His friends have deserted us – Sonny Okosuns’ widow

Date: 24-10-2014 10:57 pm (9 years ago) | Author: fivund
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It's been six years since legendary musician, Sunny Okosun passed on, but his wife still misses him dearly! Read her touching story as told to SUN newspaper below:

How has it been without Sonny?
It has not been easy because I lost a very good friend of mine, husband, father and brother. He was everything to me and indeed, he represented so many things in my life. Whenever I think back, it has never been easy at all.

Can you take us back to how you both met?
We meet 34 years ago on my way to pick my nephew from school. I was standing at the bus stop when he pulled over right in my front and offered me a lift, insisting that I must enter. The end of it was that after much persuasion, I joined him in the car and we had a chat on our way.
What were the charming words he said to you that made you give him a second thought?
He was somebody who would not take no for an answer. At the beginning, I was not interested but he insisted and continued to mount pressure on me. On a second thought, I looked at him as a man who is so caring, one who knew what he wanted and was pressing very hard to get what he wanted too. At that point I considered him.
Was he a well-pronounced star when you meet him?
Yes.
Ok, you knew him as the popular Sunny Okosuns?
Yes.
I am thinking that as a celebrity that he was, you shouldn’t have put him through all the stress. Why did you not just accept his good offer?
Well, I did not know why, but I know that at the beginning, it was not love at first sight, so I took my time to consider his offer. Then gradually I started falling in love, because he would not let go despite my resistance.
What was the greatest gift he ever gave you; I mean that very one you cherish the most?
Christ and salvation.
What are your challenges right now?
Well, aside he not been here, a lot of his friends have deserted us. We were expecting them to be around us and try to console and encourage us.
Aside that, is there any other thing?
Nothing else. We have found solace in God now and we thank God that the church is still on.

Let us talk about his church because I am wondering, how come his church is growing bigger even when he is not here anymore?
Yes, after his death, the mantle of leadership was handed down to me.
When people come for counselling on similar issues just as the one you may be facing, do you use yourself as reference for them?
Yes, I do that most times, but then, I use wisdom in doing that, while using the Bible as a reference. You know that there are great men and women of God in the bible who are good examples to emulate, so I use them to encourage those who come for counselling and I do encourage them to hold forth. I do tell them that in case of any bad along their ways, they must not give up, give in or throw in the towel.
How do you feel when you hear his song paying on the street?
I feel very happy that his memory lives on.
 


Posted: at 24-10-2014 10:57 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
- allenspike at 25-10-2014 07:14 AM (9 years ago)
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God Bless U Ma

Posted: at 25-10-2014 07:14 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bamilok2008 at 25-10-2014 07:42 AM (9 years ago)
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Legendary Okosun.
Posted: at 25-10-2014 07:42 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- beneno at 25-10-2014 07:49 AM (9 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 25-10-2014 07:49 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- morgrawl231 at 25-10-2014 09:07 AM (9 years ago)
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God bless the family,,,,
Posted: at 25-10-2014 09:07 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- chealseafc at 25-10-2014 09:46 AM (9 years ago)
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that is life for you.
Posted: at 25-10-2014 09:46 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Larry28 at 25-10-2014 10:23 AM (9 years ago)
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It is well
Posted: at 25-10-2014 10:23 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- Ritabrenice at 25-10-2014 12:29 PM (9 years ago)
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Dats life for u
Posted: at 25-10-2014 12:29 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- zeigbo at 25-10-2014 12:55 PM (9 years ago)
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God bless

Posted: at 25-10-2014 12:55 PM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- okoroj at 25-10-2014 02:25 PM (9 years ago)
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tht is how it ll be, he has gone and ll it ll never remain thesame
Posted: at 25-10-2014 02:25 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- osarobo62 at 25-10-2014 03:03 PM (9 years ago)
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they were his friends,....not your friends. That's the way life is
Posted: at 25-10-2014 03:03 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- Trueyarn at 25-10-2014 03:17 PM (9 years ago)
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Lyf shaaaaa.
Posted: at 25-10-2014 03:17 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- raybenzino at 25-10-2014 04:34 PM (9 years ago)
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Legend
Posted: at 25-10-2014 04:34 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- zoe61 at 26-10-2014 01:03 AM (9 years ago)
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 Cool Cool
Posted: at 26-10-2014 01:03 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- bospak at 26-10-2014 11:31 AM (9 years ago)
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Mama
Posted: at 26-10-2014 11:31 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- elchymo at 24-08-2015 07:42 AM (8 years ago)
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It shall be well
Posted: at 24-08-2015 07:42 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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