Hi pals me and my first luv.

Date: 18-07-2009 8:09 pm (14 years ago) | Author: kevin nnake
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- at 18-07-2009 08:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2  d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us.  Embarrassed

Posted: at 18-07-2009 08:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- blackberryPearl at 18-07-2009 08:26 PM (14 years ago)
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it depends.
u have to trust her, vice verse. you can't keep calling her and checking up on her(where r u and what r u doing). it shows no trust.
but if u really feel that is going no where, then, let go. there is nothing else u can do
Posted: at 18-07-2009 08:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 18-07-2009 08:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmmmm...

It's saturday nyt... I'm off duty now. Maybe when I return I'll offer advice.

BB seems to be making sense so...

I'm out.
Posted: at 18-07-2009 08:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 18-07-2009 08:32 PM (14 years ago)
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lol thanks dude
Posted: at 18-07-2009 08:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 18-07-2009 08:51 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: itsme on 18-07-2009 08:09 PM
Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2  d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us.  Embarrassed'
Distant relationships are difficult but if u both have genuine feelings and put some effort into it then its definitely going to thrive. Take it from someone that has been there b4, that u talk often is really a gud thing, u could try writing her a letter, i don't mean email or 2lines on facebook, i mean the old fashion pen and scented paper letter,lol. If u feel the love is fading then find ways to make it stronger.
Posted: at 18-07-2009 08:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 18-07-2009 08:57 PM (14 years ago)
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but what if is fading from both direction?
u can't make it stronger. it would then be pretend
Posted: at 18-07-2009 08:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 18-07-2009 09:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blackberryPearl on 18-07-2009 08:57 PM
but what if is fading from both direction?
u can't make it stronger. it would then be pretend
Fading from both directions means both of them are not interested in the relationship anymore, coz trust me, if they both really truly love each other, they will find a way to make it work.
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 18-07-2009 09:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on 18-07-2009 09:01 PM
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 18-07-2009 08:57 PM
but what if is fading from both direction?
u can't make it stronger. it would then be pretend
Fading from both directions means both of them are not interested in the relationship anymore, coz trust me, if they both really truly love each other, they will find a way to make it work.
but he's having doubts. he feels that something is not right.
what if he confronts his girl about it, and she curses him out Grin Grin Grin( hope that doesn't happen)
u know what i mean right? he doesn't even know what to do about it
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 18-07-2009 09:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: itsme on 18-07-2009 08:09 PM
Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv her wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2  d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us.  Embarrassed
The only reason he is having doubts is because of the distance, if u find ways to make the distance not matter so much then he has no problem.
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 18-07-2009 09:17 PM (14 years ago)
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lets hope that's the case
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 18-07-2009 09:20 PM (14 years ago)
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Yes o @ poster good luck.
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 18-07-2009 09:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: temi07 on 18-07-2009 09:20 PM
Yes o @ poster good luck.
yup
hope it works for him
unless the girl is a real B!TCH
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- welli at 18-07-2009 09:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: itsme on 18-07-2009 08:09 PM
Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2  d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us.  Embarrassed
I'm a REALIST and if You need my bitter opinion...I'D say the probability of it working out is slim.
I have come to notice that one thing that kills any r/s faster than anything else is Distance.
It doesn't happen once but the fire burns out slowly. It's still up to You tho, just don't let it slide.....
work towards keeping yourselves together and conquer the distance if possible. While doing that, hope for the worst
in case anything happens....You won't be heartbroken.

Did I hear You say I'm a pessimist? Yes, I know....Thank You!! Cheesy

Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 18-07-2009 09:33 PM (14 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- McBona at 18-07-2009 11:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Is gonna work only if there's a substance called 'FAITHFULNESS'

Smtimes LDR seems to be the sweetest of all. . .  only if there's gotta be an act of contentedness b/w the both of U.

Gracias%
Posted: at 18-07-2009 11:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 19-07-2009 01:07 AM (14 years ago)
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de nada
Posted: at 19-07-2009 01:07 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- McBona at 19-07-2009 02:11 AM (14 years ago)
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grande
Posted: at 19-07-2009 02:11 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Beauti4 at 19-07-2009 05:10 AM (14 years ago)
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Pster...u need to b bold and dominant like a man. keep in touch. use cam whenever u guys chat if possible. wat will b will b. just stay put and u will see that God wont disappoint your purified heart for her.i love this topic. Ku luck!
Posted: at 19-07-2009 05:10 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 20-07-2009 08:00 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: itsme on 18-07-2009 08:09 PM
Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2  d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us.  Embarrassed


its all depends on both of u

Posted: at 20-07-2009 08:00 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- McBona at 21-07-2009 04:36 AM (14 years ago)
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for sure. . . yeah!   4 real
Posted: at 21-07-2009 04:36 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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