Does ladies prefer abusive guys who treat them like dirts to guys who treat them (Page 22)

I do not think that is true in all cases. Some ladies with low self-esteem tend
to prefer abusive guys, appear to enjoy being  treated badly and without respect.
They run away from gentlemen who respect them because they do not think
they deserve respect.
It is psychological..........I cannot exlain why some ladies act this way.

dan fulani

Dear Poster,

No, it is not true.  Ladies who are mentally and emotionally healthy do not like guys who treat them like dirt.

Ladies who like to be treated like dirt already do not value or respect themselves.  They may look pretty or nice on the outside but they ALWAYS...ALWAYS give signs.  People make mistakes...this is different from what I'm speaking about.

I'm speaking of signs that reveal a lady's mentality, her self-esteem and her emotional health.  If your friend is the good guy you said he is, I would advise that he watch for the signs.  No matter how beautiful he thinks the girl is on the outside, he should not give his heart to her until he find's out who the girl is on the inside.  Some have many faces...so, he'll have to be very observant. Many good guys like him can get messed over by woman after woman, and watching the guy treat woman like dirt and the insecure women still flock him...your friend may give up and fall in.  And, he too start treating ladies like dirt.  Then, when the lady that is for him comes into his life, he may not even recognize her, treat her bad or even worse, push her away. 

I pray he remains strong and don't believe what his eyes are seeing...it's all lies and deception.

Best Wishes    

 

No I do not believe that women prefer such man, its just some women have extremely low self esteem and possibly are socially conditioned to such behavior. Possibly what they have seen done by the male role models in their live. Me personally I love good sweet, caring men, I will not accept anything less...

i have been there,years back when i was a real player,i had girls to the extent i would have been selling them if slavery was still en vogue.i meet a girl when i decieded to abandon the lifestyle and did everything,evrything(she wanted and deserved)to the point that her family relied on me for alot of things,yet what she(they) did to my i would not be able to say it on this forum.she's married now..now,i have learnt that its not good to go below your level for anything.....now its ADAPT OR DIE!!!