Have you got the right moves to make him commit? Or do you just end up committing relationship suicide? Do your best efforts lead to a wonderful romantic journey, or an abrupt dead end? The reality of the situation is that men are ready and willing to commit to the woman of their dreams, but they need to be led to that decision in a certain way. These tips will show you how to do just that. You can make him commit, and keep him committed!
1. Know Thyself
It's ancient advice, but it's as true today as it was thousands of years ago. When all is said and done, you don't actually need a man in your life to make it rich, full and interesting. If you have a man in your life, it's because you've chosen to have one. Choice is a good thing, because it puts us in control.
Attend to your own life, family, friends and interests above everything else. Men want real women with real lives, not blank outlines waiting to be completed by a man. At least, the men worth knowing want that.
2. Make Him Work A Little
Everybody knows that the only things worth having are the things you've worked for, and that goes for relationships as much as anything else. If you're busy with your own life, there will naturally be times when you're not around for your guy. This is a good thing too, in many ways.
In the first place, men need time and space to do their own thing. Secondly, they like the thrill of the chase. If you're permanently available, he can't chase you. Thirdly, the fact that you might not always be around will focus his mind wonderfully. You've clearly got a good thing going on, and he wants a part of that. That in itself can be enough to make him commit.
3. Easy Does It
Following on from the second point, men may like the thrill of the chase, but they prefer the endless patience of tracking to the speedy ambush. In other words, they take a very long time over relationships. You cannot hurry this, however much you'd like to, so slow down, enjoy the relationship as it unfolds, and ensure that you always go at the pace your man is comfortable with.
By taking it easy and continuing to lead your own life, you're creating the ideal conditions to make him commit, because you will have removed the thing that men hate above all else - pressure.
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