All actions in life and relationships have resultant effects. Every thing we do follow the rule of cause and effect. The same way in our relationship and marriage, every of our actions are either geared towards mending, making or marring our relationship. We are either fighting against or fighting for our relationship.
Some one said marriage is made in heaven, true as this may be, marriages are meant to be worked out on earth. There's are no magics anywhere. We all are given the responsibility of putting in our efforts to making our relationship work.
What we sow into our relationship is really what we reap.
It is also true that some of us may have to put in more efforts than others. The most important thing is that whatever the case we all have what it takes to make our relationship work. We are all graced for all it will take to make our relationship work.
Be encouraged today that no matter how far away your marriage has gone in the wrong direction, with God's help there can be restoration.
For today, lets ask ourselves as a way of being conscious of what our actions are doing to our relationship and marriage.
Here are 20 questions to ask yourself as a guy or lady in your relationship that will make you know whether you are fighting against or fighting for your relationship or marriage. Let these serve as a check list for us all at all times.
1. When you start your relationship or marriage without involving God.
Are you fighting against or fighting for your relationship and marriage?
2. When you keep your past as secret from your fiancé/fiancee or your spouse.
Are you fighting against or fighting for your relationship and marriage?
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