My Dad's youngest sister is 39. she just got married last year to an AA guy she met on an online dating site. They got married here in Nigeria, so she has to be in Nigeria for 2 years before gets her green card to join him.
The guy has been to Nigeria a couple of times, but I haven't met him. He sent me a friend request on facebook, and earlier in the year, he asked my Aunty to give him my bb pin. We started chatting innocently. I call him uncle, and he calls me 'my sexy niece' he always try to chat me up every other day. After a while the communication stopped. We didn't chat for 2 months, but I could care less. Yesterday, he went on full toasting mode. Telling me his marriage between by Aunty and him is over, and how he's always been in love with me and want's to marry me. I was trying to see reasons with him (more out of respect than anything else) why the liaison would never work, because his wife in question is my Aunt, plus I have a boyfriend I love.
He went on to say "Bleep tradition! Bleep family!!! I want you to be here in new york city with me before the end of the year. We'll get married here and bla bla bla" It was shocking and traumatising. I'll never be foolish enough to fall for that crap. But I may just teach him a few lessons never to mess with a naija girl.
I really don't know whether or not to tell my Aunt about this and make it a family issue.
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Posted: at 3-08-2012 12:48 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
rayOFsunshine at 3-08-2012 01:14 PM (11 years ago) (f)
If you have your evidence, then go ahead and tell your people and am sure ur poor auntie is busy waiting for that ingrate
Posted: at 3-08-2012 01:14 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
Oh girl shine your eyes...he wants to bring you to NYC ....no problem lemme him make that possible first and then you will from there teach Nima lesson...first let your aunt be aware of what he told...once u step your foot in NYC ...don't let him have sex with ,,,,make sure he give you your paper and u have a job...then find your way or lock his ass up
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Posted: at 3-08-2012 02:35 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
rayOFsunshine at 3-08-2012 02:40 PM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 3-08-2012 02:35 PM
Oh girl shine your eyes...he wants to bring you to NYC ....no problem lemme him make that possible first and then you will from there teach Nima lesson...first let your aunt be aware of what he told...once u step your foot in NYC ...don't let him have sex with ,,,,make sure he give you your paper and u have a job...then find your way or lock his ass up
sure what he is suggestin is bad but for the lady to do what u suggest is bad also two wrongs make no right
Posted: at 3-08-2012 02:40 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
Angelnoni1 at 3-08-2012 05:22 PM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 3-08-2012 02:35 PM
Oh girl shine your eyes...he wants to bring you to NYC ....no problem lemme him make that possible first and then you will from there teach Nima lesson...first let your aunt be aware of what he told...once u step your foot in NYC ...don't let him have sex with ,,,,make sure he give you your paper and u have a job...then find your way or lock his ass up
u are rite gal...
Posted: at 3-08-2012 05:22 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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