“My Wife’s Lover Gave My Child His Name” – Man Tells Court

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at 12:18 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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A divorce seeker, F. Ojikutu told an Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Friday that his child was named after his wife’s lover. He said the alleged lover’s name is Temitope.

He said although the lover was not physically present, he sent in the name.

Ojikutu urged the court to grant his wife’s request for the dissolution of the five-year-old marriage, calling her an adulterous wife.

“On the day of the child’s naming, her lover, Temitope, sent a name (Temitope) to be given the baby,” he alleged.

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the wife, Olaide, 29, a trader, had filed a suit seeking to end to the marriage because her husband allegedly denied the paternity of the boy.

Ojikutu, a 37-year-old businessman, also told the court that his wife must have been impregnated by her lover.

“My wife is unfaithful, she made love to her lover while she was pregnant.

I discovered this when she slept off after chatting on Facebook. What attracted me to the chat was my name that I saw on the screen and I was curious to read their conversation.

Her lover told her that he enjoyed the s*x they had together and my pregnant wife also appreciated him for giving her a good s*x.

Because of their chat, I denied the paternity of the baby from the womb up till now because I am not sure I am the baby’s biological father.

Also in that chat, my wife told her lover everything about me, my full name, where I work and where the guy can locate me and since that day I became afraid because I do not know what they were up to.

When I informed her mother about her daughter’s conversation with a man, she told me that I was lucky that her daughter did not bring the man to our matrimonial bed,”
he said.
Ojikutu accused the woman of being uncaring as she usually starves him of food.

“She does not cook; instead she goes to her mother’s shop to assist her in selling. Anytime I call her mother to release her to come home, she will tell me that her daughter is not a slave. So I wash my son’s school uniform and also do the cooking. I am also fed up with the union,” he added.

The wife also gave her own account:

When I was carrying my second pregnancy, my husband saw my chat with my male friend on Facebook and accused me of dating him.

He told me that he will not accept the baby because he believed that the man I was chatting with impregnated me.

So he kept to his word and refused to accept the baby so my family took up the responsibility of the boy who is now two years old.


Olaide said her husband was envious of men being around her and prevented her from working so that other men would not go after her.

“I got a job in a bank but my husband did not allow me to take up the job and he is always monitoring my movement. Any time I go out and I did not come home before 4PM. he will lock me out,” she added.

She urged the court to dissolve the marriage.

The court’s President, Adegboyega Omilola, directed the two parties to go for a possible reconciliation with their relations.

He adjourned the case to July 26 for further hearing.



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morgan1 at 12:29 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
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kison at 12:54 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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ONE OF THE MAIN REASON WHY PPL SHOULD be careful, PLS be very very careful, CAREFULLLLLLLLLL……………………..
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christianity at 01:22 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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if both of u are tired of each oda,den its beta to part ways.
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EDDYPRINCE at 01:41 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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WAHALA DEY OOO
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slimmygal at 02:26 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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its better make dem scattered una marriage if una two don tire.
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danielsony at 02:33 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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Bad condition,
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CHRISETTE at 02:36 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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For real?
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osarobo62 at 02:42 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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Amadioha forbid bad thing.!
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sandra78 at 03:24 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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Ojikutu...That name is for tough men ooo  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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GermoDon at 03:37 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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Yoruba wives
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kp45 at 04:41 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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 Huh?
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privacy at 07:36 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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Since u were married,y would u chat wit guys on facebk like u were stil single,u no try 
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beneno at 09:02 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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E be like say the population of cheating housewives high for Lagos  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
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anitajoseph at 09:29 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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Prostitute wife
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gogoman at 09:36 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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fck u man!!!
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OLUCHI5 at 09:48 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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why na? person wife for that matter.
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zoe61 at 11:41 PM, 16 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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family matter  i waka pass
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dickieponga at 02:27 AM, 17 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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E good as u deny d pikin as well, just let her go.
Some women think d grass is greener on d other side...
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scottchris at 12:33 PM, 17 Jul 16 (1 year ago)
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Ups and down associated with marriages..... Let jesus pilot your marital affairs.... May God help us

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