I've been 'dating' a girl a little over a year now. During that time, I've noticed that she will completely withdraw from any kind of communication or interaction with me after we have any kind of disagreement or conflict between each other. On two different occasions her 'silent treatment' towards me has lasted for about a month each time....she completely shuts down...no calls, emails, visits...nothing. She has also avoided discussing anything about us or about the relationship during our time together. I've never been with someone who exhibits this kind of behavior....Are these the actions of an emotionally unavailable person? Has anybody experienced anything like this...how did you deal with it?
Posted: at 21-06-2009 09:41 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Babes open the cage, abeg free am, what kind of person keeps a grudge for a month, especially with someone u claim to love. My approach -free her, think abt it if shes like this now imagine wats going to happen if u actually end up marrying her, she go come be like roommate wey no dey pay rent. Matured approach-- try sitting her down and talking to her abt her behaviour, she might not know better and by some lucky chance she might change.
Posted: at 21-06-2009 09:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
well if she's giving u dis treatment and there are no sufficient avenues 4 communication just give da gurl a break a little recess will not spoil anything if symptoms persist pls call it quits dis is not HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN 10 DAYS.It's ridiculous.
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Posted: at 21-06-2009 11:05 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
PreetyInstinct at 21-06-2009 12:59 PM (14 years ago) (f)
@Poster file she no good ;Dalrite ciao!!!
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 21-06-2009 12:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
chrissiebee at 21-06-2009 04:28 PM (14 years ago) (f)
dumbness! i can do that for a day or a wk but not a month! na emotional suicide be that na!
Prince oo, no kill us na!
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Posted: at 21-06-2009 04:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
I've been 'dating' a girl a little over a year now. During that time, I've noticed that she will completely withdraw from any kind of communication or interaction with me after we have any kind of disagreement or conflict between each other. On two different occasions her 'silent treatment' towards me has lasted for about a month each time....she completely shuts down...no calls, emails, visits...nothing. She has also avoided discussing anything about us or about the relationship during our time together. I've never been with someone who exhibits this kind of behavior....Are these the actions of an emotionally unavailable person? Has anybody experienced anything like this...how did you deal with it?
2 possibilities l think:
a. She has too much feelings for yu and so gets too hurt when yu get her pissed, so avoiding yu is the best way 2 handle it
b. There's a particular Habit or Character of yurs dat she just can't live with, so when yu guys quarrel, she just wants to take dat opportunity to exit the relationship
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 21-06-2009 06:14 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I've been 'dating' a girl a little over a year now. During that time, I've noticed that she will completely withdraw from any kind of communication or interaction with me after we have any kind of disagreement or conflict between each other. On two different occasions her 'silent treatment' towards me has lasted for about a month each time....she completely shuts down...no calls, emails, visits...nothing. She has also avoided discussing anything about us or about the relationship during our time together. I've never been with someone who exhibits this kind of behavior....Are these the actions of an emotionally unavailable person? Has anybody experienced anything like this...how did you deal with it?
ok let me go and call samy
Posted: at 21-06-2009 06:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
shanique at 21-06-2009 11:28 PM (14 years ago) (f)
torture
U SwEaR U KnOw Me CuZ Ya HeArD My NaMe BuT iF Ya EvA rEaLLy MeT Me YuD KnOw Da GaMe dRaMa NeVa EnDs And HaTaS ArE aLL tHa SaMe tHeY sMiLe To Ya FacE aNd sPiT oN yA NaMe
Posted: at 21-06-2009 11:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 22-06-2009 06:26 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: princemech on 21-06-2009 09:41 AM
I've been 'dating' a girl a little over a year now. During that time, I've noticed that she will completely withdraw from any kind of communication or interaction with me after we have any kind of disagreement or conflict between each other. On two different occasions her 'silent treatment' towards me has lasted for about a month each time....she completely shuts down...no calls, emails, visits...nothing. She has also avoided discussing anything about us or about the relationship during our time together. I've never been with someone who exhibits this kind of behavior....Are these the actions of an emotionally unavailable person? Has anybody experienced anything like this...how did you deal with it?
different strokes for different people i guess......u need to know a lil bit more of her behaviour to analyse how she works
I've been 'dating' a girl a little over a year now. During that time, I've noticed that she will completely withdraw from any kind of communication or interaction with me after we have any kind of disagreement or conflict between each other. On two different occasions her 'silent treatment' towards me has lasted for about a month each time....she completely shuts down...no calls, emails, visits...nothing. She has also avoided discussing anything about us or about the relationship during our time together. I've never been with someone who exhibits this kind of behavior....Are these the actions of an emotionally unavailable person? Has anybody experienced anything like this...how did you deal with it?
since you know that anytime you have any misunderstanding with her, she keep you silence try to pay her a visit dont mind what ever she will say or do, i believe she will apologize at the end and always try not to offend her let her always be the offender
Posted: at 29-09-2009 12:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
it's either there is one of your mannerisms she can't cope with as such whenever u hav disagreement she stays away in order not do or say the wrong things.... or maybe there is someone around she runs to for comfort and perhaps contemplating whether to live u for him. my humble opinion is to seat her down and talk things over with her i quess she will come out of her shelf eventually. communication is a key factor in any relationship
don't call it a quit yet until u dialogue
Posted: at 29-09-2009 01:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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