HELP!!! I Have Been Sleeping With A Co-Worker Who’s Engaged - Lady

Date: 19-11-2012 8:22 am (11 years ago) | Author: Charles colins
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- at 19-11-2012 08:22 AM (11 years ago)
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I’m a 37-year old female who has been in a relationship for the past 5 years. As of the past year in the relationship I have been completely stressed out due to financial issues (with no assistance from my boyfriend) and lack of attention. With this being said, sleeping together hasn’t been much of a concern for me. He has stressed the fact that this is a need for him, in which I do understand, but I’m not as s*xually attracted to him as I was.



So, let’s fast forward a bit; five months ago I began a new friendship with a co-worker who had been pursuing me hard. I became aware of the fact that he had a lady (who he plans on marrying) once we started to get acquainted, and he knew of my situation. We would be temporary. We begin to get quite close over time and eventually became physical 2 months in (mostly kissing and sex only a couple times).

Feelings have started to brew on both ends to the point that we were falling for one another, but someone else came in to the picture: God. One minute he’s telling me how he needs me in his life and he can’t let me go, and I’m his addiction. Then he’s making statements of him being disobedient to GOD. This little charade has happened about 3 times. – Am I His Addiction? Please Help.

Posted: at 19-11-2012 08:22 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- denmal at 19-11-2012 08:53 AM (11 years ago)
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you better face reality
Posted: at 19-11-2012 08:53 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 19-11-2012 09:34 AM (11 years ago)
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Ashawo
Posted: at 19-11-2012 09:34 AM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- proly at 19-11-2012 09:39 AM (11 years ago)
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U supose 2 be in ur husby by now nt slipn round...may god help. U
Posted: at 19-11-2012 09:39 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- nzewyte at 19-11-2012 10:17 AM (11 years ago)
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Money 4 hand, back 4 ground! Omoge u fyn o ooooo!

Posted: at 19-11-2012 10:17 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- aso4life1 at 19-11-2012 10:33 AM (11 years ago)
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Office Ashewo, change your way....

Posted: at 19-11-2012 10:33 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- cherishp at 19-11-2012 11:08 AM (11 years ago)
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My dear, I think u need to take a break and focus. If u actually need a husband, then u have to stop all temporary comfort and happiness so that u can get a permanent one. U need who u can call ur own, so quit every 'undefined and I'm-looking-God relationships.'
Posted: at 19-11-2012 11:08 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- neloceleb at 19-11-2012 11:30 AM (11 years ago)
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No,u r not his addiction... u ar ur addiction
Posted: at 19-11-2012 11:30 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dizhadah at 19-11-2012 11:34 AM (11 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed
Posted: at 19-11-2012 11:34 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wiplash at 19-11-2012 11:45 AM (11 years ago)
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U want my advice? Wait I dey com coprate ashewo.
Posted: at 19-11-2012 11:45 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- ela214 at 19-11-2012 11:50 AM (11 years ago)
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y don´t u take a break n clear ur head be4 u become a laughing stock.yeah i know when u get what u hav from anoda man it´s tempting
but hey u have to know what u want in life.
Posted: at 19-11-2012 11:50 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Senegal at 19-11-2012 12:12 PM (11 years ago)
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Stupid girl
Posted: at 19-11-2012 12:12 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Bettygirls at 19-11-2012 12:28 PM (11 years ago)
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hmm
Posted: at 19-11-2012 12:28 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- malamy at 19-11-2012 12:29 PM (11 years ago)
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Your sex with him is his addiction!
Posted: at 19-11-2012 12:29 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 19-11-2012 12:33 PM (11 years ago)
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i  c
Posted: at 19-11-2012 12:33 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- chicco77 at 19-11-2012 12:59 PM (11 years ago)
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get out ashawo
Posted: at 19-11-2012 12:59 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 19-11-2012 01:08 PM (11 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 19-11-2012 01:08 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Neropapas at 19-11-2012 01:21 PM (11 years ago)
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 Huh? *just passing* brb!! Till I come, enjoy urselves.
Posted: at 19-11-2012 01:21 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- funkkyboy at 19-11-2012 01:52 PM (11 years ago)
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You are a big slut, What are u still waiting for at that your age?  Better change your way and face one Man.
Posted: at 19-11-2012 01:52 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- crusifixo at 19-11-2012 01:57 PM (11 years ago)
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we all addiction is bad....when he is rehabilitated you will be history........ Angry Angry Angry Angry
Posted: at 19-11-2012 01:57 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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