MARRIAGE

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at 12:05 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Why do parents so get involved in the love life of their children, to the extent of telling them not to marry anyone xcept from their own tribe? is this a proper thing to do? :'(
mazi at 12:39 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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i never had a mother like dat....my old woman was detribalised....my 5sistas married accross naija....based on their choice of men.
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williewillie at 01:15 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 12:39 PM,  2 Sep 08
i never had a mother like dat....my old woman was detribalised....my 5sistas married accross naija....based on their choice of men.


mazi anyone still remain Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Wink Wink
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williewillie at 01:18 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Our parents shd PLZ allow their kids to browse across naija and beyond for their choice.......
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mazi at 01:20 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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u r very late....my sistas r so beautiful and good mannered....so they were hot cake....they r all happily married with grown up kids.....sorry.
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mazi at 01:21 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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give them reason to trust u and ur judgement....dats all.
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philomena87 at 01:22 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: mary01 on 12:05 PM,  2 Sep 08
Why do parents so get involved in the love life of their children, to the extent of telling them not to marry anyone xcept from their own tribe? is this a proper thing to do? :'(
my parents are not like tat .. but parents actin tat way are selfish and maybe they were treated also tat way and it worked so maybe they thought tat will go same wit their children
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mazi at 01:26 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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well....some do it bcos they bear there daughter being too far....just out of love....but not realising the full implications.
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williewillie at 01:29 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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@mazi.....i dont mind any of the grown-ups .....atleast let me become ur inlaw Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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Sheeroz at 01:47 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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well my parents are not like that. in fact their opinion does not count as far as who i'll bring home is concerned. All they want is for me to be happy(so they have said) and they will accept the man that i will introduce to them. And the know better 'im stubborn as hell so goin against me is not a very good idea...
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C-boy at 01:59 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: philomena87 on 01:22 PM,  2 Sep 08
Quote from: mary01 on 12:05 PM,  2 Sep 08
Why do parents so get involved in the love life of their children, to the extent of telling them not to marry anyone xcept from their own tribe? is this a proper thing to do? :'(
my parents are not like tat .. but parents actin tat way are selfish and maybe they were treated also tat way and it worked so maybe they thought tat will go same wit their children
Selfish might be 2 harsh. Sometimes they r simply Over-protective. They also tend to believe they r more experienced in such matters...and most times, it's a matter of tribalistic orientation

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mazi at 02:00 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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i still believe dat if u introduce someone they don't like his aura....they r not gonna stay quiet even if they allow it to pass...as parents they will voice there opinion.
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mazi at 02:01 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Sheeroz on 01:47 PM,  2 Sep 08
well my parents are not like that. in fact their opinion does not count as far as who i'll bring home is concerned. All they want is for me to be happy(so they have said) and they will accept the man that i will introduce to them. And the know better 'im stubborn as hell so goin against me is not a very good idea...
dats telling something.
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Sheeroz at 02:04 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 02:01 PM,  2 Sep 08
Quote from: Sheeroz on 01:47 PM,  2 Sep 08
well my parents are not like that. in fact their opinion does not count as far as who i'll bring home is concerned. All they want is for me to be happy(so they have said) and they will accept the man that i will introduce to them. And the know better 'im stubborn as hell so goin against me is not a very good idea...
dats telling something.

somethin like what?
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williewillie at 02:06 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Sheeroz on 01:47 PM,  2 Sep 08
well my parents are not like that. in fact their opinion does not count as far as who i'll bring home is concerned. All they want is for me to be happy(so they have said) and they will accept the man that i will introduce to them. And the know better 'im stubborn as hell so goin against me is not a very good idea...


lucky u....... Grin Grin Grin Grin
am afraid of the underline.....................
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mazi at 02:08 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Sheeroz on 02:04 PM,  2 Sep 08
Quote from: mazi on 02:01 PM,  2 Sep 08
Quote from: Sheeroz on 01:47 PM,  2 Sep 08
well my parents are not like that. in fact their opinion does not count as far as who i'll bring home is concerned. All they want is for me to be happy(so they have said) and they will accept the man that i will introduce to them. And the know better 'im stubborn as hell so goin against me is not a very good idea...
dats telling something.

somethin like what?
the underlined......means....alot. Roll Eyes
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Sheeroz at 02:15 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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yes i am stubborn and actually cool except when someone starts giving me ultimatums hehe...thats  where trouble begins
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mazi at 02:22 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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depending were u r coming 4rm....b4 the ultimatum.
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Sheeroz at 02:28 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Don't get me wrong.... if I'm on the wrong I'll own up and apologize but if its just to satisfy someone's ego heck no count me out.
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07035729923 at 02:34 PM, 2 Sep 08 (9 years ago)
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Is very good to married someone that u love....... is advisable
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