Relationship Tips: The basic lovemaking skills everyone should know

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Whether you are just starting out on your sexual journey or you simply need to remind yourself about the basic things that matter in the bedroom, it is essential to know these things.

There are countless tips out there for how to have great sex, kinky sex, spontaneous sex, hotter sex and so on. We are all so focused on taking things a step further that we often forget the basics.

So, if you are about to have sex for the first time, or you simply need a refresher course to remind you that you are still doing things right, then read below.

1. Kissing is still a total turn on
Kissing is the fastest way to build arousal. Full-on make out sessions of three minutes or more work wonders for your sex life. It is very essential for foreplay/

2. No need to rush
When you hit the sheets, don’t rush to the finishing line or feel pressure “to perform”. Instead, focus on building a connection. Look into each other’s eyes, say each other’s name, stop occasionally and just kiss. Don’t try to recreate sexy scenes you’ve seen online or in videos as it can feel loveless and impersonal.

3. What to do with your hands
During a kiss, your hands should be as busy as your mouth. Start warming up your partner’s erogenous zones by running your fingertips across their cheeks, lips and jawline.

Men’s necks are very sensitive on the front, while women’s are more sensitive at the back. So, guys, to arouse your partner lift up her hair and drop a kiss on the nape of her neck. Ladies, kiss your man’s Adam’s Apple.

4. Watch porn
There is a taboo that women aren’t supposed to like porn, which couldn’t be further from the truth. There are so many different types, there will be something out there for you both to enjoy. While you watch, talk to your partner about what is turning you on and why. You may be surprised.

5. Know their body
With your partner, take it in turns to touch one another all over. It can be a stroke, massage, pinch or even a little bite. Encourage your partner to share which turns them on.

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