I love my girlfriend but she's got too many problems for me to deal with?

My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 1 year and a half now and we have never stopped loving each other and we are in our early 20's but she's got some major issues which i'm scared might lead to me leaving her some day.

She has had some family issues in the past and has faced lot of problems and pains in life and is still facing them while i have been lucky not to have gone through so much pain and problems in life so you will understand why i dont know how to handle her situation..but the thing is she is letting her problems get in the way of our relationship.Here are some things she's been doing a lot the past couple of months and sometimes i get angry rather than console her or even shout at her
1) She almost always depressed and worries too much.Always keeps reminding herself of all the bad things she has gone through in life
2) She's too emotional..she cries way too much and it pisses me off...these days i don't console her anymore,i just get angry and i show it
3) She falls sick almost every week and i feel like she exaggerates it sometimes and at some point i stopped caring too much..cos i've spent too much money on drugs already..she's already shivering at the slightest cold or rolling on the floor crying when she has a headache or her usual stomach ulcer.
4) she's too negative and complains a lot about everything and waits for me to tell her what to do and how to do it...sometimes i feel like i'm dating a baby
5) She's too clingy,always wants me to be around her,hardly gives me space,even when i tell her i need space and i go to my own house,she is calling me all the time,always wants to talk to me.
So this are the major problems i am facing with my girlfriend and i'm scared that if she continues this way i might just call it quit..every other thing is great...i love her so much and i'm scared of losing her..thats why i hope you guys can offer me and her a solution..thanks."

Posted: at 27-01-2013 09:09 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

u love her so much and u cant leave her good, so why the complain? die 4 ur love, u are not first romeo..

Posted: at 27-01-2013 09:45 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

are these what you called problems,,, im indeed sorry for you,, if you cant be there for her at the trying times, what are you still doing with her,, then dump her, and go for a mature lady that wont act like a baby, and that would still be bold enough to cheat on you and still yell at you,,,  arrant nonsense,,

Posted: at 27-01-2013 10:34 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

continue some more GOD will make a way ,:       

Posted: at 27-01-2013 11:03 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

U better face it now and be a man. Imagine! you have a daughter just like her with the same winging. What do u mean by "get in the way of our relationship". Is your relationship based on smiling or laughing all the time? She need you but, your love for her is fading away because u are not longer happy. To conclude u r both unhappy and u need to shower her with ur problems.    

Posted: at 27-01-2013 11:42 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Ok

Posted: at 27-01-2013 11:58 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

This is not what I call problem Mr. Romeo

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Posted: at 28-01-2013 01:03 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

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Posted: at 28-01-2013 01:53 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Hmmm!

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Posted: at 28-01-2013 04:28 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well, if all these problems & feelings are really bothering you, then it's best to talk to your gf herself and let her know what's on your mind & how you feel about these problems In a relationship, you're not always gonna gave good days with smiles & laughter. There'll be days that you need to "communicate" with each other, share thoughts & feelings in certain situations. The first 2 are somewhat linked together. Depressed=Worry=Cry. When youre depressed/sad, thinking & worrying about something, you're gonna be emotional about it and for most they end up crying. If your gf is being depressed all the time you should comfort her. Be by her side so she knows youre there for her, encourage her with positive words on the particular issue she's depressed on such as "Thats the past you have to let go, but our future will be brighter etc." If your gf is being sick all the time (esp the way you described it) then she may need to visit a  doc. 5. That's natural. Thats how you know you're in love. You'll wanna be with that person all the time. You should be happy she wants to be with you & not another man. Continue loving her the same so she knows you love her as much. Overall, if you want your relationship to change, talk to her. In a marriage you'll eventually have to communicate with each other; when things are rough between both of you, or a partner may have problems he/she needs to share to the other. Becuz right now she doesn't know you feel this way.

Posted: at 28-01-2013 06:11 AM (11 years ago) | Hero