am confuse.

Date: 25-05-2009 6:50 pm (14 years ago) | Author: LILI SAINT
- at 25-05-2009 06:50 PM (14 years ago)
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I RUN A CLUB IN MY CITY AND THE ONLY THING THAT GIVES MY GIRLFRIEND JOY IN LIFE IS CLUBING,STOPING HER FROM GOING TO CLUB IS LIKE STOPING A BIRD FROM FLYING.
THIS HAVE CAUSED A VERY BIG PROBLEM IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. I LOVE HER VERY MUCH ,THATS WHY I WANT HER TO STOP CLUBING SO THAT SHE CAN MAKE A RESPONSIBLE WIFE. AND SHE TOUGHT THAT MY REASON OF STOPING  HER BE SE I DE PLAY GAME OR I GET RUNS  4 CLUB ,BUT NOTHING LIKE THAT DE HAPPEN. CAN A GOOD PAL HELP ME OUT ON WHAT TO DO.

Posted: at 25-05-2009 06:50 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
- luvvy at 25-05-2009 06:54 PM (14 years ago)
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if u really want her to stop then u too need to stop
Posted: at 25-05-2009 06:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 25-05-2009 07:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lilisaintg on 25-05-2009 06:50 PM
I RUN A CLUB IN MY CITY AND THE ONLY THING THAT GIVES MY GIRLFRIEND JOY IN LIFE IS CLUBING,STOPING HER FROM GOING TO CLUB IS LIKE STOPING A BIRD FROM FLYING.
THIS HAVE CAUSED A VERY BIG PROBLEM IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. I LOVE HER VERY MUCH ,THATS WHY I WANT HER TO STOP CLUBING SO THAT SHE CAN MAKE A RESPONSIBLE WIFE. AND SHE TOUGHT THAT MY REASON OF STOPING  HER BE SE I DE PLAY GAME OR I GET RUNS  4 CLUB ,BUT NOTHING LIKE THAT DE HAPPEN. CAN A GOOD PAL HELP ME OUT ON WHAT TO DO.
hmmmm complicated..anyway..my only advice be sa...if she dont want to listen to you
you dump her..and look for a responsible.
Posted: at 25-05-2009 07:07 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- naijadbest at 25-05-2009 07:16 PM (14 years ago)
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Act to be a real man with your good action you can stop her by your self,not by fight or dispute she know what you want and what you don't want, just don't give her your full attention again and try to turn off to her let her realize what you want or else you are tuning off for life,use this to scare her,try this may be it can work.
Posted: at 25-05-2009 07:16 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bulletproofwise at 25-05-2009 07:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Yo dude if somtin like clubbin can cause probs btwin you two then u guys rili nid to take a gud luk at yourslvs & where the relationship is goin. if your lukin for a wife then tell her that she has to be wife material, if not find som1 who is
Posted: at 25-05-2009 07:59 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- osaomo at 25-05-2009 08:15 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lilisaintg on 25-05-2009 06:50 PM
I RUN A CLUB IN MY CITY AND THE ONLY THING THAT GIVES MY GIRLFRIEND JOY IN LIFE IS CLUBING,STOPING HER FROM GOING TO CLUB IS LIKE STOPING A BIRD FROM FLYING.
THIS HAVE CAUSED A VERY BIG PROBLEM IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. I LOVE HER VERY MUCH ,THATS WHY I WANT HER TO STOP CLUBING SO THAT SHE CAN MAKE A RESPONSIBLE WIFE. AND SHE TOUGHT THAT MY REASON OF STOPING  HER BE SE I DE PLAY GAME OR I GET RUNS  4 CLUB ,BUT NOTHING LIKE THAT DE HAPPEN. CAN A GOOD PAL HELP ME OUT ON WHAT TO DO.


Well, you can't tell her to stop completely but u can give her the choices of seldomly goin to the club or u can tell her the relationship cannot continue since she's hell bent on not listening to u. Give her good reasons y the relationship cannot continue, reasons that will make her re-think her decision nd nt reasons that will make her agree to the break-up.

Wait ooo....Oga poster na u dey even run the club....hmmmm...maybe that's y she goes often to watch u... Cheesy
Posted: at 25-05-2009 08:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 25-05-2009 08:16 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lilisaintg on 25-05-2009 06:50 PM
I RUN A CLUB IN MY CITY AND THE ONLY THING THAT GIVES MY GIRLFRIEND JOY IN LIFE IS CLUBING,STOPING HER FROM GOING TO CLUB IS LIKE STOPING A BIRD FROM FLYING.
THIS HAVE CAUSED A VERY BIG PROBLEM IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. I LOVE HER VERY MUCH ,THATS WHY I WANT HER TO STOP CLUBING SO THAT SHE CAN MAKE A RESPONSIBLE WIFE. AND SHE TOUGHT THAT MY REASON OF STOPING  HER BE SE I DE PLAY GAME OR I GET RUNS  4 CLUB ,BUT NOTHING LIKE THAT DE HAPPEN. CAN A GOOD PAL HELP ME OUT ON WHAT TO DO.

2 things:

a. Either dat's who she is

Or

b. Yu're acting Suspiciously


If it's a, yu can't change her, so let her go

If b, yu correct yurself
Posted: at 25-05-2009 08:16 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shanique at 25-05-2009 08:23 PM (14 years ago)
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u dont need to run a club to make money... find sumtin else cuz running the club means ur gf going there
Posted: at 25-05-2009 08:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- happy75 at 25-05-2009 09:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lilisaintg on 25-05-2009 06:50 PM
I RUN A CLUB IN MY CITY AND THE ONLY THING THAT GIVES MY GIRLFRIEND JOY IN LIFE IS CLUBING,STOPING HER FROM GOING TO CLUB IS LIKE STOPING A BIRD FROM FLYING.
THIS HAVE CAUSED A VERY BIG PROBLEM IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. I LOVE HER VERY MUCH ,THATS WHY I WANT HER TO STOP CLUBING SO THAT SHE CAN MAKE A RESPONSIBLE WIFE. AND SHE TOUGHT THAT MY REASON OF STOPING  HER BE SE I DE PLAY GAME OR I GET RUNS  4 CLUB ,BUT NOTHING LIKE THAT DE HAPPEN. CAN A GOOD PAL HELP ME OUT ON WHAT TO DO.
But who said she will not be a responsible wife if she goes to the club??? The club can become a family business, so only you can't be going there and she stays home. I understand her situation also, you might one day say bye to her if she doesn't keep up with you.
Posted: at 25-05-2009 09:35 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Tomdequola at 25-05-2009 10:36 PM (14 years ago)
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som tyms ppl av to fall victims of somtns to learn their lessons
Posted: at 25-05-2009 10:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ceejay58 at 26-05-2009 12:46 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lilisaintg on 25-05-2009 06:50 PM
I RUN A CLUB IN MY CITY AND THE ONLY THING THAT GIVES MY GIRLFRIEND JOY IN LIFE IS CLUBING,STOPING HER FROM GOING TO CLUB IS LIKE STOPING A BIRD FROM FLYING.
THIS HAVE CAUSED A VERY BIG PROBLEM IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. I LOVE HER VERY MUCH ,THATS WHY I WANT HER TO STOP CLUBING SO THAT SHE CAN MAKE A RESPONSIBLE WIFE. AND SHE TOUGHT THAT MY REASON OF STOPING  HER BE SE I DE PLAY GAME OR I GET RUNS  4 CLUB ,BUT NOTHING LIKE THAT DE HAPPEN. CAN A GOOD PAL HELP ME OUT ON WHAT TO DO.

u run a club but u want ur gurl to stop clubing huh?.... think its a case of kettle telling pot to stop looking dirty.
u should first change if at all u want her to.
Posted: at 26-05-2009 12:46 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 26-05-2009 04:04 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: lilisaintg on 25-05-2009 06:50 PM
I RUN A CLUB IN MY CITY AND THE ONLY THING THAT GIVES MY GIRLFRIEND JOY IN LIFE IS CLUBING,STOPING HER FROM GOING TO CLUB IS LIKE STOPING A BIRD FROM FLYING.
THIS HAVE CAUSED A VERY BIG PROBLEM IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. I LOVE HER VERY MUCH ,THATS WHY I WANT HER TO STOP CLUBING SO THAT SHE CAN MAKE A RESPONSIBLE WIFE. AND SHE TOUGHT THAT MY REASON OF STOPING  HER BE SE I DE PLAY GAME OR I GET RUNS  4 CLUB ,BUT NOTHING LIKE THAT DE HAPPEN. CAN A GOOD PAL HELP ME OUT ON WHAT TO DO.


close the club.............
Posted: at 26-05-2009 04:04 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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