i really want to get back at some dickhead(my ex) but i dnt knw how to go bout it. He left me 4 my best friend's lil sis and that is so messed up cos i jst heard she is pregnant 4 him. this is a girl that i let stay in my house wen she was havin house problems,i guess thats how dey became close. as for the A*#S, i cooked 4 him, never askd him 4 money, cleaned up and did evrythin a responsible gf would do.... Unfortunately for me,d girl is really really pretty. Anyway, my best friend is having a party n those 2 losers will b there 2geda while i go on my own. i really dnt knw how to face dem.....wat do i do?
Posted: at 24-07-2009 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
i really want to get back at some head(my ex) but i dnt knw how to go bout it. He left me 4 my best friend's lil sis and that is so messed up cos i jst heard she is pregnant 4 him. this is a girl that i let stay in my house wen she was havin house problems,i guess thats how dey became close. as for the A*#S, i cooked 4 him, never askd him 4 money, cleaned up and did evrythin a responsible gf would do.... Unfortunately for me,d girl is really really pretty. Anyway, my best friend is having a party n those 2 losers will b there 2geda while i go on my own. i really dnt knw how to face dem.....wat do i do?
Sorry but that made me laff. In any case who told U it was her beauty that was the hammer she used to knock Ur man out of his senses? U never see where wo wo girl collect beautiful girl man before?
Sorry for Ur loss. I dey come.
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 24-07-2009 02:11 PM (14 years ago) (f)
let it go......u'll fine the person for u..stop dwelling on the past......and look to the future... if u r sure u r responsible like u said....then his lost...why bother urself.....u did not wrong him did u?...so why u scared to face dem...dey should be d 1s scared to face u..after they fcked up...
onche come bck here...
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:11 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Ok... I'm back. So U want revenge on a pregnant woman cos she's pregnant for a guy who used to be Urs? Hmmm... How will that pay U in any way? What would U get from it besides gratification that won't last u up to a month?
Lemme point out that Ur problem wasnt that she was more beautiful or that U were not doing everything a responsible gf would do. in my opinion U were being the responsible gf and maybe, ust maybe, not HIS responsible gf. People have needs. U want to get to a man's heart and keep it no matter how ugly U feel U are, U got to listen to his needs. maybe what he wanted was something U felt was of no value. U could have been showing love to him the way U grew up to believe was how to love a man. That myt have blinded U to the "how to love this man" part of it.
Ok now for the jerk. Really don't know what kind of person he is or how U two got hooked up in the first place but I will say he was up to no good being ungrateful for Ur "efforts" and boning a girl U were helping out. That's uncool. He could have at least being decent enuf in his indecency to have played the away game(s) AWAY.
As for the girl, she'l probably get what's coming to her. Myt be good, myt be bad. wo knows.
Good riddance. Close tha chapter and give thanks to God. Perhaps they had to move out of Ur life for Ur real man to come.
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Dearie.....Bounce into the parry with confidence and not even an ounce of care about 'em. T'is difficult? I know! Is it possible? Too possible! Some tips to help 1-Dress to kill:Look Your best and above the outside beauty, don't forget your smile and confidence, this will attract eyes to fall on You and cause heads to turn. Even if Your Ex doesn't talk to You, You'll run across his mind when he gets home. 2-Flirt with other pple there:Doesn't have to be with guys alone, even with girls.Be around pple, don't be found sitting alone in a sober mood lest he thinks You're missing him and that's bad for Your reputation. 3-Don't be acidic if he comes close to You:As much as You try not to 'dance' around him, if he comes over to say hi, return it in a very friendly manner and a charming smile and never make the mistake of brnging up the past. 4-It's advisable You go with a friend.....that way, if the celebrant is too busy to give You attention, You won't be lonely cuz You other friend is there and pls, if You must go with a guy, make sure he's in every way better than Your Ex...in looks and otherwise. Good luck mate!!
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
SexyJuly at 24-07-2009 02:14 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: welli on 24-07-2009 02:13 PM
Dearie.....Bounce into the parry with confidence and not even an ounce of care about 'em. T'is difficult? I know! Is it possible? Too possible! Some tips to help 1-Dress to kill:Look Your best and above the outside beauty, don't forget your smile and confidence, this will attract eyes to fall on You and cause heads to turn. Even if Your Ex doesn't talk to You, You'll run across his mind when he gets home. 2-Flirt with other pple there:Doesn't have to be with guys alone, even with girls.Be around pple, don't be found sitting alone in a sober mood lest he thinks You're missing him and that's bad for Your reputation. 3-Don't be acidic if he comes close to You:As much as You try not to 'dance' around him, if he comes over to say hi, return it in a very friendly manner and a charming smile and never make the mistake of brnging up the past. 4-It's advisable You go with a friend.....that way, if the celebrant is too busy to give You attention, You won't be lonely cuz You other friend is there and pls, if You must go with a guy, make sure he's in every way better than Your Ex...in looks and otherwise. Good luck mate!!
Yeah. she just spoke my mind.
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
diplomatik at 24-07-2009 02:14 PM (14 years ago) (f)
@ onche...whoa......
lol..well said...
well dear..whats good..
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:14 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
The reason why some men end up having affairs with the house girl is not because madam isnt all that. Sometimes madam is just too busy and the house gilr sef get ambition too so she gives oga attention and before U know it he's feeling loved and understood.
Ok, some ogas sha are just plain dirty.. but U get what I'm saying dnt U?
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
i really want to get back at some head(my ex) but i dnt knw how to go bout it. He left me 4 my best friend's lil sis and that is so messed up cos i jst heard she is pregnant 4 him. this is a girl that i let stay in my house wen she was havin house problems,i guess thats how dey became close. as for the A*#S, i cooked 4 him, never askd him 4 money, cleaned up and did evrythin a responsible gf would do.... Unfortunately for me,d girl is really really pretty. Anyway, my best friend is having a party n those 2 losers will b there 2geda while i go on my own. i really dnt knw how to face dem.....wat do i do?
Confession topic.
Girl, just mind ur own bizz....ignore both of them even. && have your fun, infact take your best bud(who's a guy) along n have fun. He's a low life...dnt mind dem.
I rock my world.
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:15 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
Dearie.....Bounce into the parry with confidence and not even an ounce of care about 'em. T'is difficult? I know! Is it possible? Too possible! Some tips to help 1-Dress to kill:Look Your best and above the outside beauty, don't forget your smile and confidence, this will attract eyes to fall on You and cause heads to turn. Even if Your Ex doesn't talk to You, You'll run across his mind when he gets home. 2-Flirt with other pple there:Doesn't have to be with guys alone, even with girls.Be around pple, don't be found sitting alone in a sober mood lest he thinks You're missing him and that's bad for Your reputation. 3-Don't be acidic if he comes close to You:As much as You try not to 'dance' around him, if he comes over to say hi, return it in a very friendly manner and a charming smile and never make the mistake of brnging up the past. 4-It's advisable You go with a friend.....that way, if the celebrant is too busy to give You attention, You won't be lonely cuz You other friend is there and pls, if You must go with a guy, make sure he's in every way better than Your Ex...in looks and otherwise. Good luck mate!!
So my dear Ur suggestion of getting even is for her to go and get f**ked by a stranger who doesnt even know sh*t about the love triangle?
What's the guarantee Mr. No good will be at this party or hang around when he sees her come in.
So even if he is at the party and he just ignores her completely how would she feel when she's back home?
I dont understand this plan. Is it a girl thing?
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:19 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
So my dear Ur suggestion of getting even is for her to go and get f**ked by a stranger who doesnt even know sh*t about the love triangle?
Where in my post did I say that? I only gave her tips on how to stay calm without breaking down in the party....I didn't say date anyone.
Quote from: onchedu on 24-07-2009 02:19 PM
So even if he is at the party and he just ignores her completely how would she feel when she's back home?
If he ignores her, fine!! She can go home and cry blood. The good thing would be that she didn't break down in front of him. With time, she'D get over him.
Quote from: onchedu on 24-07-2009 02:19 PM
I dont understand this plan. Is it a girl thing?
You can't understand sweets. There's a reason why we are girls and You're a guy.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
So my dear Ur suggestion of getting even is for her to go and get f**ked by a stranger who doesnt even know sh*t about the love triangle?
Where in my post did I say that? I only gave her tips on how to stay calm without breaking down in the party....I didn't say date anyone.
Quote from: onchedu on 24-07-2009 02:19 PM
So even if he is at the party and he just ignores her completely how would she feel when she's back home?
If he ignores her, fine!! She can go home and cry blood. The good thing would be that she didn't break down in front of him. With time, she'D get over him.
Quote from: onchedu on 24-07-2009 02:19 PM
I dont understand this plan. Is it a girl thing?
You can't understand sweets. There's a reason why we are girls and You're a guy.
My bad me dear... Didnt see the party part of her story.
I myt not understand the girl thing but I'm a guy and I know exactly how to rub it in should I be at this party and she comes in flirting with people. She'l go home crying really hard. This is not like ten years after o... its just a few months at best. the odds are against her by far...
Posted: at 24-07-2009 02:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
i really want to get back at some head(my ex) but i dnt knw how to go bout it. He left me 4 my best friend's lil sis and that is so messed up cos i jst heard she is pregnant 4 him. this is a girl that i let stay in my house wen she was havin house problems,i guess thats how dey became close. as for the A*#S, i cooked 4 him, never askd him 4 money, cleaned up and did evrythin a responsible gf would do.... Unfortunately for me,d girl is really really pretty. Anyway, my best friend is having a party n those 2 losers will b there 2geda while i go on my own. i really dnt knw how to face dem.....wat do i do?
ask ur bestie not to send them IVs...that's the best way to get back at some head with ur ex
SexyJuly at 24-07-2009 03:07 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: daisy2 on 24-07-2009 01:58 PM
i really want to get back at some head(my ex) but i dnt knw how to go bout it. He left me 4 my best friend's lil sis and that is so messed up cos i jst heard she is pregnant 4 him. this is a girl that i let stay in my house wen she was havin house problems,i guess thats how dey became close. as for the A*#S, i cooked 4 him, never askd him 4 money, cleaned up and did evrythin a responsible gf would do.... Unfortunately for me,d girl is really really pretty. Anyway, my best friend is having a party n those 2 losers will b there 2geda while i go on my own. i really dnt knw how to face dem.....wat do i do?
Just let them be. The deed has been done and nothing can reverse that. I'll advice u look forward and forget about the past, if possible pretend as if nothing happened, though i know its difficult. Be strong and calm, there's always a better person 4 you out there. And remember, Such Is Life!! takia!!!
Posted: at 24-07-2009 03:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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