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Man threatens to set wife, self ablaze over sex

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Topic: Man threatens to set wife, self ablaze over sex (Read 3508 times)
nametalkam (6089) On
Gistmaniac (m) | 4 years ago

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An Alimosho Grade ‘B’ Customary Court, Lagos was stunned last week when an enraged Mr. Olayinka Ajayi-Bembe threatened to set himself and his wife, Mrs. Bolanle Ajayi-Bembe on fire, except the court immediately dissolved their marriage.

His grouse was that the woman had repeatedly denied him sex for over three years while at the same time going out with another man despite still married.

The aggrieved husband stormed the court with an empty keg of petrol insisting that the marriage must be dissolved otherwise he would cause commotion either in court or in their home, if the court did not resolve the matter that day.

He disclosed that he and the woman cannot continue to live under the same roof.
Ajayi, who frowned at the efforts of the Office of the Public Defender (OPD), Alausa to resolve the matter, complained that only a speedy trial and dissolution of the case would stop him

According to him, allowing the OPD to intervene in the case, especially after the matter is before a court of law was like adding salt to his injury.

He said “I cannot continue to live with this woman again, by the time I finish with her, the story will change. I will set both of us on fire, if she dares follow me to my house.

“I am tired of living under the same roof with a woman who has denied me sex for over three years. She has become unruly and had also refused to cook for me.”

He argued that his wife has been coming with another man to her matrimonial home to have sex when he is not around, adding that the man lives in their neighbourhood.

“She brings her boyfriend into our matrimonial home, right on our bed, when ever I go to work. The man lives very close to our house and he is a member of a dreaded militant group. I cannot continue to risk my life because of an ungrateful wife,” he said.

The court quickly advised him not to carry out his threat, saying that it is impossible to join unwilling partners or couple together. He was told that he should exercise patience to allow the matter to be settled legally.

In her response, the woman at the center of the crisis, Bolanle denied all the allegations leveled against her by her husband.

She said though she would have preferred to stay in her matrimonial home, but since the man is unwilling to be her husband, she would concede to the dissolution of the marriage.

Despite the husbands position, an officiall of the OPD, one Mrs Olayemi Oni who was in court argued that the couple could still resolve their differences. She prayed the court to grant her some time for the couple to find a lasting solution to the problem.

Before the matter was adjourned, the court warned both parties to maintain peace.



26 Dec 09, 09:21 AM
brightossy (6600)
Gistmaniac (m) | 4 years ago

Y d woman dey deny him d thing nah?

26 Dec 09, 09:29 AM
xter (26208)
Addicted Hero (m) | 4 years ago

ok sir,dey talk


26 Dec 09, 09:33 AM
PreetyInstinct (12272)
Hero (f) | 4 years ago

Wat is it?wat's up with all these wife's denying there husbands of s*x?wat could have been his offence?or did they force her 2 marry him?4goodness sakes man things need 2 change ur killing d man already.


26 Dec 09, 10:29 AM
humblej (2329)
Gistmaniac (m) | 4 years ago

That is why many men are afraid of getting themselves committed with those kind of women, one of my friend called it "Bondage at home with u'r own commodity"


26 Dec 09, 10:35 AM
gimac (13644)
Hero (m) | 4 years ago

summarize

26 Dec 09, 02:24 PM
myragonza (41400)
Addicted Hero (f) | 4 years ago

this amebo reporter


26 Dec 09, 02:25 PM
handsomeemmy1 (1308)
Gistmaniac (m) | 4 years ago

Give the man wetin him want oh


26 Dec 09, 04:25 PM
dirtykid (18094)
Hero (m) | 4 years ago

Quote from: humblej on 26 Dec 09, 10:35 AM
That is why many men are afraid of getting themselves committed with those kind of women, one of my friend called it "Bondage at home with u'r own commodity"

exactly.. but atimes, is some men that are causing it, without knowing how to treat their wives good on bed, some women find it not enjoyable if u dont know how to run their rough edge well for them. they became coring having Sex with the man.


26 Dec 09, 04:28 PM
25_vivi (320)
Upcoming (f) | 4 years ago

this is 2bad .. theres more 2 this


26 Dec 09, 05:53 PM
dirtykid (18094)
Hero (m) | 4 years ago

Tell us abt it..


26 Dec 09, 05:54 PM
mayor-jay (230)
Upcoming (f) | 4 years ago

ok na.....

26 Dec 09, 06:17 PM
newtonlord101 (3)
Newbie (m) | 4 years ago

men!!! why our women dey treat us anyhow na.that thing na our right ooooooooo

26 Dec 09, 06:27 PM
Olamaboro (8)
Newbie (m) | 4 years ago

Quote from: newtonlord101 on 26 Dec 09, 06:27 PM
men!!! why our women dey treat us anyhow na.that thing na our right ooooooooo
And u can imagine somebody denying you of wat belong 2 u. Na wa o

26 Dec 09, 06:36 PM
saintdav76 (2099)
Gistmaniac (m) | 4 years ago

myragonza, u dey support bad tin? abi na u be d person  "this amebo reporter" bad tin na bad tin, there is no 2nd name for bad


26 Dec 09, 07:20 PM
ogunfunmi (1033)
Gistmaniac (f) | 4 years ago

can i help with kero Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?

26 Dec 09, 08:03 PM
dirtykid (18094)
Hero (m) | 4 years ago

Quote from: Olamaboro on 26 Dec 09, 06:36 PM
Quote from: newtonlord101 on 26 Dec 09, 06:27 PM
men!!! why our women dey treat us anyhow na.that thing na our right ooooooooo
And u can imagine somebody denying you of wat belong 2 u. Na wa o


How u take know say na ur thing and it belongs to u?? they sign una signature and stamp put there ?? Grin Grin Grin


26 Dec 09, 08:35 PM
donhenry4uall (28)
Newbie (m) | 4 years ago

This is bad. The man should be encouraged for hanging in there for three years. A woman that refuses her husband that long is seeing another man. But na like this we go de dey? The marriage should be stoped.

27 Dec 09, 05:34 PM
gentlebrand (39)
Newbie (m) | 4 years ago

Quote from: dirtykid on 26 Dec 09, 08:35 PM
Quote from: Olamaboro on 26 Dec 09, 06:36 PM
Quote from: newtonlord101 on 26 Dec 09, 06:27 PM
men!!! why our women dey treat us anyhow na.that thing na our right ooooooooo
And u can imagine somebody denying you of wat belong 2 u. Na wa o


How u take know say na ur thing and it belongs to u?? they sign una signature and stamp put there ?? Grin Grin Grin
no dey no stamp am.why ona no dey marry ona self then born pikin?

28 Dec 09, 07:40 AM
anonymous2 (2543)
Gistmaniac (f) | 4 years ago

......


28 Dec 09, 11:32 AM


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