Dissolve My Marriage, I Want To Go To School - 17yrs Old Newly Married Bride Cries Out

Date: 08-03-2017 6:56 am (7 years ago) | Author: kacy lee
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A 17-year-old girl, Fatima Baba, has appealed to the Niger Child Right Protection Agency to dissolve her one-month-old marriage. Fatima, who is married to 35-year-old Salihu Mohammed, told the agency on Tuesday in Minna, that she was no more in love with her husband, a resident of Shaba Legbo village in Gbako Local Government Area of the state. She pleaded with the agency to dissolve her marriage to enable her further her education. “I was given in marriage to Salihu by my family, who thought I will have a better life with him. “I do not want this marriage; I do not love this man. I want a divorce because I want to go to school and it is only when I am divorced that I can return to school,” she said. In his response, Mohammed said that he married his wife legally, and with the consent of her family. He said that Malam Salihu Mustapha, his wife’s uncle, gave her to him in marriage after she consented. “At first, my wife was happy with the marriage until she suddenly changed her mind and opted for a divorce. “I still love my wife and I want to spend my life with her, but if she wants a divorce, I have no objection. I cannot force her to remain in the union,” he said. Malam Halilu Shaba, the District Head of Shaba Legbo, in his reaction, told the agency that parents in the community were fond of forcing their children into early marriage. “Some also send their children to become house-maids, thereby denying them the opportunity to go to school,” he said. He commended the agency for its intervention, adding that such step would serve as deterrent to parents. The Director-General of the agency, Hajiya Maryam Kolo, commended Fatima for the courage to seek for divorce, and gave both families a two-week ultimatum within which to dissolve the marriage. “If you fail to do so within the two weeks, the agency will file for divorce on behalf of the girl in a Sharia Court,” she said. Kolo warned parents and community leaders against forcing children into early marriage thereby denying them the opportunity to acquire western education. She said that early marriage had many disadvantages including the risk of Vesico honeypotl Fistula (VVF) diseases. Kolo advised other girls to emulate Fatima’s bravery and report similar matters to the agency. 



Posted: at 8-03-2017 06:56 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- 24magic at 8-03-2017 07:19 AM (7 years ago)
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#biglesson
Posted: at 8-03-2017 07:19 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jeroba1 at 8-03-2017 07:37 AM (7 years ago)
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child marriage is not allow.
Posted: at 8-03-2017 07:37 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Larry28 at 8-03-2017 08:23 AM (7 years ago)
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Why are they forcing all this kids to marriage nah, i tire for all this northerns o
Posted: at 8-03-2017 08:23 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- Mykie010 at 8-03-2017 08:53 AM (7 years ago)
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I no wan hear that north at all,very backward people
Posted: at 8-03-2017 08:53 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- felicilin at 8-03-2017 09:12 AM (7 years ago)
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thats Northern ways of life, am not surprised
Posted: at 8-03-2017 09:12 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- emytex74 at 8-03-2017 09:31 AM (7 years ago)
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Only in the north
Posted: at 8-03-2017 09:31 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kacylee at 8-03-2017 09:34 AM (7 years ago)
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THIS CHILD MARRIAGE ISSUE SHOULD BE ADDRESSED AS A MATTER OF URGENCY Cool

Posted: at 8-03-2017 09:34 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- akinmanchy at 8-03-2017 11:10 AM (7 years ago)
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Na wa for those northerners

Posted: at 8-03-2017 11:10 AM (7 years ago) | Hero
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- OLOWOBABA10 at 8-03-2017 11:53 AM (7 years ago)
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I PITY THE GIRL
Posted: at 8-03-2017 11:53 AM (7 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sugarbaby2392 at 10-03-2017 03:34 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: 24magic on  8-03-2017 07:19 AM
#biglesson
chai
Posted: at 10-03-2017 03:34 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugarbaby2392 at 10-03-2017 03:35 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: jeroba1 on  8-03-2017 07:37 AM
child marriage is not allow.
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hmmm
Posted: at 10-03-2017 03:35 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugarbaby2392 at 10-03-2017 03:35 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Larry28 on  8-03-2017 08:23 AM
Why are they forcing all this kids to marriage nah, i tire for all this northerns o
no mind them
Posted: at 10-03-2017 03:35 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugarbaby2392 at 10-03-2017 03:36 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: Mykie010 on  8-03-2017 08:53 AM
I no wan hear that north at all,very backward people
Cry Cry Cry Cry
Posted: at 10-03-2017 03:36 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugarbaby2392 at 10-03-2017 03:36 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: felicilin on  8-03-2017 09:12 AM
thats Northern ways of life, am not surprised
u no lie ooo
Posted: at 10-03-2017 03:36 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugarbaby2392 at 10-03-2017 03:36 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: emytex74 on  8-03-2017 09:31 AM
Only in the north
yep
Posted: at 10-03-2017 03:36 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugarbaby2392 at 10-03-2017 03:37 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: kacylee on  8-03-2017 09:34 AM
THIS CHILD MARRIAGE ISSUE SHOULD BE ADDRESSED AS A MATTER OF URGENCY Cool
lol
Posted: at 10-03-2017 03:37 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugarbaby2392 at 10-03-2017 03:37 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: akinmanchy on  8-03-2017 11:10 AM
Na wa for those northerners
Cry Cry Cry
Posted: at 10-03-2017 03:37 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugarbaby2392 at 10-03-2017 03:38 AM (7 years ago)
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Quote from: OLOWOBABA10 on  8-03-2017 11:53 AM
I PITY THE GIRL
na so
Posted: at 10-03-2017 03:38 AM (7 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- BournIdentity at 29-03-2017 11:13 AM (7 years ago)
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Roll Eyes
     
Posted: at 29-03-2017 11:13 AM (7 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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