I NEED UR ADVICE

Date: 30-03-2009 10:22 am (15 years ago) | Author: damilola adeyemi
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- at 30-03-2009 10:22 AM (15 years ago)
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Am a young girl of 24yrs old i have been in a relationship for the past 5 years still my boyfriend cannot trust me for a seconds and he claimed that he love me. I try as much as possible to convince him but still all to no avail, he keep on telling me that he cannot trusted any lady again because of wat is ex-lover did to him. am tired of this and i dont to do. should i drop him or what?

Posted: at 30-03-2009 10:22 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- onchedu at 30-03-2009 10:28 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ozoduwa on 30-03-2009 10:22 AM
Am a young girl of 24yrs old i have been in a relationship for the past 5 years still my boyfriend cannot trust me for a seconds and he claimed that he love me. I try as much as possible to convince him but still all to no avail, he keep on telling me that he cannot trusted any lady again because of wat is ex-lover did to him. am tired of this and i dont to do. should i drop him or what?

Trust is a very essential necessity in a relationship that will work. U myt cnosider dumping him temporarily until he learns to trust U. 5years... what kinda screwed up guy is that?
Posted: at 30-03-2009 10:28 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- vivian07 at 30-03-2009 10:35 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 30-03-2009 10:28 AM
Quote from: ozoduwa on 30-03-2009 10:22 AM
Am a young girl of 24yrs old i have been in a relationship for the past 5 years still my boyfriend cannot trust me for a seconds and he claimed that he love me. I try as much as possible to convince him but still all to no avail, he keep on telling me that he cannot trusted any lady again because of wat is ex-lover did to him. am tired of this and i dont to do. should i drop him or what?

Trust is a very essential necessity in a relationship that will work. U myt cnosider dumping him temporarily until he learns to trust U. 5years... what kinda screwed up guy is that?
NO . the question should be, wat kind of screwed girl is she ? how can u date a guy for 5 years and u re real, yet he dont trust u ? i feel there is some thing she is not telling us.
how can some i lay with u for 5 years and yet dont trust u ? its not possible.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 10:35 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 30-03-2009 10:47 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ozoduwa on 30-03-2009 10:22 AM
Am a young girl of 24yrs old i have been in a relationship for the past 5 years still my boyfriend cannot trust me for a seconds and he claimed that he love me. I try as much as possible to convince him but still all to no avail, he keep on telling me that he cannot trusted any lady again because of wat is ex-lover did to him. am tired of this and i dont to do. should i drop him or what?


Thats natural girl!!!

Posted: at 30-03-2009 10:47 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 30-03-2009 10:51 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on 30-03-2009 10:35 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 30-03-2009 10:28 AM
Quote from: ozoduwa on 30-03-2009 10:22 AM
Am a young girl of 24yrs old i have been in a relationship for the past 5 years still my boyfriend cannot trust me for a seconds and he claimed that he love me. I try as much as possible to convince him but still all to no avail, he keep on telling me that he cannot trusted any lady again because of wat is ex-lover did to him. am tired of this and i dont to do. should i drop him or what?

Trust is a very essential necessity in a relationship that will work. U myt cnosider dumping him temporarily until he learns to trust U. 5years... what kinda screwed up guy is that?
NO . the question should be, wat kind of screwed girl is she ? how can u date a guy for 5 years and u re real, yet he dont trust u ? i feel there is some thing she is not telling us.
how can some i lay with u for 5 years and yet dont trust u ? its not possible.

Once again U make a lot of sense. I thot she was hiding stuff from us too but didnt want to ask.
So poster... what havent U told us?
Posted: at 30-03-2009 10:51 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- chrissiebee at 30-03-2009 11:17 AM (15 years ago)
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soem guys are like that ooo..trust me....they just cant trust!  Undecided

Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:17 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- kesterjoe at 30-03-2009 11:23 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on 30-03-2009 10:47 AM
Quote from: ozoduwa on 30-03-2009 10:22 AM
Am a young girl of 24yrs old i have been in a relationship for the past 5 years still my boyfriend cannot trust me for a seconds and he claimed that he love me. I try as much as possible to convince him but still all to no avail, he keep on telling me that he cannot trusted any lady again because of wat is ex-lover did to him. am tired of this and i dont to do. should i drop him or what?


Thats natural girl!!!

Not natural at all, we're talking about trust here.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:23 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- luvvy at 30-03-2009 11:29 AM (15 years ago)
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if it is someone like samy be dat guy he may trust u but if it is someone like mazi or kennee. trust error
Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:29 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chrissiebee at 30-03-2009 11:32 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: luvvy on 30-03-2009 11:29 AM
if it is someone like samy be dat guy he may trust u but if it is someone like mazi or kennee. trust error

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Grin Grin

Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:32 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- luvvy at 30-03-2009 11:38 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: chrissiebee on 30-03-2009 11:32 AM
Quote from: luvvy on 30-03-2009 11:29 AM
if it is someone like samy be dat guy he may trust u but if it is someone like mazi or kennee. trust error

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Grin Grin
u dey laugh but u kno say no be lie now
Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:38 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 30-03-2009 11:43 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: kesterjoe on 30-03-2009 11:23 AM
Quote from: SAmyrocko on 30-03-2009 10:47 AM
Quote from: ozoduwa on 30-03-2009 10:22 AM
Am a young girl of 24yrs old i have been in a relationship for the past 5 years still my boyfriend cannot trust me for a seconds and he claimed that he love me. I try as much as possible to convince him but still all to no avail, he keep on telling me that he cannot trusted any lady again because of wat is ex-lover did to him. am tired of this and i dont to do. should i drop him or what?


Thats natural girl!!!

Not natural at all, we're talking about trust here.


Thats natural; means there is every tendency...
that once bitten will never like to be bitten again...
and as such you'll avoid trusting...
just to Stop wat might've happen to you b4.

Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:43 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Recoverd at 30-03-2009 11:43 AM (15 years ago)
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Poster, do u realy trust him?
Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:43 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 30-03-2009 11:44 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: luvvy on 30-03-2009 11:29 AM
if it is someone like samy be dat guy he may trust u but if it is someone like mazi or kennee. trust error

Why did you say this???

How are you so convinced that i could trust her?

Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:44 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- vivian07 at 30-03-2009 11:48 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: chrissiebee on 30-03-2009 11:17 AM
soem guys are like that ooo..trust me....they just cant trust!  Undecided
my dear, for 5 YEARS ?
that's strange. except the guy never loved her.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:48 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- chrissiebee at 30-03-2009 11:50 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: luvvy on 30-03-2009 11:38 AM
Quote from: chrissiebee on 30-03-2009 11:32 AM
Quote from: luvvy on 30-03-2009 11:29 AM
if it is someone like samy be dat guy he may trust u but if it is someone like mazi or kennee. trust error

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Grin Grin
u dey laugh but u kno say no be lie now

 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:50 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 30-03-2009 11:53 AM (15 years ago)
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Wat again this time???

Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:53 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chrissiebee at 30-03-2009 11:57 AM (15 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Kiss Grin Grin

Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:57 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 30-03-2009 11:59 AM (15 years ago)
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Aww!!! tnx oooo. if really it was meant for me...lol

Posted: at 30-03-2009 11:59 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chrissiebee at 30-03-2009 12:01 PM (15 years ago)
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it was meant for u... Grin Grin *runs b4 vivi gets here*

Posted: at 30-03-2009 12:01 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 30-03-2009 12:03 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: chrissiebee on 30-03-2009 12:01 PM
it was meant for u... Grin Grin *runs b4 vivi gets here*


 Grin Grin Grin Well, she understands.... thats not a bad kiss.

Posted: at 30-03-2009 12:03 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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