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Second time around!!!

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Topic: Second time around!!! (Read 2289 times)
count (7)
Newbie (m) | 6 years ago

After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??


29 Apr 08, 08:55 AM
myragonza (41400)
Addicted Hero (f) | 6 years ago

if it broke up due to cheating,it can never work out.....leopards doesn't change its spots....


29 Apr 08, 08:58 AM
count (7)
Newbie (m) | 6 years ago

But a snake normally sheds its skin after a while,or dont u think??

29 Apr 08, 09:33 AM
Vixenx (21463)
Addicted Hero (f) | 6 years ago

Quote from: count on 29 Apr 08, 08:55 AM
After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??

nope!..the trust have been broken, and if u do come back together..it will cause alot of problems in your relationship, because one will always be suspicious of the other...

@count....yes a snake...not human beings in a relationship...this is totally different, but i get what u mean..but it doesn't work cause the damage is done already.


29 Apr 08, 04:06 PM
britelife (267)
Upcoming (m) | 6 years ago

Why would you want to go back to your vomit?

The relationship ended because one of you cheated.

What gives you the impresson that if you come back together, cheating wont occur?

29 Apr 08, 04:24 PM
count (7)
Newbie (m) | 6 years ago

So in ur Dico,there are no words like forgive and forget???There are cases that ppl were under the influence of alcohol(or claim to be)and do somethig they live to regret.Or when u weren`t still sure tat ur partner is the one really  for u.But on loosing him/her,u realise that u cant live without him/her

29 Apr 08, 04:31 PM
britelife (267)
Upcoming (m) | 6 years ago

Forgive an forget

But i cant go back to the relationshp

29 Apr 08, 04:55 PM
count (7)
Newbie (m) | 6 years ago

We l ive and we learn.We learn to forgive as we learn to love.Someone that has hurt you before and knew how deeply u were hurt will be more careful not to hurt u than a new person that can also giv it a trial.Hard times makes a strong relationship even stronger.So it menas u guys dont blieve in soulmate??What if she7he is ur true soulmate??

29 Apr 08, 06:09 PM
Vixenx (21463)
Addicted Hero (f) | 6 years ago

We do believe in soulmates, but it depends on how the relationship ended. If its cheating involved..then how do you know he won't do it again?..and plus if he loved you so much..do you think he would even dare to do something like that to you?..i don't think so..I do believe in giving second chances, but not in this case..it will never work cause you'll still be suspicious of him everytime he leaves your corner..wondering what he's doing and who he is with..and then probably starting an arguement with him everytime he comes home..I don't think anyone in their right minds will like to go through such drama in a relationship. But then again, you do have those that love drama filled relationship.


30 Apr 08, 02:20 AM
myragonza (41400)
Addicted Hero (f) | 6 years ago

Quote from: count on 29 Apr 08, 06:09 PM
We l ive and we learn.We learn to forgive as we learn to love.Someone that has hurt you before and knew how deeply u were hurt will be more careful not to hurt u than a new person that can also giv it a trial.Hard times makes a strong relationship even stronger.So it menas u guys dont blieve in soulmate??What if she7he is ur true soulmate??


its easier to forgive than forget....when u keep thinking of the stuffs that u cannot forget,it can never work....its keeps popping...


30 Apr 08, 07:57 AM
angelgirl42 (1)
Newbie (f) | 6 years ago

the  second  time  around  its  really  hard  cause  if  u  been  hurt  the  first  time  really  made   it  hard

to   go  on  ,cause  its  hard  to  know

what  will  go  wrong  for  the  second  time

and  if  u  did  not  cheat  , than  it  mite  not  be  as  hard  but  if  u  were  beating  up  in  any  relationship  than  it  will  make  it  hard  the  second  time  around.

9 Sep 08, 08:36 PM
chiomsx (1195)
Gistmaniac (f) | 6 years ago

i beg to differ..some people really do change..when they realise their error..but u will neva know they hav really changed unless you give them a chance....if d person who cheated is serious(by this tym u shld have known/undastood d behavioural patterns of ur partner), then I believe the relationship will be stronger cos dat individual will do everything to make the relationship work so that he shldnt loose u again..dats just what I think...

9 Sep 08, 08:43 PM
vincenice (1053)
Gistmaniac (m) | 6 years ago

Quote from: count on 29 Apr 08, 08:55 AM
After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??

y not na dat time dem go understand dem self well.

9 Sep 08, 08:46 PM
chiomsx (1195)
Gistmaniac (f) | 6 years ago

Quote from: vincenice on  9 Sep 08, 08:46 PM
Quote from: count on 29 Apr 08, 08:55 AM
After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??

y not na dat time dem go understand dem self well.

thank you!! Wink

9 Sep 08, 11:00 PM
darkocean002 (2908)
Gistmaniac (m) | 6 years ago

Quote from: count on 29 Apr 08, 08:55 AM
After breaking up for a long while cos one of the persons involved in a relationship cheated.Will d relationship work if they come back together again??

it wont ever work  again... the trust is lost

10 Sep 08, 03:11 AM
philomena87 (5784)
Gistmaniac (f) | 6 years ago

@poster u don hear am ... i cant work ooo wit 100% trust and witout tat trust the relationship is notin

some one enterin a relationship is even afraid of been cheated and u come to see one been cheated how would he or she feel ...??

10 Sep 08, 12:56 PM
C-boy (1658)
Gistmaniac (m) | 6 years ago

Let ur head rule ur heart. Sometimes the hard way's the only way.


10 Sep 08, 01:03 PM
chiomsx (1195)
Gistmaniac (f) | 6 years ago

some second chances do work....

10 Sep 08, 01:37 PM
C-boy (1658)
Gistmaniac (m) | 6 years ago

it'll take a while 2 regain the trust, don't u think?


10 Sep 08, 01:41 PM
judy4love (39)
Newbie (f) | 6 years ago

no one is above mistake

10 Sep 08, 01:55 PM
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