Without My Consent

Date: 10-11-2009 4:27 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Succeed
- at 10-11-2009 04:27 PM (14 years ago)
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    As salamu `alaykum
I have been married to my wife for 7 years and we have three children. For the last two years, my wife insists that I must use a condom everytime, and if I refuse, she will not agree. When I asked her about why she insists on me using a condom, she replied that she is practicing family planning, and is free from any mess. But, I wonder how she could not do that unilaterally without my consent. Please, does she have a right Islamically to employ family planning, and pressurize me into using a condom? Is it my sin if I refuse to sleep with her because I have to wear a condom?

Posted: at 10-11-2009 04:27 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
- Toks-E at 10-11-2009 04:30 PM (14 years ago)
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without ur consent?...hw?
Posted: at 10-11-2009 04:30 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- pepigambit at 10-11-2009 04:35 PM (14 years ago)
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poster...i dont get u at al ooo....


and posted...i reserve ma comment
Posted: at 10-11-2009 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 10-11-2009 04:40 PM (14 years ago)
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HMMMM...THERE R OTHER PROTECTIONS THAN CONDOM
Posted: at 10-11-2009 04:40 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- pepigambit at 10-11-2009 04:43 PM (14 years ago)
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like?
Posted: at 10-11-2009 04:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 10-11-2009 04:43 PM (14 years ago)
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NO NYASHIN XDXDXD
Posted: at 10-11-2009 04:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 10-11-2009 10:20 PM (14 years ago)
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I don't know about the religion part but if she's telling you to use a condom that is not unilateral, she wants you to participate, unilateral would be her taking pills instead without you knowing about it. And i don't think depriving your wife of her property is religious. ok that said, if the condom is your major issue there are different ways to prevent pregnancy besides using a condom,let her know. If its that you want more kids then let her know too.
Posted: at 10-11-2009 10:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gimac at 11-11-2009 10:27 AM (14 years ago)
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islamic am out
Posted: at 11-11-2009 10:27 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- humblej at 11-11-2009 10:48 AM (14 years ago)
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This posting looks and sounds a bit sensitive, thus i'm passing for now till later....
Posted: at 11-11-2009 10:48 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- simele at 11-11-2009 03:52 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: umide on 10-11-2009 04:27 PM
   As salamu `alaykum
I have been married to my wife for 7 years and we have three children. For the last two years, my wife insists that I must use a condom everytime, and if I refuse, she will not agree. When I asked her about why she insists on me using a condom, she replied that she is practicing family planning, and is free from any mess. But, I wonder how she could not do that unilaterally without my consent. Please, does she have a right Islamically to employ family planning, and pressurize me into using a condom? Is it my sin if I refuse to sleep with her because I have to wear a condom?


alykum ar guoma no she don't have the right
Posted: at 11-11-2009 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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