Break up and Marriage mistakes , you must avoid to save your relationship or ma

 We are going to  discus on the various mistakes that leads people to a divorce or break up in their  relationship .We discus about the mistakes of trying to impose change on another person , promising or speaking change without seeing it and  when not to  used the word I love you.

In this guide, we are going to looking at the other mistakes that one needs to avoid in order to save your relationship or marriage from an impending breakup or divorce due to increasing break up and divorce rate today . Let look at more of it  now .
You can decide to leave your ex partner alone for some time without disturbing or worrying them about the break up or the strain in your relationship with them and with time , they themselves will feel insecure too if they genuine love you when the relationship was all rosy and they will try to create time and opportunity to meet you  in order to  reconcile things with you.

Keeping your cool sometimes help and it creates desire in your partner to want you back and they themselves will start making the efforts to get you to reconcile with them.

Another mistake, that people usually make in a relationship is resorting to arguing and causing problems always claiming that the other party in the relationship or some other people around them are the cause of the problems in the relationship.

The truth  of  the matter, in almost all relationships that lead to breakups , the two parties usually have their own share of the blame for the strain in the relationship but this is not the right time to apportion blames to anybody but this is the right time to ponder over what you and your partner did wrong and how you could create opportunities once  again to  amend situations with your partner.

The truth is that they more you argue and want to amend your stand , the more you are going to be defensive and when you are defensive , you are not helping to save or build back the relationship in any way .

Your partners will also want to be defensive too in such situations , meaning that arguing and been  defensive at the long run does not solve any problem in a relationship and it  is a relationship mistake that you must try as much as possible to avoid .

The best things in a situation that may lead to an argument where you know that both of you have your fair share of fault is to apologize to your partner or ex partner.

This seriously helps to amend your relationship as your partner later will be thinking  that sincerely both of you may have your faults but for your to make the extra effort to apologize on time is a good indicator of a positive relationship in the future.

One single effort of apologizing , can sometimes be the trigger that you need to initiate a reconciliation effort in your relationship or marriage that works towards fixing or saving your marriage from a break up or impending divorce.

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Posted: at 22-08-2012 09:03 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie

Ok,u do well

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Posted: at 22-08-2012 10:45 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 11-06-2015 06:53 AM (8 years ago) | Newbie