…My GIRLFRIEND Dumped Me Because I Refused to SEX Her….

at 07:55 PM, 28 Mar 13 (4 years ago)
(414 | Upcoming) (m)

What am about to relate here just happened over the weekend and it got me so confused, I told a friend of mine, who then asked me to send the story to bloggers , I might get useful answers. So here I go.

A few months back, I met a lady on a social networking site, she is a Pharmaceutical student in one of the Universities in the South-South. We got talking, trying to psych up each other's intellectual prowess. I discovered she is a very good communicator, well read and highly versatile in almost every topic (politics, sports, social events, religion etc). She knew a bit about almost everything, and i too, am also an all rounder. So we took a liking to each other.

With each passing day, as expected, the issue of s*ex came up, i told her that i can never put pressure on a woman for s*ex on a first date, no matter how much pressed i am. I'd rather suffer in silence than do that. She said it's a lie, all men are the same, they appear nice and cute on the outside, but the moment a woman come into their life, the demon in them come out. I told her, am different, that the moment am focused on something, am focused, and unless the lady makes me believe she wants s*ex, i'll never ask her for it (on a first date). We both laughed and forgot the issue.

Just last week, i was sent on a strategic training session in her State, and i called her on Friday evening, after classes. She came to my hotel, we hugged, laughed, and said all sorts of nice things to each other (being the first time we're meeting), and we decided to spend the cool evening in a romantic resort. At about 8pm, when it was time to go, i called a cab to take her to her hostel and then take me back to my hotel. She told the cab driver to take us to my hotel first, that she'll pick a cab from there back to her hostel. I agreed. We got to the hotel and she changed her mind, said she would spend the night and go back early Saturday. I was curious, but didn’t argue, we both watched SkyNews till about 10pm and decided it was time to sleep, she went to take her bath while i went downstairs to get a recharge card. When i came back, i saw her wearing one of the sexiest, silky pacific-blue lingerie, she was arranging her hair in the bed mirror, immediately, i knew i was in for a huge test, so i complimented her outfit, got my blanket out and made to sleep on the couch. She looked at me with the side of her eyes, mumbled some incoherent words and got into the bed. My mind was heavy and i couldn't sleep. After a while, i heard her faint snoring and immediately knew she has slept, so i forced myself to sleep too.

Early the next morning, she woke up with a chip on her shoulders, i greeted her, she brushed it aside, she made to the bathroom, brushed, took her bath, and in less than 15mins, she was on the elevator going back to her hostel. I was shocked, dumbfounded and too scared to even follow her, i tried to BB her, she has deleted me, i called, she wouldn’t take my calls. I came back to Lagos yesterday, still tried calling with the office line, as soon as she hears my voice, she'll drop the call.

So guys, that’s my story. Where did i go wrong? I think am attracted to her as much as she is to me. Matured responses would be highly appreciated.
•   FRIENDS, Please Kindly advice this man
•   What should he do?
•   Do You think the lady wanted SEX?

SOURCE: www.endyedesonnews.blogspot.com
chikojie at 08:39 PM, 28 Mar 13 (4 years ago)
(42 | Newbie) (f)
Ignore her she will come around if she is really interested.cos ur a different guy.
ozimso at 09:12 PM, 28 Mar 13 (4 years ago)
(39 | Newbie) (m)
U r very pathetic and unbelievable! I would tell u that I am absolutely dumbfounded at your miss steps.......with ur intro, I thought u will b smart enough resist her overtures once the date was over but u brought her home and disappoint her. She She might b doubtful of ur ability to perform ur duties as the man since u failed the initial litmus test and it might really hard to bring her back to u.
Solidstonez at 10:15 PM, 13 Apr 13 (4 years ago)
(37471 | Addicted Hero) (f)
 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Solidstonez at 10:16 PM, 13 Apr 13 (4 years ago)
(37471 | Addicted Hero) (f)
 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

Ifemylove at 10:41 PM, 13 Apr 13 (4 years ago)
(4720 | Gistmaniac) (f)
buff her joor
abati666 at 08:58 PM, 15 Apr 13 (4 years ago)
(1437 | Gistmaniac) (m)



  1. saintony on: I Lost My Job, My House To An Instagram Slay Queen That Wrongly Accused Me Of Rape (Sad Story)
    she even gave you money for condom ...... com'on man , how you fuel your car ?? ... ;D ;D... 43 mins ago ago
  2. abcdqwer on: JUST IN! Court Nulifies Installation Of 21 Kings By Oyo State Governor, Abiola Ajimobi
    But I still have unanswered questions about monarchs in Nigeria asva whole. What is their duty and h... 1 hr ago ago
  3. ficull on: "Nigerians Are A Deceitful And Manipulative Bunch Of People" - Singer , Waje Blows Hot On Instag
    [quote author=JennyOstore link=topic=352178.msg5400197#msg5400197 date=1516397346]do you read what y... 1 hr ago ago
  4. slimber on: PHOTO: 4-Year-old Boy, Abba Auwal Baba Kidnapped By Unknown Woman In Zuba, Abuja - GISTMANIA
    What 're they going to do with the little boi... 3 hrs ago ago
  5. slimber on: 27-Year-old Nigerian Man, Ebuka Okori Reportedly Killed By Police In South Africa
    Why 're they killing Nigerians hissss nah waa... 3 hrs ago ago