What would u do if ur friends ex is asking u out?

Date: 26-08-2009 9:13 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Flex Atanicious
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- at 26-08-2009 09:13 PM (14 years ago)
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hi

Posted: at 26-08-2009 09:13 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
- welli at 26-08-2009 09:17 PM (14 years ago)
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Simply make him understand I'm not into ''second hand'' materials.
I'D rather have my own man and save my friendship than
settle for ''MY-FRIEND-USE-REMAIN'' and destroy my friendship in the process.

Posted: at 26-08-2009 09:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sammybless at 26-08-2009 09:24 PM (14 years ago)
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@welli thats thoughtful but even if ur ex keep telling people that she is the corse of the breakup
Posted: at 26-08-2009 09:24 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- erikaakpan at 26-08-2009 09:40 PM (14 years ago)
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I guess it all depends on the circumstance. There are cons such as losing that friendship. I think it's never okay to date your friend's ex without first asking permission. The reason is because your friend is more important always. Even if they say yes its ok...i would never do it

My advice to anyone considering dating a friend’s ex is to carefully think about it and what the outcome and consequences might be.

Posted: at 26-08-2009 09:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sammybless at 26-08-2009 09:45 PM (14 years ago)
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@erika even when the breakup its not even up to 3 months? and he show u he is realy in love
Posted: at 26-08-2009 09:45 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- erikaakpan at 26-08-2009 09:56 PM (14 years ago)
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if its not up to 3 months then something is wrong.....u breakup with the girl for not even 3 months and u are already trying to get with her friend?

Posted: at 26-08-2009 09:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sammybless at 26-08-2009 09:59 PM (14 years ago)
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remenber u cant hide love
Posted: at 26-08-2009 09:59 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- erikaakpan at 26-08-2009 10:04 PM (14 years ago)
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well that mean u really wasnt interested in the girl in the first place...and now since u are trying to get with her friend shes gonna look at u crazy.....as if u arent serious. Me...if i was the friend i would think "no this guy is not tryin to get wit me and he just broke up wit my friend less than 3 months ago"

love is a very strong word...and if u really love this girls friend respect her feelings

Posted: at 26-08-2009 10:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- welli at 26-08-2009 10:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sammybless on 26-08-2009 09:24 PM
@welli thats thoughtful but even if ur ex keep telling people that she is the corse of the breakup
Who put an end the r/s matters li2 or not.
The basic rule is : ''Never 'betray' Your team''. In this case, My friend is my team.


Posted: at 26-08-2009 10:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 27-08-2009 10:38 AM (14 years ago)
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reading wit interest
Posted: at 27-08-2009 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 27-08-2009 10:42 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sammybless on 26-08-2009 09:13 PM
hi

ignore

Posted: at 27-08-2009 10:42 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- brightossy at 27-08-2009 10:44 AM (14 years ago)
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Patching
Posted: at 27-08-2009 10:44 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Chinnys at 27-08-2009 12:52 PM (14 years ago)
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I HAD A SIMILAR CASE
Posted: at 27-08-2009 12:52 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- SAmyrocko at 27-08-2009 01:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Chinnys on 27-08-2009 12:52 PM
I HAD A SIMILAR CASE


So what did you do? hope you didn't fall for him ? Angry

Posted: at 27-08-2009 01:05 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- luvvy at 27-08-2009 01:17 PM (14 years ago)
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I will juss be looking
Posted: at 27-08-2009 01:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 27-08-2009 07:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmmm... No be who like person matter. na who person like. She can ask all life long and it wont make a diff if I'm not interested in her.

Like Welli said "My-friend-use-remain" aint my thing either.
Posted: at 27-08-2009 07:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- rosearch at 27-08-2009 07:31 PM (14 years ago)
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4 loyalty sake - I will tell him 2 go screw himself - full stop  Cool
Posted: at 27-08-2009 07:31 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- around_d_corner at 27-08-2009 07:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: rosearch on 27-08-2009 07:31 PM
4 loyalty sake - I will tell him 2 go screw himself - full stop  Cool
wen say that u will bi feelin lucky abi......
Posted: at 27-08-2009 07:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- rosearch at 27-08-2009 08:10 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: around_d_corner on 27-08-2009 07:40 PM
Quote from: rosearch on 27-08-2009 07:31 PM
4 loyalty sake - I will tell him 2 go screw himself - full stop  Cool


wen say that u will bi feelin lucky abi......

U sef - wetin now?  I beg carry your bad luck go far  Cool
Posted: at 27-08-2009 08:10 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- diplomatik at 28-08-2009 02:04 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sammybless on 26-08-2009 09:13 PM
hi

yes hi....whats sup?....u wanna know if u should accept  or not abi?...guess what....suit urself.. Tongue Tongue Grin

Posted: at 28-08-2009 02:04 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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