I’m In Love With My Girlfriend, But The Bride Price Is Just Too Much

Date: 16-04-2013 1:09 pm (11 years ago) | Author: Idbabe
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- at 16-04-2013 01:09 PM (11 years ago)
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Please drop a comment below with your best opinion.



Hello. I have been dating my girl for about five years now. I proposed to her and she agreed to marry me. However after fixing the date from the traditional Wedding, her parents are asking for five million naira as Bride Price.

I told my girlfriend to appeal to them to at least reduce it to two million but her parents refuse.

They say its an extended family decision like her Uncles and other relatives. I don’t understand. I love my girl and she loves me. She’s from Orlu, Imo State. I need your advice. Thanks

Posted: at 16-04-2013 01:09 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
- wireless_radio at 16-04-2013 01:45 PM (11 years ago)
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If you really love her... then work for them for 5-7 Years (e.g Houseboy )

Love is beautiful at the same time is Blind
Posted: at 16-04-2013 01:45 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 16-04-2013 01:47 PM (11 years ago)
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Read this on Facebook..these IMO people una dey sell una children..tell them to marry their child na..

Posted: at 16-04-2013 01:47 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- donfesla at 16-04-2013 01:54 PM (11 years ago)
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Sey dem they crazy ni? Abeg let them marry their daugther nau,useless pple
Posted: at 16-04-2013 01:54 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ifemylove at 16-04-2013 01:54 PM (11 years ago)
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are they selling her to you ?
Posted: at 16-04-2013 01:54 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- malvin2525 at 16-04-2013 01:57 PM (11 years ago)
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 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided
Posted: at 16-04-2013 01:57 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 16-04-2013 02:01 PM (11 years ago)
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Abi oo

Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:01 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- beneno at 16-04-2013 02:05 PM (11 years ago)
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u dont need to tell me where she came from.  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:05 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- beneno at 16-04-2013 02:11 PM (11 years ago)
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if their family extend ni you extend am?? abi you dey dia when E dey extend?why dem wan come  extend the expenses rish where you dey because you fall in love with one the extension  Grin  Cheesy  Grin abi ni extension wire i go call am?  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:11 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 16-04-2013 02:13 PM (11 years ago)
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Please Pay small small.. dem no dey marry woman finish...

Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:13 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osamabinladin at 16-04-2013 02:14 PM (11 years ago)
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Hmmmmm !
Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:14 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- beneno at 16-04-2013 02:16 PM (11 years ago)
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maybe the girl too young thats why she dey expensive like this.bros first give her chance for at least 10 good years and later come back to ask for her hand in marriage,at that time the family will even beg you to marry her for 100 thousand naira i bet you  Roll Eyes
Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:16 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 16-04-2013 02:21 PM (11 years ago)
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Women nawadays i wonder wetin dia uncles wan use money do.. where dem dey when dia papa dey borow money pay her fees.. now she wan marry dem wan chuck head.. pay greatgrand fada tins, grandmama wey don die tins.. footballer tins.. village youth tins.. bla bla bla.. notin we no go see for list... abeg i go advice u look for a good girl from Delta State .. try start somfin with her.. if u r compatible and love eachoda pls dont hesitate to marry her.. its very affordable.. na dem go even use dia money do the ceremony for you, all you got to do is pay the bride price which is not upto a thousand naira.. highest u go spend if u wan spend na 3k.... but be rest assured that God forbid when she dies.. she will be buried in her fathers house.. Cool.

Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:21 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 16-04-2013 02:26 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: beneno on 16-04-2013 02:16 PM
maybe the girl too young thats why she dey expensive like this.bros first give her chance for at least 10 good years and later come back to ask for her hand in marriage,at that time the family will even beg you to marry her for 100 thousand naira i bet you  Roll Eyes

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:26 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kechywillz at 16-04-2013 02:27 PM (11 years ago)
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oboy,their are many fishes in d river,find another girl,e be like say u wan d owe plenty people after ur wedding,and dat time e go dey hard for u to see food chop,i no fit marry person wey for wreck me

Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:27 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- arsenal123 at 16-04-2013 02:31 PM (11 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:31 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kechywillz at 16-04-2013 02:32 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: beneno on 16-04-2013 02:16 PM
maybe the girl too young thats why she dey expensive like this.bros first give her chance for at least 10 good years and later come back to ask for her hand in marriage,at that time the family will even beg you to marry her for 100 thousand naira i bet you  Roll Eyes
hahahahahaha Grin

Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:32 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- arsenal123 at 16-04-2013 02:33 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 16-04-2013 02:21 PM
Women nawadays i wonder wetin dia uncles wan use money do.. where dem dey when dia papa dey borow money pay her fees.. now she wan marry dem wan chuck head.. pay greatgrand fada tins, grandmama wey don die tins.. footballer tins.. village youth tins.. bla bla bla.. notin we no go see for list... abeg i go advice u look for a good girl from Delta State .. try start somfin with her.. if u r compatible and love eachoda pls dont hesitate to marry her.. its very affordable.. na dem go even use dia money do the ceremony for you, all you got to do is pay the bride price which is not upto a thousand naira.. highest u go spend if u wan spend na 3k.... but be rest assured that God forbid when she dies.. she will be buried in her fathers house.. Cool.

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:33 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 16-04-2013 02:34 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Kechywillz on 16-04-2013 02:27 PM
oboy,their are many fishes in d river,find another girl,e be like say u wan d owe plenty people after ur wedding,and dat time e go dey hard for u to see food chop,i no fit marry person wey for wreck me

lwkmd

Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:34 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Idbabe at 16-04-2013 02:34 PM (11 years ago)
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I want to believe her father is no longer alive because this is what u get from wicked uncles that does not want any good thing for their nephews/nieces.  Wish her well sha.  Make una elope, go begin born pikin for IOU by the time u return with ur kids, dem no go get choice but to accept una even for a cheaper price so that they wont loose everything.  Shikina
Posted: at 16-04-2013 02:34 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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