Am 23, I want to get married, want to be called a wife and a mother. I want to enter the world of the married women but my people are objecting. Am i too young or what cud be the problem? What can i do to get married without my family objecting?
Beauty of the zone.... Blackbeauty005 am loving ma name.....If kissing can be food... Love kissing m
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
princemech at 13-04-2009 02:10 PM (15 years ago) (m)
hell no....should i come 4 that ?
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:10 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
is tht u ?.awwwwwww, i luv tht dress.lol.well,marriage is a life commitment and i'm sure u know tht.are u ready for tht and is ur man ready as well?.if u both are ready than try make ur parent understd.
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:12 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 13-04-2009 02:15 PM (15 years ago) (f)
make sure u're reallly ready....
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:15 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
blackbeauty005 at 13-04-2009 02:19 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Dip i think i nid counselling, my man is ready too. I was even thinking of getting pregnant if my fam wil change their mind. But cn som1 tel me more abt marriage?
Beauty of the zone.... Blackbeauty005 am loving ma name.....If kissing can be food... Love kissing m
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:19 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
wel u dont look young so u definately not young as par u parent concent naa u knw,the type of child u ar we determing wat to do and if u must knw marriage is not lik am goin on vacation is life time commitment and that mean u cant take a break or seister
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:23 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
diplomatik at 13-04-2009 02:25 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: blackbeauty005 on 13-04-2009 02:19 PM
Dip i think i nid counselling, my man is ready too. I was even thinking of getting pregnant if my fam wil change their mind. But cn som1 tel me more abt marriage?
well am not married yet...but when am ready to i have to be sure thats what i really want....there's no point rushing it....if the guy really loves u tell him to give u another year...tell him that u love him..but u just want to be fully ready b4 going in into it....
or better still look for some1 who's already married to help
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:25 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
In marriage, Age doesn't matter much but the HEAD. If You rush in....You'll rush out. Search Yourself....Are You capable of handling a LIFE-TIME responsibility? Wedding might be fun but MARRIAGE is no joke.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:26 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
blackbeauty005 at 13-04-2009 02:29 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Yes o my princes, mariage is whn d guy losses his bachelor's degree and d woman obtain d master's degree. Dip tnx 4 d advice. Think i nid to get a deep thnkin abt this.
Beauty of the zone.... Blackbeauty005 am loving ma name.....If kissing can be food... Love kissing m
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:29 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
u r not young to get married... but ask urself.....do u hv d mentality dat goes wit it? r u mentally ready?....do u hv d right man?... can u compromise?....r u two really friends to go thru ups nd downs? now....r u ready?
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:33 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Dip i think i nid counselling, my man is ready too. I was even thinking of getting pregnant if my fam wil change their mind. But cn som1 tel me more abt marriage?
getting pregnant is not a good idea,cos u both might not end up being together even wit a baby in the picture. u shuld pray to God for his blessings and it kinda nice when u live wit the guy befor marriage ,cos wit tht u get to see if u both can tolerate each other or not.the world has changed,its not like in those old days .
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:36 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Beautydiva at 13-04-2009 02:42 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Marriage is not 4 d faint hearted. U have 2 be ready psychologically, emotionally etc before making d life long committment. U said "u want 2 be called a wife n mother". "U want 2 enter d world of married women". Do u think these r the right reasons becos i can only see "want" not 'need'. There is a huge difference btw want and need.
OR maybe ur family feel dat u r not matured enough 4 marriage so u have 2 prove them wrong.
Posted: at 13-04-2009 02:42 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
blackbeauty005 at 13-04-2009 03:33 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Pires did i told u there is a date, i beg tok sense lol. Mazi nt dt al these u said i get nt but i feel i am ready but somtin puls me bak creatin fear in my hart. Like wil this work out? We both stil young can we pull togeda? Getting scared of being pregnant along d line nd lata regreting. I nid 2 be counsel.
Beauty of the zone.... Blackbeauty005 am loving ma name.....If kissing can be food... Love kissing m
Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:33 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Pires did i told u there is a date, i beg tok sense lol. Mazi nt dt al these u said i get nt but i feel i am ready but somtin puls me bak creatin fear in my hart. Like wil this work out? We both stil young can we pull togeda? Getting scared of being pregnant along d line nd lata regreting. I nid 2 be counsel.
ohh i thought u ve concluded with all dis many advice. s0 u still dey wait for more? my dear time waits for nobody oh. when u fix date no forget me oh
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 13-04-2009 03:37 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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