Why Do Women Put Up With Abuse?

Date: 20-03-2010 11:30 am (14 years ago) | Author: kiNG
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Women consistently put up with abuse for several reasons. One is their own upbringing which tells them that man is superior and they have to depend on them for a living. Also, the way they were treated as children. They often hold themselves responsible for the abuse even if it has been inflicted by a parent or anyone else.

A lot of women all over the world are subject to domestic violence and yet they do not leave the relationship. The victims of domestic violence are highly resistant to change. Also, the abuser lives like a phantom in the victim's mind and the victim will refuse to do anything without the consent of the abuser.

Women as victims go through several changes in their thinking pattern. They eventually start believing that they are no good, they are not a real person and also they cannot do anything better. All these things are actually a result of the brain washing the abuser has inflicted on the victims.

Domestic violence is an extremely destructive relationship for the woman to have. The sooner she gets out, the better for her. The woman who is in a domestic violence relationship is battered, insulted, humiliated, and controlled. Simultaneously she hopes the partner will change, she believes that trying harder can bring about a change, always feeling that she is walking on egg shells. She also feels that she has no place to go and also is scared of living without support.

These are some of the reasons why she would never leave a relationship.


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- esonu at 20-03-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago)
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make i come

Posted: at 20-03-2010 11:36 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- vantheo at 20-03-2010 12:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Passing

Posted: at 20-03-2010 12:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- MrDon at 20-03-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago)
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brb
Posted: at 20-03-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 20-03-2010 01:38 PM (14 years ago)
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lol why are y'all running?
Posted: at 20-03-2010 01:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onchedu at 20-03-2010 01:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Not sure but some have good reasons for doing so that can be justified. Others are just being plain stupid.
Posted: at 20-03-2010 01:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 20-03-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago)
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They have been beaten out of sense?Huh?

Posted: at 20-03-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 20-03-2010 03:12 PM (14 years ago)
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kkk

Posted: at 20-03-2010 03:12 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 20-03-2010 03:15 PM (14 years ago)
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lol

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- chik001 at 20-03-2010 08:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: pkingx on 20-03-2010 11:30 AM


Women consistently put up with abuse for several reasons. One is their own upbringing which tells them that man is superior and they have to depend on them for a living. Also, the way they were treated as children. They often hold themselves responsible for the abuse even if it has been inflicted by a parent or anyone else.

A lot of women all over the world are subject to domestic violence and yet they do not leave the relationship. The victims of domestic violence are highly resistant to change. Also, the abuser lives like a phantom in the victim's mind and the victim will refuse to do anything without the consent of the abuser.

Women as victims go through several changes in their thinking pattern. They eventually start believing that they are no good, they are not a real person and also they cannot do anything better. All these things are actually a result of the brain washing the abuser has inflicted on the victims.

Domestic violence is an extremely destructive relationship for the woman to have. The sooner she gets out, the better for her. The woman who is in a domestic violence relationship is battered, insulted, humiliated, and controlled. Simultaneously she hopes the partner will change, she believes that trying harder can bring about a change, always feeling that she is walking on egg shells. She also feels that she has no place to go and also is scared of living without support.

These are some of the reasons why she would never leave a relationship.


Na african woman be that o... Onyibo women no care!!
Posted: at 20-03-2010 08:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Chyno at 20-03-2010 09:07 PM (14 years ago)
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We've suffered, oya babes mk we revolt oo, lol.
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- preciouslyme at 21-03-2010 07:13 AM (14 years ago)
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I'm curious as to why the poster put this up, is a close friend being abused or are you the abuser?
Posted: at 21-03-2010 07:13 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- handsomeemmy1 at 21-03-2010 07:32 AM (14 years ago)
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Lol

Posted: at 21-03-2010 07:32 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pkingx at 21-03-2010 04:16 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: preciouslyme on 21-03-2010 07:13 AM
I'm curious as to why the poster put this up, is a close friend being abused or are you the abuser?

Lol, sorry 2 disappoint u...am not d abuser or d abused...lol. But i hav dis cousin dating dis very beautiful and very decent girl u kno the one i'll love to call a wife material in all ramifikationz but my gorilla lookin cousin keeps treating dis young girl like a piece of trash; rarely call, dont send sms at all and rarely take her out or buy her stuffs u know but dis girl is so attached to him that i can't help but wonder wat must b her problem u know. My guy gets friendly when he wants to have sex (not make luv) and my young lady won't stop spreading d gospel of how much his love has knocked her off her feet. u kno its funny cos i hv been watching them for months and i see things for myself.

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- pkingx at 21-03-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 20-03-2010 01:53 PM
Not sure but some have good reasons for doing so that can be justified. Others are just being plain stupid.

think u hav a good point there

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- myragonza at 21-03-2010 04:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: chik001 on 20-03-2010 08:45 PM
Quote from: pkingx on 20-03-2010 11:30 AM


Women consistently put up with abuse for several reasons. One is their own upbringing which tells them that man is superior and they have to depend on them for a living. Also, the way they were treated as children. They often hold themselves responsible for the abuse even if it has been inflicted by a parent or anyone else.

A lot of women all over the world are subject to domestic violence and yet they do not leave the relationship. The victims of domestic violence are highly resistant to change. Also, the abuser lives like a phantom in the victim's mind and the victim will refuse to do anything without the consent of the abuser.

Women as victims go through several changes in their thinking pattern. They eventually start believing that they are no good, they are not a real person and also they cannot do anything better. All these things are actually a result of the brain washing the abuser has inflicted on the victims.

Domestic violence is an extremely destructive relationship for the woman to have. The sooner she gets out, the better for her. The woman who is in a domestic violence relationship is battered, insulted, humiliated, and controlled. Simultaneously she hopes the partner will change, she believes that trying harder can bring about a change, always feeling that she is walking on egg shells. She also feels that she has no place to go and also is scared of living without support.

These are some of the reasons why she would never leave a relationship.


Na african woman be that o... Onyibo women no care!!

wrong...there are many onyibos who went thru worse abuse than an average african woman....

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- pkingx at 21-03-2010 04:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Chyno on 20-03-2010 09:07 PM
We've suffered, oya babes mk we revolt oo, lol.

pls b diplomatic about d revolt

Posted: at 21-03-2010 04:19 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- pkingx at 21-03-2010 04:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: myragonza on 21-03-2010 04:19 PM
Quote from: chik001 on 20-03-2010 08:45 PM
Quote from: pkingx on 20-03-2010 11:30 AM


Women consistently put up with abuse for several reasons. One is their own upbringing which tells them that man is superior and they have to depend on them for a living. Also, the way they were treated as children. They often hold themselves responsible for the abuse even if it has been inflicted by a parent or anyone else.

A lot of women all over the world are subject to domestic violence and yet they do not leave the relationship. The victims of domestic violence are highly resistant to change. Also, the abuser lives like a phantom in the victim's mind and the victim will refuse to do anything without the consent of the abuser.

Women as victims go through several changes in their thinking pattern. They eventually start believing that they are no good, they are not a real person and also they cannot do anything better. All these things are actually a result of the brain washing the abuser has inflicted on the victims.

Domestic violence is an extremely destructive relationship for the woman to have. The sooner she gets out, the better for her. The woman who is in a domestic violence relationship is battered, insulted, humiliated, and controlled. Simultaneously she hopes the partner will change, she believes that trying harder can bring about a change, always feeling that she is walking on egg shells. She also feels that she has no place to go and also is scared of living without support.

These are some of the reasons why she would never leave a relationship.


Na african woman be that o... Onyibo women no care!!

wrong...there are many onyibos who went thru worse abuse than an average african woman....


tel him! ...i hav a friend, mum is canadian n pop is 9ja ...d man is a complete junky yet d woman stood firmly by him till he eventually passed on.

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- pkingx at 21-03-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 20-03-2010 03:11 PM
They have been beaten out of sense?Huh?


lol

Posted: at 21-03-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- aussiegirl at 21-03-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 20-03-2010 11:36 AM
make i come

i have in the past been in
abusive relationships,
ive had more bones broken than i have had xmas dinners.
i dont drive so leaving has always been a factor.
scared for ur life,and that of ur kids,
is another.
locked in a house with bars on the windows is another
having a sawn off dble barrel shotgun to ur head and
ur 18mth old daughter is another.
we dont put up with it coz we want too.
sumtimes we are in a position where we cant go.
as police dont want to be involved in domestics.
unless its violent,or weapons involved.
now adays i take no shit from no one
male or female,doesnt worry me.
i am prepared to fight.
being hunted down,by ur ex,
and always looking over ur shoulder aint no fun neither.
why do men feel they have to treat a woman this way,
honestly do we deserve it.
NO,NO NO
we dont,
it gives men power,to be in control,
to make a woman feel inferior.
especially if she is terrified.
Posted: at 21-03-2010 05:31 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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