:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
Posted: at 5-04-2009 08:10 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
Financial crisis is one problem that alotta people have in common. Put Your best to work and trust God. If You think You're not up tot he task of marriage yet..... You can wait......Goodluck mate and wishing You the best financially.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 5-04-2009 09:41 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
U knew dat there was no way u wuld go c hr parents with out given a list of tin 2buy....U wuld hav waitd till u had d means...As it is right nw, u hav 2 options, borrow or postpone. Cept by som miracle GOD suprizes u with cash. GOOD LUCK!
Posted: at 5-04-2009 11:13 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
oga no be by force to marry na, haba?.......... if u re not yet ready for marriage then why worry urself to insanity. take ur time and wait for when its convinent for u to marry. i take god beg uoooooooooooo no try to hang ur cloth where ur hand no reach oooooo.
Posted: at 5-04-2009 11:23 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
Jst dnt start wht u can't finish.....
traditional wedding can wait!!
Posted: at 6-04-2009 03:11 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
why not wait till ure finanancially bouyant
Posted: at 6-04-2009 10:55 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
Smply put; U arent financially mature or ready to take on the responsiblities of a home. Pay Ur debts, find a better paying job or get a career, when Ur able to stand on Ur feet, go and marry. If U ad more to Ur load now, U will not be doing Urself good.
Posted: at 6-04-2009 11:55 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
switch to plan b
get a betta job......dough its not easy
2.0.
Posted: at 6-04-2009 12:01 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
No put your hand where your hand no reach.Tell them when it will be convenient for you to bring the items on the list,they should not be the one to give you a date/deadline. Wish you luck.
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.)
Posted: at 6-04-2009 02:18 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
Seems youre not ready - because after wedding you might need to do better than youre doing now
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 7-04-2009 03:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
EwosaQueen89 at 7-04-2009 04:49 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Bros sorry to say, but ure not ready for marriage yet,...dont even think of borrowing money to marry, thats a very .... idea,...! Its time you sit yourself down and solve your financial problems, cause if you really love your fiance you wouldnt want her to join you and suffer,....XOXO
Posted: at 7-04-2009 04:49 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
makintosh94 at 7-04-2009 10:20 PM (15 years ago) (m)
haba, poster. your story is incredible. if u borrow for traditional marrriage which u claim does not require a lot, what will u do when white(church) wedding comes. why do u intend to start your marriage in debt (past, present and future). take naija pals advice, do what u can afford now, postpone the rest and get a better paying job before u continue. do not mortgage the future to borrow-pose. no need going nuts, be realsitic with yourself.
Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:20 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
My Philosophy: No Carry Load wey Heavy pass me... Yu shld adopt it
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:24 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
:(I just don't know what to do about my problem. The problem I'm talking about is financial constraint. I just returned from my fiance parents and I was given list of what to bring for the traditional wedding before end of April. Those items are few and cheap but my main problem even when I work is money. I am indebted and my monthly pay is not enough. I'm confused and I don't want to be put into shame. My parents are old and poor and I am the one that care for them and my siblings. Please I need advice before I go nut.
My Philosophy: No Carry Load wey Heavy pass me... Yu shld adopt it
adopter
Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:37 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
ibobobelvis at 7-04-2009 10:40 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: EwosaQueen89 on 7-04-2009 04:49 PM
Bros sorry to say, but ure not ready for marriage yet,...dont even think of borrowing money to marry, thats a very .... idea,...! Its time you sit yourself down and solve your financial problems, cause if you really love your fiance you wouldnt want her to join you and suffer,....XOXO
bros abeg reason wit this babe,its better u are sufferin alone than to add ur wife n children to d suffferin,marriage cn always wait,make ur money first n all other tins shall b added unto u
anything worth doing is worth doing well
Posted: at 7-04-2009 10:40 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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