playing the Victim!

Date: 03-05-2009 2:24 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Chuks
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- at 3-05-2009 02:24 PM (14 years ago)
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 Why is it that when the r/ship ends, women always play the victim and how much the guy has treated her wrong. I mean do you females ever stop for once and ask yourself what is it that you were doing wrong b4 pointing fingers.


Posted: at 3-05-2009 02:24 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Akpan01 at 3-05-2009 02:35 PM (14 years ago)
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HMMM WHEN A RELATIONSHIP IS FINISHED A WOMAN THINK ABOUT IT SEVERAL TIMES WHAT SHE WAS DOING WRONG...AND MAYBE SOMETIMES WE BLAME OURSELF MAXIMUM WE NOT SHOW IT TO THE PUBLIC...BUT NORMALLY AND 70% OF BREAK UP IS CAUSE OF THE MAN BAD BEHAVER...
LIKE: BEATING/DRINKING/CHETING/ETC....JUST VERY FEW WOMAN WHO CAN DO SUCH A MISTAKES....WHAT A MAN CAN DO.....

Posted: at 3-05-2009 02:35 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- osituga at 3-05-2009 02:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Oya where are you pple oo ??

Let them answer ... imma go wake dem up

*osi enters their room ...Cbee....Vivi....Diplo...BB...Akpan01.. etc u need to follow me to the forums right noe**
Posted: at 3-05-2009 02:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 3-05-2009 02:44 PM (14 years ago)
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 sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.
Posted: at 3-05-2009 02:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- typicalman84 at 3-05-2009 02:48 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on  3-05-2009 02:44 PM
sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.

but at the end, they realize they have made a very huge mistake. that would be after they must've slept with too many other dudes and expect for the nice guy to take them back. talk about selfishness.

Posted: at 3-05-2009 02:48 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- welli at 3-05-2009 02:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quit Generalizing!!
Even Guys play Victim....Almost every Guy when asking anatha Gurl out
claims to have been heartbroken by their Ex.
There are People who love victimization...Doesn't have to do with a specific Gender!

Posted: at 3-05-2009 02:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 3-05-2009 02:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  3-05-2009 02:48 PM
Quote from: onyin on  3-05-2009 02:44 PM
sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.

but at the end, they realize they have made a very huge mistake. that would be after they must've slept with too many other dudes and expect for the nice guy to take them back. talk about selfishness.
yea, tht's life.but u guys aint innocent either.i mean sum guys do the same as well.
Posted: at 3-05-2009 02:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- eagleseyez at 3-05-2009 03:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on  3-05-2009 02:52 PM
Quit Generalizing!!
Even Guys play Victim....Almost every Guy when asking anatha Gurl out
claims to have been heartbroken by their Ex.
There are People who love victimization...Doesn't have to do with a specific Gender!


Oh Yeah?
but it is mostly on them girls
Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- welli at 3-05-2009 03:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: eagleseyez on  3-05-2009 03:06 PM
Oh Yeah?
but it is mostly on them girls
There's nuffin like it's mostly on Gurls'  side!!

Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- typicalman84 at 3-05-2009 03:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on  3-05-2009 02:52 PM
Quit Generalizing!!
Even Guys play Victim....Almost every Guy when asking anatha Gurl out
claims to have been heartbroken by their Ex.
There are People who love victimization...Doesn't have to do with a specific Gender!
I'm not talking about what another dude tells you about their ex while toasting you. that one na tactics. im talking about her actions following the breakup. its very absurd. Na so she go call the dude every kinda name wey dey for this world. And it saddens me when her girlfriends would always start saying some crap in the name of consoling her. things like "girl don't mind him, you'll find a better person" or "he's just an A*#S, he didn't know what he had". i mean damn you dont know why they break up.

Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 3-05-2009 03:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  3-05-2009 03:25 PM
Quote from: welli on  3-05-2009 02:52 PM
Quit Generalizing!!
Even Guys play Victim....Almost every Guy when asking anatha Gurl out
claims to have been heartbroken by their Ex.
There are People who love victimization...Doesn't have to do with a specific Gender!
I'm not talking about what another dude tells you about their ex while toasting you. that one na tactics. im talking about her actions following the breakup. its very absurd. Na so she go call the dude every kinda name wey dey for this world. And it saddens me when her girlfriends would always start saying some crap in the name of consoling her. things like "girl don't mind him, you'll find a better person" or "he's just an A*#S, he didn't know what he had". i mean damn you dont know why they break up.

mmmm, hw pathetic

Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:37 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Toks-E at 3-05-2009 03:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Akpan01 on  3-05-2009 02:35 PM
HMMM WHEN A RELATIONSHIP IS FINISHED A WOMAN THINK ABOUT IT SEVERAL TIMES WHAT SHE WAS DOING WRONG...AND MAYBE SOMETIMES WE BLAME OURSELF MAXIMUM WE NOT SHOW IT TO THE PUBLIC...BUT NORMALLY AND 70% OF BREAK UP IS CAUSE OF THE MAN BAD BEHAVER...
LIKE: BEATING/DRINKING/CHETING/ETC....JUST VERY FEW WOMAN WHO CAN DO SUCH A MISTAKES....WHAT A MAN CAN DO.....

Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:38 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Toks-E at 3-05-2009 03:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on  3-05-2009 02:44 PM
sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.

Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:39 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- welli at 3-05-2009 03:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  3-05-2009 03:25 PM
I'm not talking about what another dude tells you about their ex while toasting you. that one na tactics. im talking about her actions following the breakup. its very absurd. Na so she go call the dude every kinda name wey dey for this world. And it saddens me when her girlfriends would always start saying some crap in the name of consoling her. things like "girl don't mind him, you'll find a better person" or "he's just an A*#S, he didn't know what he had". i mean damn you dont know why they break up.
Story!!!
I still say it's a both gender thang!

Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 3-05-2009 03:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Toks-E on  3-05-2009 03:39 PM
Quote from: onyin on  3-05-2009 02:44 PM
sincerely, its very hard for sum ladies to admit tht they are faulty as well,mostly when they are tired of the relationship.cos tht can only make them feel tht they need sumone better than the person they are datin,its normal.
oga, why r u reposting it?. lol
Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- daysolar at 3-05-2009 03:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  3-05-2009 02:24 PM
Why is it that when the r/ship ends, women always play the victim and how much the guy has treated her wrong. I mean do you females ever stop for once and ask yourself what is it that you were doing wrong b4 pointing fingers.
ok.... Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:53 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Toks-E at 3-05-2009 03:56 PM (14 years ago)
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u don drink engine oil?

Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:56 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- d_man at 3-05-2009 04:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  3-05-2009 02:24 PM
Why is it that when the r/ship ends, women always play the victim and how much the guy has treated her wrong. I mean do you females ever stop for once and ask yourself what is it that you were doing wrong b4 pointing fingers.
I've learnt that people shy away from accepting responsibility whenever something goes wrong
(Relationships and otherwise)
always looking to lay the blame on some1 or something else
Men and Women alike do it!
If you observe breakups..You'll find that both parties claim right!

Posted: at 3-05-2009 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 3-05-2009 04:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  3-05-2009 02:24 PM
Why is it that when the r/ship ends, women always play the victim and how much the guy has treated her wrong. I mean do you females ever stop for once and ask yourself what is it that you were doing wrong b4 pointing fingers.

Blame it on the Female u sexist Angry Angry
Posted: at 3-05-2009 04:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- d_man at 3-05-2009 04:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Not really he may have had a similar experience
he is just guilty of generalizing

Posted: at 3-05-2009 04:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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