Dear OBB readers; My wife changed after we got married

Date: 28-11-2013 3:18 pm (10 years ago) | Author: ogundipe john
- at 28-11-2013 03:18 PM (10 years ago)
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From a male OBB reader...

    I met my wife whilst on a business trip to Abuja last year. To say she was stunning is an understatement but what attracted me to her was the attention she gave her body, watched her weight, smelt nice and was particular of her general looks. I married her nine months after we began dating and then everything changed. My once beautiful and trendy lady lost all that dazzle immediately we got married. She stopped using makeup and fragrance. She seemed to no longer care how she looked and for me that was one of the things I saw that made me fall in love and marry her. Now it appears all that has gone and it really saddens me. I feel like she used all that body attention to lure me and as soon as we got married decided to show her true nature. I've complained so many times but she doesn't seem to care. Its been six months we've been married and am already fed up and irritated with this new person. I'm no longer attracted to her. How do I handle this. What should I do?

sourcehttp://Olokunbolablessing.blogspot.com/2013/11/dear-obb-readers-my-wife-changed-after.html

Posted: at 28-11-2013 03:18 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
- osarobo62 at 28-11-2013 03:26 PM (10 years ago)
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good for you.....na only you see am sey she look beautiful and dazzling wey you go marry am?
oyibo people say" never judge a book by it's cover"

Posted: at 28-11-2013 03:26 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Idbabe at 28-11-2013 03:45 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: osarobo62 on 28-11-2013 03:26 PM
good for you.....na only you see am sey she look beautiful and dazzling wey you go marry am?
oyibo people say" never judge a book by it's cover"



Old boy, u harsh oo.   Pity this young man na.  Ppl are attracted by different things, so its not his fault
Posted: at 28-11-2013 03:45 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Idbabe at 28-11-2013 03:47 PM (10 years ago)
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Sit her down and pour out ur heart on how ur feeling to her, tell her to get back on track.  But come oo are u sure she has not joined the trend of this new "born agains"?
Posted: at 28-11-2013 03:47 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Archymath at 28-11-2013 04:03 PM (10 years ago)
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From what you said it appears as if  you didn't fall in love with your wife and was just dazzled by her appearance. Seems that you've gotten tired of being with her. She can't be 100% perfect all the time.
Posted: at 28-11-2013 04:03 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bassa004 at 28-11-2013 04:08 PM (10 years ago)
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Since you didn't marry her for her, but her looks!  I am afraid and hate to say that you going end up divorcing her. Even if she try to maintain the looks for now it's going to fade when she is getting age"for GOD sake you don't marry for looks" what if something happens? Like for example: an accident, an illness or something beyond her control what you''re going to do?  My brother try to love her inside and outside because from your explanation you'we only love the outside. Also some ladies like been natural  you cannot expect her to be stunning all the times. Like king Salomon says a time for everything.
Posted: at 28-11-2013 04:08 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- Idbabe at 28-11-2013 04:21 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: bassa004 on 28-11-2013 04:08 PM
Since you didn't marry her for her, but her looks!  I am afraid and hate to say that you going end up divorcing her. Even if she try to maintain the looks for now it's going to fade when she is getting age"for GOD sake you don't marry for looks" what if something happens? Like for example: an accident, an illness or something beyond her control what you''re going to do?  My brother try to love her inside and outside because from your explanation you'we only love the outside. Also some ladies like been natural  you cannot expect her to be stunning all the times. Like king Salomon says a time for everything.

You talk well, dont worry wen i bcom the President of Nigeria, i will make u the "Special Adviser" on subsidy matters.   Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 28-11-2013 04:21 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Shegzan at 29-11-2013 06:53 AM (10 years ago)
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Wel, I jst learnt vhat looks are deceptive!! Fanks man.. Get a bow tie and suit urslf!

Posted: at 29-11-2013 06:53 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PoliticxGuru at 14-08-2015 03:47 PM (8 years ago)
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y didn't u seek D faze of God bfore marrying her?Huh???
Posted: at 14-08-2015 03:47 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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