Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2 d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us.
Posted: at 18-07-2009 08:09 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
it depends. u have to trust her, vice verse. you can't keep calling her and checking up on her(where r u and what r u doing). it shows no trust. but if u really feel that is going no where, then, let go. there is nothing else u can do
Posted: at 18-07-2009 08:26 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2 d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us. '
Distant relationships are difficult but if u both have genuine feelings and put some effort into it then its definitely going to thrive. Take it from someone that has been there b4, that u talk often is really a gud thing, u could try writing her a letter, i don't mean email or 2lines on facebook, i mean the old fashion pen and scented paper letter,lol. If u feel the love is fading then find ways to make it stronger.
Posted: at 18-07-2009 08:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 18-07-2009 08:57 PM
but what if is fading from both direction? u can't make it stronger. it would then be pretend
Fading from both directions means both of them are not interested in the relationship anymore, coz trust me, if they both really truly love each other, they will find a way to make it work.
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 18-07-2009 08:57 PM
but what if is fading from both direction? u can't make it stronger. it would then be pretend
Fading from both directions means both of them are not interested in the relationship anymore, coz trust me, if they both really truly love each other, they will find a way to make it work.
but he's having doubts. he feels that something is not right. what if he confronts his girl about it, and she curses him out ( hope that doesn't happen) u know what i mean right? he doesn't even know what to do about it
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv her wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2 d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us.
The only reason he is having doubts is because of the distance, if u find ways to make the distance not matter so much then he has no problem.
Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2 d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us.
I'm a REALIST and if You need my bitter opinion...I'D say the probability of it working out is slim. I have come to notice that one thing that kills any r/s faster than anything else is Distance. It doesn't happen once but the fire burns out slowly. It's still up to You tho, just don't let it slide..... work towards keeping yourselves together and conquer the distance if possible. While doing that, hope for the worst in case anything happens....You won't be heartbroken.
Did I hear You say I'm a pessimist? Yes, I know....Thank You!!
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Posted: at 18-07-2009 09:31 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Pster...u need to b bold and dominant like a man. keep in touch. use cam whenever u guys chat if possible. wat will b will b. just stay put and u will see that God wont disappoint your purified heart for her.i love this topic. Ku luck!
Posted: at 19-07-2009 05:10 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 20-07-2009 08:00 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: itsme on 18-07-2009 08:09 PM
Alright i got a girl i luv ha she says she luvs me destiny puts us apart 4 d time been shes far away 4rom me we talk quite often but i luv wit my whole life but i feel our luv is fadind away due 2 d distance can it realy work btw d 2 of us.