt saying i love u is not enough though... but u guys r weaker
Posted: at 18-02-2009 06:54 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Saying I love you is not the key to the best relationship, anyone can tell anyone that"mere say".It is not what you want to hear that matters but the things he does to you "his action".
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.)
Posted: at 18-02-2009 09:52 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Saying I love you is not the key to the best relationship, anyone can tell anyone that"mere say".It is not what you want to hear that matters but the things he does to you "his action".
Thats all u need. @poster
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:07 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@poster...you figured it out already...6months s a awfull long time to not hear the "i love you word" return to naija..am sure sammyroko will tell you everyday that he loves you...lol
Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:18 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Quote from: dazzlingadetutu on 18-02-2009 02:03 AM
hi guys.....am a Nigerian staying in Malaysia with my boyfriend and i need some advice not insults please....i av been dating my boyfriend for 8months now but the only time he said he loves me was about 2months when the relationship started......he tells me his shy and its not by words but by actions......do u think he really loves me?and before we started the relationship he told me his to told for childish stuffs and going for a serious relationship but he hasn't said anything about that yet......what should i do?
action speaks louder dan words
by his actions u shall know whether he loves u or not
2.0.
Posted: at 18-02-2009 10:53 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero