vivian07 at 31-03-2009 09:44 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: d_man on 31-03-2009 09:36 PM
Quote from: mrmtolve on 31-03-2009 03:38 PM
hiya
i have dated a few guys but this is my first nija and muslim too
things are going real well but i sometimes feel maybe i don't know enough of how nija boys handle dating
any hot tips or things i should look out for?
by the way, i am half nija
thanks
naa...just treat him like u would treat yr man..4get bout where his from.. just knw his likes n dislikes...n relate to that
where he comes from matters a lot. the way an American will react to some things, a french man will not react the same way. or do u think she has not dated any guy b4 ?
Posted: at 31-03-2009 09:44 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
no ma'm i knw she's dated other guys b4 all am saying is when it comes to romance.. its subjective and completely varies from 1 person to anoda wat turns JACK on might piss JOHN off..despite both beeing Nigerians.. dats y i said just knw his likes n dislikes...n relate to that
Be yourself
Posted: at 31-03-2009 10:29 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
vivian07 at 31-03-2009 10:35 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: d_man on 31-03-2009 10:29 PM
no ma'm i knw she's dated other guys b4 all am saying is when it comes to romance.. its subjective and completely varies from 1 person to anoda wat turns JACK on might piss JOHN off..despite both beeing Nigerians.. dats y i said just knw his likes n dislikes...n relate to that
she was not talking abt "wat turns him on " she is talking abt r/s in general. knowing his likes and dislikes is not enough cos as she said she is half nigerian.
Posted: at 31-03-2009 10:35 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
wat u mean relationships in general? hw do you hold a relationship down? is nt bout knowing ur partner well enough..and caring enough to give n be what they want? dnt see hw Nationality plays a role
Be yourself
Posted: at 31-03-2009 10:51 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
vivian07 at 31-03-2009 11:03 PM (15 years ago) (f)
u have to know wat the society frowns at, know what to do at a certain place & at the right time. E.G, 2 italians where kissing while a burial was going in at the cemetery. u cant do that in niigeria. there re things peeps take for granted that we dont.so she needs to get used to the society and wat they frown at.
Posted: at 31-03-2009 11:03 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
hmm kissing in a burial cereomy...dats really sober!!..Wow i love italy i catch ur drift..but thats if they are in Nigeria in that case its the guys duty to school her on d do's n dnts of the society.. but in this case they r not?.. so wat she needs to do is get to knw him..dats d primary thing rite nw learning his societal values can come later if they get that far
Be yourself
Posted: at 31-03-2009 11:18 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
u have to know wat the society frowns at, know what to do at a certain place & at the right time. E.G, 2 italians where kissing while a burial was going in at the cemetery. u cant do that in niigeria. there re things peeps take for granted that we dont.so she needs to get used to the society and wat they frown at.
Italian no get tradition against romance.....I trust 'em. Even In church You need to see alotta 'touchery' and kissing going on.
Poster Like someone said.....To dat ANY Naija Guy.....You need alotta patience. A good number of 'em are actually confuse...They don't know their likes and dislikes. Goodluck mate!! I'm waiting for Naija men to bash me.Bring the harsh words on.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 31-03-2009 11:20 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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