not wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home –
placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and
trousers – lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of
“women’s rights” to insult or ridicule her husband
simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through
bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man
should be eager to run away from office to be at home,
for that should be the safest and cosiest place on earth
for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition. It simply means partnership. Taking
advantage of such equality to turn around and become
the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is
tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your
home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he
assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling,
the woman gently wields her power and the head
actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a
protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends’
influence and advice or even from the control of her
mother and father will have herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women
of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon
after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of
childbirth to let go of themselves. Many stop bothering
about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of
marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the
man’s aunt, even though she is 7 years younger. Her
defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love her
the way she is, but when looking for a wife, he saw
people like the present YOU and ignored them and
settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed
smelling of onions…. You go to bed wearing
grandmothers’ clothes. Why are you playing with your
marriage? Love is not about looks – we know. But looks
enhances love and marriage. There is a difference
between someone disfiguring herself and the person
being disfigured by an accident.
Please don’t be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on
looking like you were when he first saw you and began the
chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with
headache or fever, “not in the mood,” you are a joker, a
serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more important to
you than your husband, you need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be
pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone
that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her
husband. Wives are usually complacent and
presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a
girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more
loving and always thinking of ways to wow her
sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all
arguments, does not call the man a “useless man”, is
not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles
and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet
messages and calls, etc. Are you your husband’s
girlfriend in word and in deed?
LASTLY, DO NOT INFORM ME OF YOUR QUARRELS, I DIDN’T
JOIN YOU TOGETHER, GOD DID, GO AND INFORM HIM AND
HE WILL SORT YOU OUT.
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