what to do if you are shy to face him/her

You see someone across the room and you know instantly - they're the hottest person your eyes have ever come across, and you must meet them. So you gather your courage, casually walk on over, and...s-s-s-st-st-a-m-m-e-r. Your face flushes, your pulse quickens and the thought of actually getting a single word out seems totally impossible. You, my friend, are shy - and you’re not alone.

No matter how smart or sexy or confident we are, it’s likely that we’ve all experienced shyness at some point in our lives. The real problem arises when our shyness is so debilitating that we can’t overcome it and it actually stops us from moving forward. If that’s you - I’ve got two words for you: ”fake it!”   

That’s right, I want you to fake it until you make it. How? By having pre-established ideas for how to approach that guy or girl of your dreams. No spontaneity required, but they’ll never know (because you’ll have practiced and practiced until you have it down pat). And I’ll give you even more ideas about how to approach shy people if you’re not the one with the problem but they are.

3 Tips For Attracting (them) If YOU'RE the Shy One:

Role Player - If you’ve ever wanted to be an actor, this one is perfect for you. Come up with an image of who you think the coolest, sexiest person would be and how they would approach the object of your affection. What would they say? How would they act? Then, envision yourself as that person, and go through the motions. Make sure you have it all down before you approach your guy (practice in the mirror if you have to), and then go for it.

The Advice Seeker - Let’s pretend you’re in a clothing store and you see the cutest sales clerk. Here’s the perfect opportunity to use this technique. Ask his opinion on what you should get your friend for their birthday. This technique allows you to speak with the individual without seeming like you’re hitting on him/her, and you’re letting it be known you like and trust their taste!

The Innocent - For this one, you go up to your victim, er guy, and say right off the bat that you know this sounds like a pickup line, but really it’s not. Then, once they’re disarmed, tell him that he just really looks familiar and you wanted to figure out where you might know them from. This is perfect because it allows you to find out all about them (and vice versa), and by the end of the conversation, you’ll have established a rapport without ever having to put yourself on the line! for more isures romance and relationship please goto[url]www.smilesparadise.blogspot.com[/url]