Wetin you dey do with am before!!!

 i dont know if it has happened to you, but if you really want to know whether you love your partner or not, it'll only happen when you two break up. If you really miss the person and think about the person to often, you know that you really love the person. If the person come go and you never miss am, na im be say you done waste 6 months of your life Hoing with a man u feel nothing for. you too go dey suprise if the guy no even call you for once after una break up.

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Posted: at 12-07-2008 04:09 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

see there's a big difference btw missing someone but wanting to stay away from them, AND not missing someone and no even remember say their number exist for you phone.

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Posted: at 12-07-2008 04:19 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

the thing be say even if i get new gf, i no have problem with my ex calling me but if she dey call to get back with me, i might as well tell am say make she loose my number.

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Posted: at 12-07-2008 04:25 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I mean yeah you're right, but sometimes most girls think that by calling you, you might end up cheating on the current GF with her and you know most girls like this so much. So when yawaa burst, she go come dey boast for the dude GF say even if the guy be her man say she get something wey the girl no get. na why her BF dey f**k am.

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Posted: at 12-07-2008 04:34 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yeah.but me i still call my ex's just to say hi. But i had this one guy that his current girl at the time kept harrassing me til i had to call the police on her. I mean this girl gave me a high speed chase on the road and even stalked me at work..I had to ask my ex for her pic to give to the security at my job so she wouldn't get through..He was the one that said i could call him anytime i want so i don't know why she was tripping, it ain't like i wanted him back or anything like that..we didnt' even have long conversations..it was always how r u and bye..lol

Posted: at 12-07-2008 04:42 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

wow..lol..but its true. o.k o.k we went out for ice cream once and that was it.

Posted: at 12-07-2008 04:50 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Lmao.. ..o.k there was a movie and that was it i swear. But she shouldn't have nothing to worry bout cuz i wasn't even feeling him like that, just that we remained good friends after the relationship. And besides he's the one that asks....and being that i was free i accepted..lol..maybe she's just uncomfortable with him being friends with his ex..I don't see anything wrong with it for real as long as he's not being secretive about it..he told her about me, and she's the one that didn't believe that we were just friends...look at this..he text me asking to borrow some money..and i text him back saying "i will give it to you tomorrow"...she saw my text and flipped out thinking i was talking about sex....lmao

Posted: at 12-07-2008 05:00 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I honestly don't think he was trying to make her jealous cause he told her from the first time he met her and she was o.k with it and didn't start tripping til he will call and i will return the call..At the time she was stalking me i told him to stop contacting me cause i ain't got time for all that bull..but he continued to do so, and at times i even stopped picking his calls but she still didn't stop coming around me. She finally stopped when the restraining order came through. And guess what....after couple of months..he found out that she never broke up with her ex and was dating the both of them at the same time...so thats why she was suspecting us, cause she was doing wrong.

Posted: at 12-07-2008 05:11 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

well na the guy headache be that... if the guy no dey hang out with you really and dey talk lovey lovey for phone every night, i think the girl go really be with am only. I honestly think she started back with her ex when she suspected you to were doing something(even though you might not), so she didn't want to feel left out with the "I go dey keep f***kin my ex even though I got a partner" thing.

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Posted: at 12-07-2008 05:18 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

well like say na your ex wey be mumu for this one. cos the gurl no gbadu am for real. nawaaaooo. so you be captain save me from this untrue love. huh!!! So after them come break up, wetin happen again? you and your ex hit it off? lol

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Posted: at 12-07-2008 05:29 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac