Im so Tired, I don't know what to do. (Page 3)

Date: 21-07-2009 7:11 pm (14 years ago) | Author:
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- erikaakpan at 23-07-2009 12:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 23-07-2009 12:42 PM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 23-07-2009 11:32 AM
Quote from: onchedu on 23-07-2009 11:28 AM
Quote from: erikaakpan on 23-07-2009 11:26 AM
dirty minds

takes one to know one. Ur highly welcome our grand patroness. Cheesy
haha i guess it does...thnks

Ur welcome

i meant thanks for the welcoming....not the dirty mind.....
Posted: at 23-07-2009 12:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 23-07-2009 12:51 PM (14 years ago)
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It's all the same dear.
Posted: at 23-07-2009 12:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- MrDon at 23-07-2009 01:02 PM (14 years ago)
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well do
Posted: at 23-07-2009 01:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sampamdemmie at 23-07-2009 01:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 23-07-2009 10:51 AM
Quote from: MsJaida09 on 21-07-2009 07:11 PM
Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  Sad I don't know, what to do.

Have U talked to him about the way his actions affect Ur emotions? have U tried finding out why he changed (I assume he did cos if he was always like that and U married him then U should just put a sock in it and live with Ur choices). Could it be stress from his work place? Maybe he has a lot on his mind? Maybe he has communicaton problems with U and perhaps U hurt him in a lil way he has commtted to heart and is not letting go of hence Ur getting the shock waves of the incident from the heart of a wounded boy living in Ur man?

People offended dont like being touched by their offenders. touch him in the most non segxwal way. if he pushes U away, touch him away... keep making physical contact with him for as long as it takes and bear the rejection he myt offer U till he starts welcoming Ur touch again. Make contact with his body at the slightes opportunity. If pushes U away, move back. Be gentle. Cry if U must but dont force it;  Wait till U cant take it anymore and let the sorrows gush out in tears... Men cant stand real tears the fake ones we can identify, the real ones we cant ignore no matter how hard ur hearts have gotten.

@ONCHENDU, U've said it all, just that sometimes we men av lackadaisical attitude, not concern about the pains our spouse had over horrible thinking we possessed, yeah there are technical ways by which punishment can be served but surely not thru total neglect. It pains them the more even when they say Good morning and no response from the other party won't that spoil d day d more and the end result will be another war in the office which the anger will sure be transferred on the innocent lady at home.

And for the lady in concern, my advice for u is just to keep praying for God to make a magnificent transfiguration and an exceptional transformation. Then after that keep doing as as daily bread, always forget not to write short romance note and keep it in his pocket make him wish to always read from you everyday while he is his office. i hope this will change his reaction positively. Also get more closer to his favourite too that will keep more familiarity b/w both of u.

@Onchendu i feel u
Posted: at 23-07-2009 01:45 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- onchedu at 23-07-2009 01:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Wink
Posted: at 23-07-2009 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sampamdemmie at 23-07-2009 02:32 PM (14 years ago)
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 Cool just the way we both cool
Posted: at 23-07-2009 02:32 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- diplomatik at 23-07-2009 02:42 PM (14 years ago)
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i think onchedu said it all......me sef i tired too oooo... Cheesy
Posted: at 23-07-2009 02:42 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 23-07-2009 03:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Tired but alive. When there's life, there's hope.
Posted: at 23-07-2009 03:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 23-07-2009 04:08 PM (14 years ago)
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anything u r tired of...simply let it alone nd move on...
life too short...
Posted: at 23-07-2009 04:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 27-07-2009 09:56 AM (14 years ago)
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passing and not tired
Posted: at 27-07-2009 09:56 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- KOSI_THE_CHAMP at 27-07-2009 10:06 PM (14 years ago)
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dear take it easy things like that
do happen to every one atimes,
just do the one u can and live the rest to God.
Posted: at 27-07-2009 10:06 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- ceejay58 at 28-07-2009 12:54 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 23-07-2009 04:08 PM
anything u r tired of...simply let it alone nd move on...
life too short...

hhmmmm?
Posted: at 28-07-2009 12:54 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- exhale at 28-07-2009 01:51 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: MsJaida09 on 21-07-2009 07:11 PM
Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  Sad I don't know, what to do.
dont u worry hes the one dat need help
Posted: at 28-07-2009 01:51 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- myragonza at 28-07-2009 04:17 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: MsJaida09 on 21-07-2009 07:11 PM
Here I am again. I am just wondering if I should just let go. The only thing is, he has no where to go. He always picks arguments with me, after I pick him up from work, just before we lay our heads down to sleep, he has something negative to say to me, I just say I'm sorry or try to plead my case and pray, and try to sleep. I was taught never to go to bed angry with your spouse. I would really like to have a friend to talk to because I'm tired of holding all of these things inside.  Sad I don't know, what to do.

maybe u should treat him back the way he treated u....let him taste his own medicine
Posted: at 28-07-2009 04:17 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- McBona at 29-07-2009 05:36 AM (14 years ago)
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strolling & not tired
Posted: at 29-07-2009 05:36 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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