Crazy Things Women Do Online Social Networking Sites

Date: 06-06-2012 12:47 pm (11 years ago) | Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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Though users have become more savvy about their online presences and the privacy breaches social networking sites threatens, most men still aren't aware of the damage a crazed woman can do on the service. 

E.G >> The NAIJAPALS/FACEBOOK phenomenon allows you to reconnect with your best friends/friends from elementary school, keep up with your buddy’s travels and get out of hours-long phone conversations with your peeps,and get some jobs. It truly is a remarkable tool. But, as with most things, there is a dark side to naijapals/Facebook. While your male brain may not have tapped in to the full manipulation potential of this seemingly innocuous social networking tool, chances are several of the women you know have. Women are trained in the art of creating, maintaining and controlling relationships, and naijapals/Facebook is just one more resource they can use to keep tabs on and influence people. Here's a list of some crazy things women do on Social networking sites.

Women set up fake profiles to follow exes
This one may seem a bit extreme, but it is certainly not unheard-of for a woman to set up a fake  persona in order to creep on her ex’s profile. At the very least, she might get a mutual friend to allow her a little access to an ex’s page. Whether you broke up badly or it was mostly mutual, if you don’t keep in touch, she probably wants to know what you’re up to. Instead of calling or e-mailing you, it’s easier and less embarrassing to scope out your profile while you are blissfully unaware that she is checking up on you. If you want to prevent this from happening, don’t add any strangers to your friends list. If you have a friend you know is still in touch with her, keep your interactions limited.

Women manipulate through photos
The photos a woman posts on her profile can be innocent or they can be totally manipulative. Another crazy thing women do is to put up embarrassing or compromising photos of people that have gotten on her bad side. When a guy breaks up with a girl and the next day photos of him in one of her dresses hit her profile, it’s not only vindictive, but also pretty immature.

A woman might also use her photo albums to present an image of herself that doesn’t exactly match up to reality. In her photos she might appear more sexy, more adventurous and altogether more exciting than she is in real life.

Women post passive-aggressive status updates
The status update can share big news with your friends or the mundane activities of your day, but for some women they can also serve an emotionally manipulative purpose. Whether it’s because she hates confrontation or she just wants the world to know what a jerk her boyfriend is, some women use their status updates to air complaints about their relationship instead of sitting down and talking it out directly. For example: “Valerie visited the jewelery store and is tired of waiting!!!!” could be a not-so-subtle clue that she doesn’t want to wait for that engagement ring much longer. Post-breakup, a woman might post status updates that hint at a crazy social life: “Melanie is exhausted from a crazy night!” or “Jessica is having a great day,” are both the types of messages that say a lot more when they come right after a big breakup.

Women post ambiguous relationship photos
It’s not uncommon to see pictures of women with their arms around their friends, kissing them on the cheek, whether their friends are men or women. For some, these may be innocuous expressions of affection for their good friends, but for others they could be an attempt to elicit an envious response from their partners. These ambiguous photos with other guys could also cause other people to question the strength of her relationship with her boyfriend.

If it’s a single girl posting pics of her getting close to guys without making it clear whether or not they are dating, it can throw people off when they are thinking about making a move, causing them to be unsure of whether or not she’s already taken.

Posting a fake relationship status
Some unattached women choose “in a relationship” for their profile just so people won’t start matchmaking or single-girl-pitying. A single woman of a certain age is a prime target for people who think everyone should be paired off in "happily ever after" relationships. Some single women even arrange with one of their close girlfriends to be “in a relationship" with each other to avoid this kind of condescending sympathy. They’d rather raise questions about their segxwal orientation than leave the space blank.

women do crazy things on Social Networking Sites
Social networking Sites can be a force for good when it’s used responsibly, but it can also be destructive to a relationship or a reputation if the person who wields the power thinks she can do so with impunity. Unfortunately, if she’s determined to keep it up, there’s not much you can do about any of these behaviors other than expressing your displeasure and asking her to cut it out. If she’s your girlfriend she should have enough consideration for you to hear you out. If she’s your ex, all you can do is kick yourself in the ass for agreeing to try on that dress in the first place.

Women make una no eat me raw oooooooooooooo Grin Grin Grin na tru i talk Grin  Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue


Posted: at 6-06-2012 12:47 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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Women set up fake profiles to follow exes
This one may seem a bit extreme, but it is certainly not unheard-of for a woman to set up a fake  persona in order to creep on her ex’s profile. At the very least, she might get a mutual friend to allow her a little access to an ex’s page. Whether you broke up badly or it was mostly mutual, if you don’t keep in touch, she probably wants to know what you’re up to. Instead of calling or e-mailing you, it’s easier and less embarrassing to scope out your profile while you are blissfully unaware that she is checking up on you. If you want to prevent this from happening, don’t add any strangers to your friends list. If you have a friend you know is still in touch with her, keep your interactions limited.



Dont need to follow anybody, if ur gone, ur gone.  That means u were not meant to be with me so y following u?
Posted: at 6-06-2012 01:05 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 6-06-2012 01:11 PM (11 years ago)
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 Cool but pipu still dey do am

Posted: at 6-06-2012 01:11 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Idbabe at 6-06-2012 01:35 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-06-2012 01:11 PM
Cool but pipu still dey do am

Such pipu are idle and their minds are turned to devil's workshop.  Wen  u follow u ex, ur hurt urself the more, so let go and live on.  I dey pass
Posted: at 6-06-2012 01:35 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Idbabe at 6-06-2012 01:50 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-06-2012 01:11 PM
Cool but pipu still dey do am

Yes, agreed pipu still do it, but its not only women dat does it if at all they even do.  A guy has done it to me in NP here bw last week and now and could not even hide.  Came to fb to ask me who the guy am using for my display pic is?  So u see fine sister, men follow dia exes dan women.  I rest my case
Posted: at 6-06-2012 01:50 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 6-06-2012 02:19 PM (11 years ago)
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I see
Posted: at 6-06-2012 02:19 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 6-06-2012 03:18 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on  6-06-2012 01:50 PM
Yes, agreed pipu still do it, but its not only women dat does it if at all they even do.  A guy has done it to me in NP here bw last week and now and could not even hide.  Came to fb to ask me who the guy am using for my display pic is?  So u see fine sister, men follow dia exes dan women.  I rest my case

 Grin Grin Grin    Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 6-06-2012 03:18 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 6-06-2012 03:47 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  6-06-2012 02:19 PM
I see

wetin you c so?
Posted: at 6-06-2012 03:47 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- sophiebaby at 6-06-2012 03:53 PM (11 years ago)
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ur fraudster stomach

Posted: at 6-06-2012 03:53 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 6-06-2012 11:00 PM (11 years ago)
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who told you so? monkey girl
Posted: at 6-06-2012 11:00 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Senegal at 7-06-2012 12:29 AM (11 years ago)
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Why always women?
Posted: at 7-06-2012 12:29 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- sugaDaddy1forU at 7-06-2012 02:08 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  6-06-2012 03:53 PM
ur fraudster stomach
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 7-06-2012 02:08 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugaDaddy1forU at 7-06-2012 02:13 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: ajanni on  6-06-2012 11:00 PM
who told you so? monkey girl
U always in a pay back mood, never let something to slide down but have to insult back... Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 7-06-2012 02:13 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 7-06-2012 06:12 PM (11 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 7-06-2012 06:12 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- richi192 at 5-07-2012 12:48 PM (11 years ago)
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okay brb 2 read mak my tea no go cold Roll Eyes

Posted: at 5-07-2012 12:48 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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