You can never do without sex in a relationship

YOU CAN NEVER BE IN A RELATIONSHIP
WITHOUT HAVING SEX
(stop deceiving yourself; women
especially)
There's no relationship without sex
contrary to what so many people have
been made to believe especially the young
(females). So many people have sited the
fact that some people have succeeded in it
but I say to you that few people have
succeeded in it, this might sound strange
to you but it’s the truth.

"if you don't want sex don't be in a
relationship"
Some people will buy into this idea but still
question the rationale behind it; some
people might say they've seen it happen in
the course of reading this but has it really
happened?.
Let's break it down:
Sex can mean any of this kissing,
masturbation, mutual masturbation, finger
f**king, fore-play, non-penetrative s*x,
honeypotl s*x, anal s*x…
Now ask yourself can you be in an intimate
relationship without engaging in any of
that?
If you say yes, then it means you are not
in an intimate relationship because the
love you have for your partner will cause
you to have feelings which brings about
intimacy.
"Just because you're not having
penetrative s*x does not mean you are
not having s*x"
You need to have s*x to commit
fornication the act of committing
fornication isn't until you have penetrative
s*x or any of those form of sex mentioned
earlier I think Christians will agree with me
that all it takes to commit fornication is for
you to look and lust in your heart which
means mere looking and lusting in your
heart shows you've had sex within you.
Now again ask yourself is it possible to be
in an intimate relationship without lusting
after your partner in your heart the answer
is no. So if you don't want to have s*x in a
relationship don't be in one.
Saying you and your partner have both
agreed not to have s*x in your relationship
does not make sense it only shows how
misinformed you have.
Remember just because you are not having
"penetrative s*x" in your relationship
doesn't mean you are not indulging in
other form of s*x. However there’s the
courtship stage you don't have to be in a
boyfriend and girlfriend relationship to get
to the courtship stage so rather opt for
that option.
So ladies if you keep on going on picking
and dumping guys because they asked for
s*x, you are wasting your own little time, if
you are not ready don’t engage in any r/
ship, stopping wasting that guy’s time.
Imagine the guy dates you when you are at
the age of 18 years but you keep on telling
him to wait till marriage and you are
expecting marriage at 26, 27 or 28 years.
But on top of that you want him to be
showering you with gifts, he takes you out,
on tours, dinners and any more sort of
care… you want him pay your tuition,
seriously you want him spend on you like
his a billionaire, you want him treat you
like a daughter of the king/queen…! When
he doesn’t do so you start skipping to eat
and crying that he doesn’t truly love you,
you start suspecting that maybe he is
seeing someone else, then you finally say
he never truly loved u, you get
heartbroken and start admiring other
happy couples, within a short period of
time you heart mends up again, you give it
to that other new guy, you find him more
worse than the EX, then u also dump him
and start saying that all guys are the same
as if you’re the one who produced them or
you have tried dating the whole world
Seriously how long will that last? Will u go
on exploring the whole world that u are
looking for a guy who doesn’t like s*x?
Think of the time u are going to be
wasting. You are growing old as your
friends are getting married. You keep on
waiting and searching for that right guy
(who doesn’t want/demand you s*x) but
will you get him? Dear girls, you might end
up searching forever because God might
send u a right guy but you dumped him
because at one time he asked for s*x.
Ladies style up, stop telling that guy you
love him when you are to make him suffer
till the right time you will feel that you are
ready. And guys don’t love someone for
S*X. s*x is a by the way in a relationship,
it’s just something for a slight fun, it’s just
for good health and it should be protected.
Don’t make it a job to be done every after
2 days, a week or two weeks. Be focused
and seriously love that girl. Don’t make her
a sex machine.
Please get me right am not saying that s*x
is love but no guy who will love you for
years and years till any age you want
without asking for s*x one day. If they are
their then they are few.
I repeat it “Don’t fall in love again or waste
that guy’s time if you are not read to
sustain everything, don’t drain his wallet,
don’t complain that he is not showering
you with the gifts, not taking you out….
When you can’t do the necessary, rather
stay single and keep you hearts till
judgment day”

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Posted: at 12-12-2012 11:13 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 13-12-2012 07:03 AM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

U try sha,bt e long o

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Posted: at 13-12-2012 09:54 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

senseless  nonsense!full of contradictions!!! so u want to say dat pple dat are single dont masturbate, finger phyuk &etc u mentioned above.so y are u hammering on not engaging in a   relationship as if dats de only way one can avoid de above mentioned. moreover courtship is a relationship too between a man & a woman. so if one can engage in courtship without sex, why wont any1 do so in ur so  calleed relationship. dont judge any1 & dont try to justify sex outside marriage for   anytin. coz  i dont get ur point....u talk sensibly de next sentence u contradict urself.

Posted: at 13-12-2012 02:33 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

 

Posted: at 13-12-2012 04:41 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master

POSTER SO U ARE SAYING WE SHOULD CONTINUE TO LIVE IN FORNICATION;WOUNDERS INDEED

Posted: at 13-12-2012 09:59 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac