Well i left this guy late last year , and we maintain the friendship ,there were no hard feelings between us , So Early this year till recently he has been communicating thru calls, smses and so on so apparently to him he was sure that I m on too him too, So he asked me if he could come visit me i agreed . i treaded him as a visitor ,though we slept on the same bed ,there was no intimacy .
So we talked about us the whole weekend ,and all he wanted was for me to take him back ,, I also asked if I can trust him he said yes . So I told him that I do care but love it will take me time , he said Patience is Virtue . So early hours of monday morning at around 1 am to 2 am ,someone send him call back on his phone , he diddnt want to respond , cuz he said he had no airtime. So I gave him my own fone to use after making the call he wanted to remove the details esp the number i grabbed the phone and switch it off . So he then left to his place which is another province , After work I decided to call that person he called , Guess she happen to be the galfriend who was told lies that they are going to see friends in another province. So i spoke to her asked her and she was too nice to tell me the truth .
I was not going to take this guy back , first he is a liar , second is he is so stingy he can starve himself hoping a woman will sponsor him . So I know it was wrong of me to speak to the gf but I did this to prove to that guy he lies
Posted: at 7-10-2009 08:34 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
SAmyrocko at 7-10-2009 08:51 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Too Bad girl, He doesn't deserve you. Perhaps he wanted to get something from you that he didn't received when you two were still going out. He's just a cheap liar!
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 7-10-2009 08:51 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
handsomeemmy1 at 7-10-2009 09:12 AM (14 years ago) (m)
He is a great cheat, never pray to have such person as a brother.
Life can only get better can only get better for me, i don't know about you. But just be calm remain focus because you never can tell where God is taking you to. smile.
Posted: at 7-10-2009 09:12 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Well i left this guy late last year , and we maintain the friendship ,there were no hard feelings between us , So Early this year till recently he has been communicating thru calls, smses and so on so apparently to him he was sure that I m on too him too, So he asked me if he could come visit me i agreed . i treaded him as a visitor ,though we slept on the same bed ,there was no intimacy .
So we talked about us the whole weekend ,and all he wanted was for me to take him back ,, I also asked if I can trust him he said yes . So I told him that I do care but love it will take me time , he said Patience is Virtue . So early hours of monday morning at around 1 am to 2 am ,someone send him call back on his phone , he diddnt want to respond , cuz he said he had no airtime. So I gave him my own fone to use after making the call he wanted to remove the details esp the number i grabbed the phone and switch it off . So he then left to his place which is another province , After work I decided to call that person he called , Guess she happen to be the galfriend who was told lies that they are going to see friends in another province. So i spoke to her asked her and she was too nice to tell me the truth .
I was not going to take this guy back , first he is a liar , second is he is so stingy he can starve himself hoping a woman will sponsor him . So I know it was wrong of me to speak to the gf but I did this to prove to that guy he lies
Speaking with the girl is a good prove for the guy let him go he did worth it
Posted: at 7-10-2009 01:15 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
SexOnTheSide at 7-10-2009 01:23 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Kanue on 7-10-2009 08:34 AM
Well i left this guy late last year , and we maintain the friendship ,there were no hard feelings between us , So Early this year till recently he has been communicating thru calls, smses and so on so apparently to him he was sure that I m on too him too, So he asked me if he could come visit me i agreed . i treaded him as a visitor ,though we slept on the same bed ,there was no intimacy .
So we talked about us the whole weekend ,and all he wanted was for me to take him back ,, I also asked if I can trust him he said yes . So I told him that I do care but love it will take me time , he said Patience is Virtue . So early hours of monday morning at around 1 am to 2 am ,someone send him call back on his phone , he diddnt want to respond , cuz he said he had no airtime. So I gave him my own fone to use after making the call he wanted to remove the details esp the number i grabbed the phone and switch it off . So he then left to his place which is another province , After work I decided to call that person he called , Guess she happen to be the galfriend who was told lies that they are going to see friends in another province. So i spoke to her asked her and she was too nice to tell me the truth .
I was not going to take this guy back , first he is a liar , second is he is so stingy he can starve himself hoping a woman will sponsor him . So I know it was wrong of me to speak to the gf but I did this to prove to that guy he lies
My dear, if this is a true story, you have left so much unsaid. Prior to your making him take an unwanted call, what lie did he tell? You already know him and I guess you must know that his life was not standing still while you were not there. It takes a long while to shake off happy bits that helps one get through the damnation of a rejected love. If you love the guy, accept him as he is, pimples, warts and all, even gonorrhea. Such are the trappings of love real and true.
Whenever I reach out to you, you can be sure I will touch the very base and integrate fabric of your soul...!
Posted: at 7-10-2009 01:23 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
SAmyrocko at 7-10-2009 02:36 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: SexOnTheSide on 7-10-2009 01:23 PM
Quote from: Kanue on 7-10-2009 08:34 AM
Well i left this guy late last year , and we maintain the friendship ,there were no hard feelings between us , So Early this year till recently he has been communicating thru calls, smses and so on so apparently to him he was sure that I m on too him too, So he asked me if he could come visit me i agreed . i treaded him as a visitor ,though we slept on the same bed ,there was no intimacy .
So we talked about us the whole weekend ,and all he wanted was for me to take him back ,, I also asked if I can trust him he said yes . So I told him that I do care but love it will take me time , he said Patience is Virtue . So early hours of monday morning at around 1 am to 2 am ,someone send him call back on his phone , he diddnt want to respond , cuz he said he had no airtime. So I gave him my own fone to use after making the call he wanted to remove the details esp the number i grabbed the phone and switch it off . So he then left to his place which is another province , After work I decided to call that person he called , Guess she happen to be the galfriend who was told lies that they are going to see friends in another province. So i spoke to her asked her and she was too nice to tell me the truth .
I was not going to take this guy back , first he is a liar , second is he is so stingy he can starve himself hoping a woman will sponsor him . So I know it was wrong of me to speak to the gf but I did this to prove to that guy he lies
My dear, if this is a true story, you have left so much unsaid. Prior to your making him take an unwanted call, what lie did he tell? You already know him and I guess you must know that his life was not standing still while you were not there. It takes a long while to shake off happy bits that helps one get through the damnation of a rejected love. If you love the guy, accept him as he is, pimples, warts and all, even gonorrhea. Such are the trappings of love real and true.
Guy this Ur yan hard ooo!! l bet if she can do all that. True talk sha!
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 7-10-2009 02:36 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Well i left this guy late last year , and we maintain the friendship ,there were no hard feelings between us , So Early this year till recently he has been communicating thru calls, smses and so on so apparently to him he was sure that I m on too him too, So he asked me if he could come visit me i agreed . i treaded him as a visitor ,though we slept on the same bed ,there was no intimacy .
So we talked about us the whole weekend ,and all he wanted was for me to take him back ,, I also asked if I can trust him he said yes . So I told him that I do care but love it will take me time , he said Patience is Virtue . So early hours of monday morning at around 1 am to 2 am ,someone send him call back on his phone , he diddnt want to respond , cuz he said he had no airtime. So I gave him my own fone to use after making the call he wanted to remove the details esp the number i grabbed the phone and switch it off . So he then left to his place which is another province , After work I decided to call that person he called , Guess she happen to be the galfriend who was told lies that they are going to see friends in another province. So i spoke to her asked her and she was too nice to tell me the truth .
I was not going to take this guy back , first he is a liar , second is he is so stingy he can starve himself hoping a woman will sponsor him . So I know it was wrong of me to speak to the gf but I did this to prove to that guy he lies
cool, now u know the truth dat u werent wrng the first tyme
kudos
but u've sum truth to couhg out ursef...hw can u say u treated som1 as a visitor, nd he slept on ur bed...the same bed wit u...mehn..dat kain lie ehn.na wa oo
2.0.
Posted: at 7-10-2009 04:50 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Thank You All For Your Responses . i know that it takes a haert that cares to no that one needs someone to encourage them . So I guess I knew what I had to do from the start , Atleast I still have my pride , I ddnt agree to go out with him on conditions that I had set for him before , And he still said he isnt that bad, I mean he is about to be 30 and yet he claims to have no gf .
My Heart isnt broken I had no hopes to redate ( If theres somethin like that) Him cuz he is clueless on what relationship got to be , He is not Independent enough to handle himself so I cant allow myself to go out with a man who is like that and on top lie to you.
So My Great pals , U r advices I keep and I know that I get to use them when situtations turns sour .
Thanks A lott GUYS
Posted: at 8-10-2009 08:50 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Well i left this guy late last year , and we maintain the friendship ,there were no hard feelings between us , So Early this year till recently he has been communicating thru calls, smses and so on so apparently to him he was sure that I m on too him too, So he asked me if he could come visit me i agreed . i treaded him as a visitor ,though we slept on the same bed ,there was no intimacy .
So we talked about us the whole weekend ,and all he wanted was for me to take him back ,, I also asked if I can trust him he said yes . So I told him that I do care but love it will take me time , he said Patience is Virtue . So early hours of monday morning at around 1 am to 2 am ,someone send him call back on his phone , he diddnt want to respond , cuz he said he had no airtime. So I gave him my own fone to use after making the call he wanted to remove the details esp the number i grabbed the phone and switch it off . So he then left to his place which is another province , After work I decided to call that person he called , Guess she happen to be the galfriend who was told lies that they are going to see friends in another province. So i spoke to her asked her and she was too nice to tell me the truth .
I was not going to take this guy back , first he is a liar , second is he is so stingy he can starve himself hoping a woman will sponsor him . So I know it was wrong of me to speak to the gf but I did this to prove to that guy he lies
My dear, if this is a true story, you have left so much unsaid. Prior to your making him take an unwanted call, what lie did he tell? You already know him and I guess you must know that his life was not standing still while you were not there. It takes a long while to shake off happy bits that helps one get through the damnation of a rejected love. If you love the guy, accept him as he is, pimples, warts and all, even gonorrhea. Such are the trappings of love real and true.
i also think what you think many story is untold,if it true
Posted: at 8-10-2009 09:15 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
i know there is no fair hearing in this case but base on you story i will not say that man is cheat or deciever but i believe you know what you want go from it b4 you thing become another person own
Posted: at 8-10-2009 09:20 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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