Why Did TBoss Choose To Sleep In The Same Bed With Him? - Caroline Defends Kemen For 'GROPING' TBoss

This is just what am talking about. funny enough it's coming from a lady. Tboss was on the same bed with him, she didn't strike back after Kemen's touch. She didn't even see the need to report the incident to big brother. As a matter of fact, it was big brother who after watching the video clip, took it upon himself to ask Tboss if Kemen's action was consented. Are we saying Tboss is too small to know the meaning of abuse? common lets be realistic here. A wise man once said "what you don't want, you don't watch" if Tboss never wanted it, she would have reacted just like what this lady rightly said. It is not all ladies that are segxwally harassed by their bosses in the office. It all depends on your disposition. as a matter of fact, there are ladies whose bosses are too scared to say certain things to because they know she won't take it. They even advice their friends to keep off such ladies because they already know her response. In this life if you dont stand for something, you will fall for anything.

Posted: at 20-04-2017 09:40 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well said

Posted: at 20-04-2017 10:17 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 20-04-2017 02:20 PM (6 years ago) | Hero

Very articulate.
Question though, not in this particular case (never watched or cared for the nugatory show anyways) but you do realize people get traumatized, right? If someone gets raped, and doesn't scream but reports it later and it is confirmed, does it make it consensual or does that mean they liked/enjoyed it? And you do realize this is why most cases of rape go unreported because the victims think nobody is going to believe them. People are different and have different ways of reacting to certain traumatic events. You can't compare the Pope to Trump, polar opposites. Calm, collected vs brash and inarticulate. Instead of focusing on why did the victim not do this or do that, why not focus on why the purp did what he did?

Posted: at 20-04-2017 05:58 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

my friend, I understand your position and I do appreciate your line of thought. Fear could really be a challenge to an abused person. What transpired that day is one unfortunate incident that will linger in the minds of Nigerians for a long time. My concern now is that, I hope both parties and Nigerians at large learns from it. Thanks for sharing your opinion.

Posted: at 20-04-2017 07:16 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You. I like you.

Posted: at 20-04-2017 07:57 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

Caroline dis matter concern u.

Posted: at 20-04-2017 09:40 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac