[Advice Needed] I can’t Just Stop Cheating On My Boyfriend, What Should I Do?

Date: 05-07-2013 12:17 pm (10 years ago) | Author: olokunbola tope
- at 5-07-2013 12:17 PM (10 years ago)
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Dear Blessing,

 I have a boyfriend who I love dearly. But I can’t stop cheating on him with my ex, my ex also cheats on his fiancee with me. This is because we can’t just leave each other, we are so much into ourselves….but we are both scared to have a real relationship with each other. What is your take on this?
Julie.
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Posted: at 5-07-2013 12:17 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
- silverndgold at 5-07-2013 12:42 PM (10 years ago)
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my advise >>> get a rope ( a robust 1 )  tie it around ur neck to ur ceiling ( nd stand on a chair ) den PRAY . release ur foot from d chair ( not d rope from ur neck ) afta dis reharsal / i hope u will never wanna cheat on ur boyfrend again  Cool

Posted: at 5-07-2013 12:42 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chicco77 at 5-07-2013 01:05 PM (10 years ago)
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idiot
Posted: at 5-07-2013 01:05 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- merion at 5-07-2013 01:46 PM (10 years ago)
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u both are idiot
Posted: at 5-07-2013 01:46 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ezchusa at 5-07-2013 05:17 PM (10 years ago)
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idiot

Posted: at 5-07-2013 05:17 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jossy4reall at 5-07-2013 08:10 PM (10 years ago)
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there is nothing u can do about it...just continue until u both get tired of ur selves...u can as well make it known to ur boy friend and his fiancee and ask them to give u guys sometime to get tired or ur selves.....I wish u luck to ur journey

Posted: at 5-07-2013 08:10 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- katung44 at 5-07-2013 08:28 PM (10 years ago)
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Its pretty clear that your present boy friend was a 'rebound' relationship. I'll lay odds you dated him because he was nice guy and your conscience just would not pricking you if you rejected him. You also have abuse-addiction issues. You love being with guys who either physically abuse you or cheat on you and you just don't want to let them go because you 'love' them. You only react to men who are emotionally distant or look like very emotionally strong guys that you develop a dependency issues with. You feel you need their 'strength' to compliment your 'weakness'. You have a silly girl-like love for cheating or abusive men. Why don't you quit the relationship with your present boyfriend and go back to your Ex? Its obvious you are not over him yet. This Friends with benefits relationship you are carrying out with your Ex is going to hurt your boyfriend eventually when he finds out. If you don't want to hurt him, get therapy to overcome your addiction. You will just have to overcome this issue because when it carries on into a marriage, it will become a serious problem.
Posted: at 5-07-2013 08:28 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 5-07-2013 09:59 PM (10 years ago)
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man na dis small issue yu dey write dis big gramma , na yu be her EX Huh? yu get times oooo Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-07-2013 09:59 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 5-07-2013 09:59 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: silverndgold on  5-07-2013 12:42 PM
my advise >>> get a rope ( a robust 1 )  tie it around ur neck to ur ceiling ( nd stand on a chair ) den PRAY . release ur foot from d chair ( not d rope from ur neck ) afta dis reharsal / i hope u will never wanna cheat on ur boyfrend again  Cool
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-07-2013 09:59 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- caleb2013 at 6-07-2013 09:40 PM (10 years ago)
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quit the relationship if you are no more interested idiot
Posted: at 6-07-2013 09:40 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- katung44 at 7-07-2013 05:13 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  5-07-2013 09:59 PM
man na dis small issue yu dey write dis big gramma , na yu be her EX Huh? yu get times oooo Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
OK, Miss 'Know-it-all' why don't you give her advice that does not involve big grammer because all you've just done is complain about my 'grammer' and not given her any constructive advice.
Posted: at 7-07-2013 05:13 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- etibaba at 7-07-2013 09:20 PM (10 years ago)
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Bingos

Posted: at 7-07-2013 09:20 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Shegzan at 9-07-2013 06:23 AM (10 years ago)
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Kk#

Posted: at 9-07-2013 06:23 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- saleleabdul at 28-09-2013 09:29 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  5-07-2013 09:59 PM
man na dis small issue yu dey write dis big gramma , na yu be her EX Huh? yu get times oooo Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Abi help me tellam wooooooo, abi na Professor of Lovitis!!!!!!!
Posted: at 28-09-2013 09:29 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Shegzan at 28-09-2013 11:07 AM (10 years ago)
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Get a bow tie and suit urslf/!

Posted: at 28-09-2013 11:07 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Solidstonez at 28-09-2013 09:38 PM (10 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?

Posted: at 28-09-2013 09:38 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Solidstonez at 28-09-2013 09:39 PM (10 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Posted: at 28-09-2013 09:39 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Toks-E at 29-09-2013 08:06 AM (10 years ago)
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You people are in the same clique, so what's the complaining about?

Posted: at 29-09-2013 08:06 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Jokxx45 at 27-10-2013 10:58 PM (10 years ago)
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O YOU FOOLISH WOMAN.....YOU DONT NEED A BOYFRIEND.....JUST SLEEP AROUND....THERE ARE PLENTY OF MEN THAT WOULD BE HAPPY WITH A WOMAN LIKE YOU--"SEX WITH NO COMMITMENT"......THAT WAY YOU'RE NOT BREAKING ANY ONE'S HEART...GOT IT Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 27-10-2013 10:58 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- drjunior at 29-10-2013 07:45 AM (10 years ago)
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Go for Deliverance
Posted: at 29-10-2013 07:45 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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