UK Based Guy Laments How His Nigerian Girlfriend Extorts Money From Him - Needs Advice

Date: 24-06-2016 1:47 pm (7 years ago) | Author: Bayo Nelson
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- at 24-06-2016 01:47 PM (7 years ago)
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A Naijapal based in the United Kingdom has bitterly recounted how his money goes down the drain to keep up his relationship with a Nigerian lady who is currently unemployed.
Read his story below:
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Hello Naijapals,
I'm a 28 years Old guy and live in the UK. So I've got this girl and we've been together for four years but she lives in Naija. Her's the problem, I work very hard, like very hard shifts of different jobs just to save up for my future. But my GF doesn't seem to get it, she doesn't make any money but lives large, she's a graduate but no job. I have sent money for this and that makeup school but apparently every girl does makeup in Nigeria now so competition is stiff. She doesn't work but buys her friends' aso ebi and travels to other states in the name of the wedding, all with my money. I don't even mind cos I love her, but it's beginning to tell on me cos I recently decided to evaluate how I spend my pay and I don't even enjoy as much as I should compared with how much I work. I have started to lie about how mjuch I earn to her now. So last night we was on the phone and she bluntly asked for a steady weekly allowance, that the economy is hard blah bla. I called my brother for his opinion this morning and his only reply was : bro, you better give her cos Lagos boys will give her"
Now I'm scared. I work too hard and I'm scared my money is going down the drain. if I keep giving her money she's never going to find a job, I don't even look as flamboyant as her sef and I don't want to lose her


Posted: at 24-06-2016 01:47 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- GermoDon at 24-06-2016 01:57 PM (7 years ago)
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U re nt seriou since u luv her and u dnt want to lose her so why do u nid help.guy mak i tel u and U b her big Mugu.somone out dia is chop dt kpomo.u re her mugu no 13
Posted: at 24-06-2016 01:57 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- beneno at 24-06-2016 02:00 PM (7 years ago)
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Guy Ni u know.even your brother Ni evil,him no need ur progress and as I read you now even empty 50 by 100ft land u never buy for Naija not to talk say u wan know how much for bag of smelt .woman is not property,guy try visit Naija go see wetin ur mates take pass u.instead of your brother to advice u to get out of the Armrobber one chance car u already entered he is advising u to keep spending in vain,mean while there is one guy servicing the babe,s kpekus there   Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 24-06-2016 02:00 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Donchijoz at 24-06-2016 02:19 PM (7 years ago)
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Mugu fall aruba chop. Guy,u hv been taken for a ride. You are inside one chance bus
Posted: at 24-06-2016 02:19 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eric2000 at 24-06-2016 02:36 PM (7 years ago)
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You are a complete idiot...find a woman in the u.k that is understanding to how things work there..This girl  is not committed to you and will never be committed to you. She is committed to your money and that commitment will shift to anybody that has money..If you think that since you last saw her she has not had sex with any other man then you must be using hard drugs..SHINE YOUR, EYES,SHE IS A NAIJA BABE AND YOU ARE THE ATM....
Posted: at 24-06-2016 02:36 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osarobo62 at 24-06-2016 02:59 PM (7 years ago)
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when you show me the gun she point to your head,...then i will know how to advice you. in the mean time, keep on paying.
Posted: at 24-06-2016 02:59 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- dickieponga at 24-06-2016 03:05 PM (7 years ago)
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If to say i be woman na dis kin mugu i go like... Those kin women too plenty for naija and some of dem dey pray make dem catch mugu like u..
U stupid fool u don become meal ticket, why u no marry person wey dey London. I no ur type, guys like u go look like tramp but una investment na on top woman.. Let me be honest with u, i no u well well and i no say Kabukabu dey poke dat girl and in fact na im give dat girl idea make e ask for weekly allowance.. Chai u don suffer my guy and to be honest ur broda sef fit dey chop d girl even follow am plan make dem chop u..
Guy u no smart at all..
Na god catch u cos i tell u say make u borrow me till my pay day u tell me say u no get and i no say u get.
I no dis yeye guy wey dey complain na real idiot e be, abeg make una leave make e suffer well well..If i tell u how many guys dat same girl don chop
u no go blive me...Na people like u dey hang deresef over yeye woman.. U r a FOOL...
Posted: at 24-06-2016 03:05 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- abbeyoflondon at 24-06-2016 03:15 PM (7 years ago)
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My brother, my advice to you is to prayerfully ask God if this lady is for you.  Going by all your explanations concerning this girl, I want to believe that she is just seeing you as one of the ATMs or her "Mugu".  You just have to call yourself to order before she ruins your future for you.  There are serious ladies all around in UK and even in Nigeria when you are set to marry.  Bros, I know money is hard to come by in UK as they do tell us, so why wasting that money on someone who is not ready to reason with you.  Be wise please.  God bless you and your toiling day and night will not be in vain.
Posted: at 24-06-2016 03:15 PM (7 years ago) | Newbie
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- Jeonleon at 24-06-2016 03:50 PM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: victor   on 24-06-2016 02:59 PM
when you show me the gun she point to your head,...then i will know how to advice you. in the mean time, keep on paying.



Hahahahahhhaaaa...
Posted: at 24-06-2016 03:50 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gogoman at 24-06-2016 04:08 PM (7 years ago)
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you be internet/ phone maga na!! just dey wire money up and down, yeye pikin .. WAKE UP!! Roll Eyes
Posted: at 24-06-2016 04:08 PM (7 years ago) | Grande Master
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- luckingto50 at 24-06-2016 04:19 PM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: dickieponga on 24-06-2016 03:05 PM
If to say i be woman na dis kin mugu i go like... Those kin women too plenty for naija and some of dem dey pray make dem catch mugu like u..
U stupid fool u don become meal ticket, why u no marry person wey dey London. I no ur type, guys like u go look like tramp but una investment na on top woman.. Let me be honest with u, i no u well well and i no say Kabukabu dey poke dat girl and in fact na im give dat girl idea make e ask for weekly allowance.. Chai u don suffer my guy and to be honest ur broda sef fit dey chop d girl even follow am plan make dem chop u..
Guy u no smart at all..
Na god catch u cos i tell u say make u borrow me till my pay day u tell me say u no get and i no say u get.
I no dis yeye guy wey dey complain na real idiot e be, abeg make una leave make e suffer well well..If i tell u how many guys dat same girl don chop
u no go blive me...Na people like u dey hang deresef over yeye woman.. U r a FOOL...

Hmmmm my brother u vex oh! The way d tin take pain u fr body just be like say make u swallow d guy.
Posted: at 24-06-2016 04:19 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- michaelc80 at 24-06-2016 04:24 PM (7 years ago)
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NEXT TIME Y'ALL SHOULD BE VERY VERY CAREFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...
Posted: at 24-06-2016 04:24 PM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- EDDYPRINCE at 24-06-2016 04:25 PM (7 years ago)
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MUMU SHOW ME THE GUN SHE SHOW U,,,,
Posted: at 24-06-2016 04:25 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- luckingto50 at 24-06-2016 04:27 PM (7 years ago)
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Wo Huh?men of nowadays re not to be trusted because they will eat ur money whereas another guy is at d corner enjoying d LONDON meaning honeypot so be wise and shorn dis ur luv wantintin.
Posted: at 24-06-2016 04:27 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- djnero at 24-06-2016 05:36 PM (7 years ago)
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Mumu nai u be..are there girls in the uk? my guy leave her for its not too late.
Posted: at 24-06-2016 05:36 PM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Toks-E at 24-06-2016 05:46 PM (7 years ago)
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Bro, serouisly? Your babe is not working and she is living flamboyantly with your cash whilst you are not and you didn't see anything wrong with the relationship until now?
Don't know what your problem is maybe you have been charmed or something

Posted: at 24-06-2016 05:46 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kp45 at 24-06-2016 06:21 PM (7 years ago)
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Ok
Posted: at 24-06-2016 06:21 PM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dickieponga at 24-06-2016 06:27 PM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: z4 Beamer on 24-06-2016 05:46 PM
Bro, serouisly? Your babe is not working and she is living flamboyantly with your cash whilst you are not and you didn't see anything wrong with the relationship until now?
Don't know what your problem is maybe you have been charmed or something
Oh boy longtime na ur eye be dis how life na..Nice to see u again..
Posted: at 24-06-2016 06:27 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- dickieponga at 24-06-2016 06:30 PM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: mr gogo on 24-06-2016 04:08 PM
you be internet/ phone maga na!! just dey wire money up and down, yeye pikin .. WAKE UP!! Roll Eyes

My guy i no no say people like dis dey London sha and i get one sister wey fine na her job be dis...
Chai abeg if anybody get dis guy number make una hala me...
Posted: at 24-06-2016 06:30 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- kison at 24-06-2016 06:30 PM (7 years ago)
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NEXT TIME BE careful, be very very careful, CAREFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL……………………………….
Posted: at 24-06-2016 06:30 PM (7 years ago) | Hero
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