Can you forfeit your career for marriage? (Page 3)

everythin is possible,but its depense on sytuation too

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Posted: at 18-01-2010 01:24 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

Idealy it is not right, becouse you as a woman, you have a roll to play to make a happy home therefore you have to discuse it him before you get married as per different men with different opinion.

 Haadees. 

Posted: at 18-01-2010 02:04 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

A lady have to be submissive to her husband, that is what the bible thought us. for a man to ask his wife to quit her career, there must be a genuine reason for that, some ladies their career makes them so exposed to the world, for instance it's not every man that can have the heart of watching his wife being romanced or kissed by another man all in the name of career. one have to engage his or herself in to something decent, i'm not against anything or anybody but there are some other things that one can do that will provide enough money for her to support  the husband in taking care of the childrens needs. Indecent filming or any other thing that expose a womans body must not be particularly done by a married woman.  ONE LOVE 2 U ALL NAIJA............  

Posted: at 18-01-2010 03:25 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

after the marriage and then three kids then i can think about it, anything before that is unacceptable..

Posted: at 18-01-2010 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

a woman hav 2 b submisive 2 her husband dat is wat d bible thought us,but 4 a man 2 ask his spouse 2 forfeit her career means dat the man does not hav trust 4 his wife.no trust in dat marriage which can as well break down d mariage.

Posted: at 18-01-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

y will a living being forfeit her career for marriage? God FORBID d marriage na thy kingdom come?

Posted: at 18-01-2010 05:43 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

lmaaoo, at some funni comments here

well, well, well, it depends on how u view ur marriage, it depends on wat u see marriage to be. it depends on wat u think marriage is
it depends on how u view ur spouse.

well for me, i can quit my career for marriage depending on how reasonable my husband is, but if he is the unreasonable type, then  No WAY !!!
 loll

Posted: at 18-01-2010 07:05 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

submissive indeed

Posted: at 19-01-2010 09:01 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming

i can' even tink abt it..
i hv sum1 who haz done dat n is regretin her lyf..all bcos of luv??

Posted: at 19-01-2010 10:38 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie

career - marriage = loneliness

marriage - career = begger and at the mercy of somebody

marriage/career = divorce

marriage + career = fulfilment and something to offer the family

successful career x successful marriage = joy, happiness,good background for ur children,  infact all the goodies............................

Posted: at 19-01-2010 12:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac