Relationship & courtship whats d difference. Which do you think can lead to marriage perfectly and w

Which do you think among both can lead to marriage perfectly and why? Knowing the mentality of africa parents. More importantly, is it right to give birth to children before marriage?

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Posted: at 15-12-2009 05:47 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

When you say 'African' mentality - then its wrong to give birth before marriage.

But you dont have to rely on this mentality anyway. Except you live your life for people

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Posted: at 15-12-2009 06:01 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Both are de same, difference is in de context. You actually need to get to know your partner before marriage. But not every courtship or relationship should lead to marriage. Giving birth before marriage? It's de same thing with sex before marriage.

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Posted: at 15-12-2009 08:19 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

In relationships U might not have marriage in mind, but when courtship is mentioned it always sounds as if there's an intention to get married to the other party. Both are relatively used as a precursor of/to marriage, however, it depends on the background and society one comes from;
@ second question, apparently it's not right in our African culture or mentality as said by Dguy, but in other countries with different culture it might perfectly be right and accepted 

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Posted: at 16-12-2009 06:57 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

So then wat is the point of keeping virginity till marriage?arrant nonsense!well i guess it's ur choise it should be a joint desicion if it's done just 2 know whether one is fertile or not well then it's left 2 dem.

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Posted: at 4-01-2010 08:34 AM (14 years ago) | Hero

courtship bla bla

Posted: at 4-01-2010 12:27 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

isn't rite atol....... coz i single gurl can't bi pregenant ol alone....wen not married................

Posted: at 4-01-2010 01:38 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

No diff

Posted: at 20-08-2015 03:32 PM (8 years ago) | Hero