My name is Ngozi am a widow with 3kids,I have a very close friend whose name is Ebere' we were so close that many people tot we are sisters,she fell sick n stayed in the hospital in Enugu 4 close to 6months n later She was referred to India,her husband n her Maid followed her n the Children started living with me,the husband came back not quite long n left the maid with her,every evening when the man is coming from Work the man must reach my house to see his kids n drop things 4 them if he brought anything not quite long Rumor started flying around that We were dating,many people started spreading it,my friend's younger sister started insulting me n Somehow it got to my friend's ear,she called me n I said nothing like that but her BP increased n not up to 3months she Died,the maid came back but the children refused to go back to their house,the first son said if he will go my son must follow him,so their father left them with me but always send money 4 their up keep,last month made it one year that my friend died n surprisingly he proposed to me,the man said I should marry him n help me mother he kids officially! Am so confuse cos many people will now believe we were truly dating b4 what do u think I should do? Accept him or let him see reasons why it can't be possible?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 7-12-2012 11:41 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
If u fEel u love him enough accept it qnd forget what people will say ok. U can never please people no matter what u do people must talk ok. Is up to u to decide what u want for yourself ok. Take care and stay cool
Posted: at 7-12-2012 12:03 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
this 1 na between the devil n deep blue sea,4get the proposal,if not u´ll foreva remain a friend who killed her friend to take ova her husband,u´´ll neva be happy in dat marriage. if u ask me say a polite no n give him reasons. A GUD NAME IS BETA THAT SILVER N GOLD
Posted: at 7-12-2012 12:06 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
giftmurphy at 7-12-2012 12:14 PM (11 years ago) (f)
m not sure this is the matter of i love him e loves me tooo....Do not accept,cant believe u want to marry him, 1.the sister might likely say u killed ur friend cos of the husband cos whenn she heard u r datin her huband her BP increased n she died.....so think twice before how id know comes in...
Posted: at 7-12-2012 12:14 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
what ever advised a man gave you might not be right, so seek God own advise, ask Him to reveal and tell you what you should do, fast for 3 days and wait for God's answer.
Posted: at 7-12-2012 12:21 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
BolajiWasiu at 7-12-2012 01:13 PM (11 years ago) (m)
If married him and u take care of your friend children she will be happy in heaven than another person come from nowhere. And started surf ring those children,but is their is anything between u and d man b4 the death of ur friend is not good at all,but if it is after her death to me oOo noting is wrong .
Posted: at 7-12-2012 01:13 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
This is real trash. Sophie or what eva you just made up this story. This did not happen to you, unless it u wanna tell us u are speaking on ur friend's behalf.
Posted: at 7-12-2012 01:39 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
My name is Ngozi am a widow with 3kids,I have a very close friend whose name is Ebere' we were so close that many people tot we are sisters,she fell sick n stayed in the hospital in Enugu 4 close to 6months n later She was referred to India,her husband n her Maid followed her n the Children started living with me,the husband came back not quite long n left the maid with her,every evening when the man is coming from Work the man must reach my house to see his kids n drop things 4 them if he brought anything not quite long Rumor started flying around that We were dating,many people started spreading it,my friend's younger sister started insulting me n Somehow it got to my friend's ear,she called me n I said nothing like that but her BP increased n not up to 3months she Died,the maid came back but the children refused to go back to their house,the first son said if he will go my son must follow him,so their father left them with me but always send money 4 their up keep,last month made it one year that my friend died n surprisingly he proposed to me,the man said I should marry him n help me mother he kids officially! Am so confuse cos many people will now believe we were truly dating b4 what do u think I should do? Accept him or let him see reasons why it can't be possible?
This is real trash. Sophie or what eva you just made up this story. This did not happen to you, unless it u wanna tell us u are speaking on ur friend's behalf.
Posted: at 7-12-2012 01:43 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
sophiebaby at 7-12-2012 02:44 PM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Adims on 7-12-2012 01:39 PM
This is real trash. Sophie or what eva you just made up this story. This did not happen to you, unless it u wanna tell us u are speaking on ur friend's behalf.
Mr man.. i guess u r insane.. do i have a prob wit u? and when did my name turn to ngozi? u'd rather not commented at all. its not by force..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 7-12-2012 02:44 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
why should you care what people think about u and him,na dem go live yr life,if u like the guy then marry him and if possible u guys can relocate...,since you are a widow then you can go ahead and marry him
Posted: at 7-12-2012 02:50 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 7-12-2012 02:51 PM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: trolling on 7-12-2012 02:50 PM
why should you care what people think about u and him,na dem go live yr life,if u like the guy then marry him and if possible u guys can relocate...,since you are a widow then you can go ahead and marry him
ok..thanks.. she'd get that
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 7-12-2012 02:51 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero