I have this guy who we are building a marital relationship but agreed not to have sex until after our wedding but to my surprise, this guy impregnated a girl in the village. He is not sure of being responsible for the pregnancy neither did he love the girl. Now he is considering taking the girl and pushing me away. Pls, advice me on what to do cos i still love this guy very much.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:32 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
better let go of him. Se some of us learnt the hard way that just cos U say "i wont with U" or "we wont with each other" doesnt mean he/she wont with someone else. Count Urslef lucky and let him go. If he wants the other girl that is pregnant for him, let them be. Its better than having the first child in Ur home come from another woman.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:36 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
vivian07 at 30-03-2009 03:44 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: zorned4u on 30-03-2009 03:32 PM
I have this guy who we are building a marital relationship but agreed not to have sex until after our wedding but to my surprise, this guy impregnated a girl in the village. He is not sure of being responsible for the pregnancy neither did he love the girl. Now he is considering taking the girl and pushing me away. Pls, advice me on what to do cos i still love this guy very much.
my dear, how can it be possible that a man will have u, and not want sex ? its not possible EXCEPT he is a TRUE born again. even at that, he still got blood running thru his vain. any way just accept the fact that u guys are not meant to be and move ahead with life. and count ur self lucky that u found out on time.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:44 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
@Viv, yeah its not possible for a guy to like U and not want sex with U, but it is possible for a guy liking U and wanting sex with U to temporarily deny himself the pleasure for a future reward. na God sha!
Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:47 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
vivian07 at 30-03-2009 03:56 PM (15 years ago) (f)
men are some thing else. 1) give them small na wahala 2) give them too much, problem. 3) no give at all, ur own don finish with them. 4) ration am for them, trouble wat a life.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:56 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
I have this guy who we are building a marital relationship but agreed not to have sex until after our wedding but to my surprise, this guy impregnated a girl in the village. He is not sure of being responsible for the pregnancy neither did he love the girl. Now he is considering taking the girl and pushing me away. Pls, advice me on what to do cos i still love this guy very much.
e be lik say u kno kno waten the bobo want......... so nie another baby giv am........... maybe next time u go understand
Posted: at 30-03-2009 06:17 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
men r very weak when it comes to decision makin. just bcos he impregnanted a lady that shouldnt disqualify y'all relationship. but i pray thee to give him space...he will come back if he is yours. maybe thats one way God will entangle u guys together for the last time. just take heart. the baby aint his anyway. goodluck...
Posted: at 30-03-2009 06:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
I have this guy who we are building a marital relationship but agreed not to have sex until after our wedding but to my surprise, this guy impregnated a girl in the village. He is not sure of being responsible for the pregnancy neither did he love the girl. Now he is considering taking the girl and pushing me away. Pls, advice me on what to do cos i still love this guy very much.
Yu see?
Yu think say man Body na Fire wood?
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 30-03-2009 07:34 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
diplomatik at 31-03-2009 04:34 AM (15 years ago) (f)
let him go.....if he belongs to u he will return to u....nothing spoil.....be easy
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 31-03-2009 04:34 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
myragonza at 31-03-2009 04:49 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: zorned4u on 30-03-2009 03:32 PM
I have this guy who we are building a marital relationship but agreed not to have sex until after our wedding but to my surprise, this guy impregnated a girl in the village. He is not sure of being responsible for the pregnancy neither did he love the girl. Now he is considering taking the girl and pushing me away. Pls, advice me on what to do cos i still love this guy very much.
are u kidding me...?leave him!!!thats the best for u and ur future.....this kinda guy don't deserve ur attention gal...
I have this guy who we are building a marital relationship but agreed not to have sex until after our wedding but to my surprise, this guy impregnated a girl in the village. He is not sure of being responsible for the pregnancy neither did he love the girl. Now he is considering taking the girl and pushing me away. Pls, advice me on what to do cos i still love this guy very much.
Let him go,how can he say he is not sure of being responsible.See dont mind him he is certain that the pregnancy belong to him.
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.)
Posted: at 31-03-2009 03:45 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Percific at 31-03-2009 04:08 PM (15 years ago) (m)
From my lay boy idea; If a man is with someone else yet living in illusion that things might be okay again, just doesn't sound right.
You should probably forget about him if he keeps saying I don't know because that's a very indecisive answer. It wouldn't be right of him to stay with that other girl, if he doesn't love her because he may end up hurting her feelings. Tell him to make up his mind once and for all and to speak with clarity or else you're just going to move on with your life. Besides, it's never fun waiting for an answer from a man when instead you could be spending that time in another relationship that might work.
Posted: at 31-03-2009 04:08 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
I have this guy who we are building a marital relationship but agreed not to have sex until after our wedding but to my surprise, this guy impregnated a girl in the village. He is not sure of being responsible for the pregnancy neither did he love the girl. Now he is considering taking the girl and pushing me away. Pls, advice me on what to do cos i still love this guy very much.
its better u let go cos its obvious he 's taking u for a ride
Posted: at 1-04-2009 05:58 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
diplomatik at 1-04-2009 08:28 PM (15 years ago) (f)
passing....following ceejay
ceejay........whats good
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 1-04-2009 08:28 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
diplomatik at 1-04-2009 08:38 PM (15 years ago) (f)
keep quiet iron....i no dey look for trouble today oooo...
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 1-04-2009 08:38 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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