Most men don't know the FIRST THING about how to take things to a "physical" level with a woman.
Here's why:
Let's say you've been out on a date with a woman, and you're now back at your place, having an enjoyable conversation.
You look over at her.
She looks back at you.
You want to kiss her.
She KNOWS that you want to kiss her.
You know that she is the one with all the power.
If you try to kiss her, and she pulls away, she might reject you forever.
If you DON'T try to kiss her, maybe it will happen later, or maybe she'll even kiss you...
The risk of being rejected FOREVER is so powerful and creates such fear that you decide to just "walk away" from the situation and hope something happens later.
Or, let's say that you've been out with a woman a few times, and you have just kissed her for the first time.
You know that she's enjoying it.
She knows that you want her.
You'd REALLY like to do more, but you're afraid that if you try, you'll be seen as "moving too fast", or even worse... a "pushy pervert".
You hate the idea of being rejected after you've invested all that time and come so far...
So you decide to stop and hope that maybe things will "heat back up" later.
Posted: at 9-08-2008 01:04 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
darkocean002 at 9-08-2008 02:20 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: vixenx on 9-08-2008 01:24 AM
So, what do u say guys?..................................is it true?
yea its true.. the fear of not having such oppurtunities sometimes would make a guy walk away and hope for the next time.. but it doesnt happen like that this days., for me, i dont always expect much in a first date xcept i see a green light.. ....................
Posted: at 9-08-2008 02:20 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
naijainct at 9-08-2008 03:49 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: vixenx on 9-08-2008 01:24 AM
So, what do u say guys?..................................is it true?
Yes. Somewhat true especially if she's the type u envisage building a relationship with. u wanna tread gently and not scare her off but the case might be different if u only fantasized a one night stand.
Posted: at 9-08-2008 03:49 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
So, what do u say guys?..................................is it true?
yea its true.. the fear of not having such oppurtunities sometimes would make a guy walk away and hope for the next time.. but it doesnt happen like that this days., for me, i dont always expect much in a first date xcept i see a green light.. ....................
green light? how
Posted: at 10-08-2008 07:06 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
darkocean002 at 10-08-2008 07:20 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: tender on 10-08-2008 07:06 PM
Quote from: darkocean002 on 9-08-2008 02:20 PM
Quote from: vixenx on 9-08-2008 01:24 AM
So, what do u say guys?..................................is it true?
yea its true.. the fear of not having such oppurtunities sometimes would make a guy walk away and hope for the next time.. but it doesnt happen like that this days., for me, i dont always expect much in a first date xcept i see a green light.. ....................
green light? how
if am certain she's folllowing da vibes.
Posted: at 10-08-2008 07:20 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
This' not fear as it were, its mere pretense 2b called a nice guy...................all u need do is 2 discern d ladies mood n body language so as 2 whether or not make a move 2 kiss.
Posted: at 12-08-2008 01:07 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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